How To Protect Your Words From Being Twisted In An Argument

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We’ve all had conversations that started out friendly, then suddenly turned into an argument that made us feel attacked. The other person twists your words and uses little tricks to try to make you look dumb.

So today we’re going to break down a conversation just like that between Andrew Tate and Piers Morgan, to show you how to defend yourself in any argument, even if the other person is determined to make you look bad.

This video is NOT endorsing either of these people, it’s simply an analysis to teach you the tactics some people use to assert dominance in an argument.


⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰

0:00 - Intro
0:30 - #1: Spot when they enter "fight mode"
1:14 - #2: Watch for misquoting
2:49 - #3: Beware of derailing interruptions
4:41 - #4: Don't steamroll concessions
5:57 - #5: Catch any logic gaps
7:34 - #6: Draw a conversational boundary
8:39 - #7: Acknowledge any common ground
9:40 - #8: Give yourself permission to change your mind
10:30 - Improve your confidence

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[Christian-jrgn]

Piers Morgan just made Tate look so much better than what he was trying to do lmao

[sarahs]

Staying calm and not letting your emotions overtake you in an argument is a huge advantage to keeping a clear head and responding efficiently. Easier said than done but extremely important.

[antoniorose]

“Understood Piers” exactly! I was having an argument with a coworker in which he repeatedly made contradictory statements in order to win. The best way to conclude is to just be content in your own view and accept that this person is not going to change for you. Showing respect, regardless of whether you respect the person!

[salbas]

Knowing how well to articulate one self and get over hard times is key to getting your head above waters. Most times in order to stay in check one would have to consistently keep improving and looking out for new ways and opportunities. Some of us have battles we are fighting inside but regardless we should stay strong and steadfast and keep your head up

[Yaboiduo]

Imagine a 10 year old watching this to win an argument with their siblings

Disclaimer: I was ten when I posted this and I’m not deleting it because it was relatable at the time pls don’t judge lol

[omarshehab]

It's interesting how Piers does that for a living but Andrew handled him profoundly.

[scoot]

Tate is one of the best communicators I have ever seen. Def a good study. Thanks

[Fusion]

1. Ver cuando entran a modo pelea (desde el inicio te etiquetan como un problema / pelean contigo antes de que puedas explicar tu punto de vista)
2. Ser consciente de cuando comienzan a manipular tus palabras y no permitirlo, aclarar a lo que te refieres.
3. Cuando comienza a interrumpir, hacer una pausa, decir que entiendo a la otra persona y pedirle por favor que no me interrumpa.
4. Mantenerse calmado y no interrumpir
5. Estar atentos a las fallas en su argumentación
6. Poner límites en la conversación (ser directo y no hablar de lo que no quiero hablar)
7. Primero establecer los puntos en común y luego discrepar
8. Ser abierto de mente (no ver el cambiar de opinión como una debilidad)

[thedude]

this is why your channel is great, instead of like a lot of other people dogpile on this debacle. you made a teachable moment out of it

[A_Wild_Dyzzy]

When I was a child my father would yell at me when I did something wrong. He was a good dad, but this caused me to develop a problem where I shut down when someone starts yelling at me. This channel has helped me get over that struggle and remain calm and not back down. I sincerely appreciate your videos.

[gipsybauski]

This video is so great. An objective, sober analysis of a conversation between two highly controversial persons where siding even a little bit with any one of them could get you ostracized. You managed to find something good in their behavior and their speech without codoning what each one of them stand for. Big respect for that! It takes skill to create informative content based on two people that many people don't want to touch with a then foot pole.

And the the level of detail is amazing. It's better than some expensive psychology courses.

[gridmatrix]

Well done looking objective on both parts, so we can learn both sides and the tools of charisma/ retosim. Enjoy how you calmly show each example right on the go.

[sultanmohammed]

Summary:
1-spot when they enter “fight mode”
2-watch a misquoting
3-beware of derailing interruptions
4-don’t steamroll concessions
5-catch any logic gaps
6-draw a conversational boundary
7-acknowledge and common ground
8-give yourself permission to change your mind

[ukervwc]

Piers looked just unprofessional, Andrew did an amazing job remaining calm and assertive

[T-StoryChannel]

This video is exactly what I needed to start my day on a positive note. It's a reminder that success comes to those who work hard and never give up. Thank you for this motivation!

[raquelsalvador]

I am downloading this to be better at argument. Since I am really bad at expressing myself, because i was always interrupted since i was young when i wanna make my point.

[bangwithcamino]

Solid breakdown. The reason Andrew didn't change his mind was because he still believes in the sentiment of the things he said. He just knows going forward, to have an impact with his words, he has to phrase them in a less emotionally triggering way because of his popularity. Piers couldn't get that and wanted him to recant. Not changing your mind, for Andrew benefits his brand.

[randyb]

Piers is just like that annoying lady who interviewed Jordan Peterson. "So what you're saying is " lol 😆

[visualizecreate]

I see what you did here by linking changing one’s mind to confidence!!! 💯

[sinthopmethiankit]

Thank you so much, my group chat always have arguments and most of them blame them on me an I feel sad but after I saw this video it helps me a lot with my arguments.