What stage of ego are you in?

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[gurudra]

The ego lives in the tension between what you are and what you want to be

[hayleysan]

I needed to hear the fluctuation part! I'm not regressing, I'm fluctuating! Thank you.

[giniroserealestate]

I thought that going backwards meant I wasn't doing the work or working hard enough, but perhaps I'm just fluctuating which is normal. Thank you!!

[BelIax]

Yes, I definitely fluctuate between 2 and 3. I'm always proud of my 3 moments and try to be compassionate towards my 2s

[racheltuati]

Fluctuating between 2 and 3 is where I'm currently holding. Thanks for this video.

[brittneyspringfield]

So happy you mentioned the fluctuation! I was discouraged when I do react but more often then not, I am starting to observe and respond in a more peaceful way. Thanks for all the great information!

[LOninaVE]

Dr. Nicole, I truly thank God for you. I decided to leave my five year relationship after stumbling upon your ig page, learning about my past traumas (thru your work) and understanding how those traumas showed up in my relationship. Because of your work, deep seeded healing began and liberated me from those narrations. Although I am still learning and witnessing, I am making the choices to think and behave differently. I am closer to peace than I was even 1 month ago. Thank you a thousand times over💕

[khicks]

I do believe I am closer to 3 but fluctuate between 2 and 3 like you said when in triggering situations. I am able to feel proud of myself now because of how I react now compared to how I used to react. I am able to validate myself more compared to needing anothers validation. Your videos and Instagram came into my life at an amazing time, thank you 🙌

[challietube]

Brilliant ! I’m definitely fluctuating between 2 and 3 . But I did manage to change a reaction the other day . So proud of me .

[Faim]

I’m starting a phase in my life where I am in responsive stage 🙏

[trytoloveunlovedpeople]

I fluctuate between all 4 💗🙏🏼 but then again I have been doing this by myself, and can’t wait till we don’t have to anymore.

[winter_s_]

I am a little emotional right now because I was having the hardest time understanding the concept of not being my ego. Nothing I ever read or listened to made me understand it in practical terms. But the notion that we are the “witnessers” of our egos and that we are consciousness watching the stories the ego runs out of old hurts has made me understand it in a way I never have.

I guess this is why there are so many teachers out there (in addition to trying to raise the vibration of the planet more rapidly), because where one teacher fails to resonate with you, another one eventually will. Thank you very much.

[iolanthefitzgerald]

I've been talking a lot with my partner about responding from a place of ego, which we both do. This video was super timely!

[MichaelPutsch]

Dr. Nicole- your videos help a lot! The inner life/Journey is the real one.
( You make me proud to be from Philly. You GO GIRL!)

[maridevi]

I used to feel like I was going to be in reactionary mode forever. Once I started practicing Love and Compassion for Self then I began observing conscious responsiveness. During a recent conversation that would normally elicit a reaction, I found myself in, as Nicole says, Witness Mode. It is incredibly powerful to find a new system based in loving oneself overriding old and and now unnecessary defensive mechanisms. This is a huge step for me in taking my power back. Blessings to all of you Self Healers out there. 💜

[sandrajovic]

I find when I let go of suppressed pain and anger, the ego turns to confidence. I can't stress enough, (even always reminding myself) the importance of letting it all out and "getting things off your chest". Weather with a person u feel safe with or writing a journal.
I realize I'm saying some things you've already touched on, but in different words... But I appreciate the work you do and it helps (me) a whole lot, so thank you so much❤

[imaniford]

This was one of the most useful videos I have read. It's helped me forgive some of my emotional reactivity, but it also helps me see that I am often in pain when I am in stages 1 or 2. I'm still working on being more responsive when certain wounds are triggered. Phew, it's a journey.

[benjames]

Best video yet! I don't have to feel like I am doing wrong going back and forth through stages. Thankyou. 🙂

[Michael-fnfu]

I have found as I float in and out and around these "stages" I thus learn more and more about this Consciousness and the shift that has and is still taking place, it's like some sort of cosmic inner dance 🙏🏽 thank you ✨

[francismontanez]

I am so glad that you state that is normal to fluctuate between steps 2 and 3 because I constantly catch myself in certain conversation being able to take a moment and think before reacting while in others of course the ones that trigger me the most are the ones I just react right away and latter think back like ugh I should have waited and thought this through!