7 Signs Someone Secretly Likes You

In the popular Netflix Series "You," you may have witnessed what is called obsessive love, or obsession. “Obsessive love disorder” (OLD) refers to a condition where you become obsessed with one person you think you may be in love with. Obsession is unhealthy and can play tricks on you, leading to very bad outcomes. If you suspect that someone may be secretly obsessed or in love with you, psych2go provides 7 subtle signs someone likes you a little too much.

If you suspect that you may be obsessively in love with someone, we hope this video can bring some awareness to you, so that you can consider whether or not, it's worth getting professional help on. At one point in life, we may have all been a little too obsessive over someone who doesn't feel the same way back. If you're a victim of someone who's obsessed with you, we suggest getting outside support to help watch over you.

Writer: Michal Mitchell
Script Editor & Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice: Drew Baillie
Animator: Julie Ma
YouTube Manager: Cindy Cheong

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[Psychgo]

Have you liked someone so much you were not sure if it was an obsession or true love?

[mysteriousperson]

Time stamp!
0:39 They know things you've never told them
1:24 In love with the idea of you
2:14 They're often jealous
2:39 They won't stop texting you
3:19 They give you no time alone
3:49 Invading privacy cross boundaries
I hope y'all have a great weekend ☺️!

[omegaboostZ]

Unfortunately I tend to have a bit of that behavior as well. I just feel that being obsessive about someone or pursuing someone you're obsessed about is the only interesting relationship I want. It makes things far more interesting but at the same time, it's not a very healthy thing. I also had a few cases of women obsessing over me and it isn't very pleasant either.

Fortunately I do have good self-control so I never cross boundaries.

[_ruchi_]

I used to get obsessive in every relationship. hence people around me used to avoid me and I used to think that they just hate me but recently I got know the reason why they avoided me was because of my obsession. And now I am trying to change myself.

[SwordGuy]

This applies to friends too, not just romantic partners

[ethanmagbanua]

when someone likes you, it's such a great feeling because someone finds you attractive and you feel better about yourself.

[qgowhfs]

Timestamps:
0:39 #1 They know things you've never told them
1:23 #2 You feel they're in love with the idea of you than your true self
2:13 #3 They're often jealous
2:36 #4 They won't stop texting you
3:18 #5 They give you no time alone
3:48 #6 They invade you privacy and cross boundaries

[starchki]

I used to be in an obsessive relationship, it fit all of these signs, thankfully I was able to talk to my mom about it and she helped me get space. My ex has gotten help for her disorder and we are growing a friendship :)

[tjable]

I don't think I have ever been in this situation, but will watch for it when I make friends with people.

[reverbeddd]

Having someone, or rather, some people, be obsessed with you is actually way creepier than you think. Its worse especially if you're a nice person in general and can't say "no" to anyone. They suffocate you with their "love" and always demand its reciprocation. They get upset and gaslight you when you say that you have to leave them. It really is so sick... I'm so glad i got rid of some of those people from my life. I'm much at peace because of it.

[carlosforlen]

I absolutely love the Psyc2go community. So informative and accepting community I love watching these videos

[FazTheAmazz]

I know someone who has the majority of these signs towards me. He isn't my partner, but he won't stop obsessing despite the fsct that I've rejected him and am taken by someone else. Since he goes to the same school as me, and so does my partner, and there's only 6 students in the entire class of my highschool (private school), my partner and I have to keep our relationship hidden. I was tired one day and leaned on my partner's shoulder when we both had no work to do, and he would not stop glaring, and tried to make me feel guilty about it. Saying things like "I'm better than them" and "It should have been me", as well as trying to make me think my partner doesn't love me like I think they do. Just sharing this to say; Please watch out for people like him. I might not be brave enough to set strong boundaries right now since we go to the same school, but please don't do what I'm doing if you're really suffering. It's scary to say no sometimes, but it will be worth it.

[PinkBerryCatZ]

Summary:

1. 0:39 They know things you've never told them

2.2:24 In love with the idea of you

3.2:14 They're often jealous

4.2:39 They won't stop texting you

5.3:19 They give you no time alone

6.3:49 Invading privacy + cross boundaries

[arianacore]

Can you do a video like” 8 signs you are obsessed with someone but you don’t know it” or something like that

[GoldRangerFanGirl]

This sounds exactly like what I went through with Nick Bryant. I wanted to go to the police because of Nick’s threats of physical violence towards me but even with all of the physical proof I had they flat out refused to do anything at all claiming that there was “nothing they could do unless something actually happened”

[raphaell_.]

I remember I used to use this channel to help with depression and it really did help, it was the best thing out there. I started getting better and better and accidentally transitioned into using it to find out if my crush really liked me or not cause I had a feeling she did, and everything the multiple videos that I watched was telling me it was true as well. Now I’ve been dating her for 5 months and I’ve been feeling the happiest. I still come back to this channel now and then because I feel like it helped me grow positively so much. I’ve said thanks tons of times before, but thank you again.

[VigilTheProtogen]

I think I'm obsessed with someone. We are both depressed bisexual young men, and share some interests at our university. Fortunately we are acquaintances rather than me being a stalker (I don't have all the signs in this video), but I text them excessively and sacrifice things in my life to be with them. Good wakeup call. I've never loved before and have been suffering from anti-depressant side effects recently, so I'm not too surprised, just disappointed that it's not "true love"

[Aan]

Timestamps
1). They know things you've never told them 0:39
2). In love with the idea of you 1:23
3). They're often jealous 2:13
4). They won't stop texting you 2:36
5). They give you no time alone 3:18
6). Invading privacy and cross boundaries 3:48

Hope this helps you out. Sorry this is so late.💙💙💙💙

[jiqoqht]

I used to be obsessed with a girl since last year. I told her my feelings, we drifted away for a few months and we are trying to make things normal again and develop a healthy friendship, since we see each other almost every day at this point

[brandonjohnson]

This by far the BEST channel for mental health/therapy and I appreciate you 😇💜💙