Why So Many Women Think Men Are Trash | Matthew Hussey

#1 Women’s Dating Coach Matthew Hussey describes how to make an attractive dating profile. What does Matthew Hussey think you should include in your profile? What are the most common errors Matthew Hussey sees in online dating?

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[ChrisWillx]

Hello you legends. Full episode with Matthew goes live this Monday. Press Subscribe.

[michaelhowington]

Anyone who’s been on dating apps knows why exactly why it’s a nightmare.

[itsoktobehappy]

My experience with online dating was no one can get anyone’s full attention. Especially in bigger metro areas. Everyone is getting messages from so many people and it’s hard for anyone to decide on who to focus on. Each time you login, there is more new people messaging you or responding to you. But all those people are experiencing that exact same thing, it’s like everyone is constantly distracted by someone new.

[annatar]

Online dating is like starving men wanting to get a slice of bread and women with free bread for life but want a prime rib steak.

[theukeconomist]

Let's be honest, if one is not physically attractive then they will have less options on dating apps.

[pardontheleft]

two extremely attractive guys talk about regular dudes' problems is a good premise

[coolpeopleit]

I've been on dating apps, I have tried being pro-active and getting the first date rolling. Women are so resistant to the idea of meeting up, they want lots of messages making them laugh and telling them how great they are first. I feel like I am being used to validate them, so I moved off apps. I would rather find people in real life, screw investing in someone you only know through some pictures and messages. The worst thing is they don't even turn you down, they just ghost. How are you supposed to improve through a system that rewards you with a non-committal reply, and punishes you through sudden silence?

[CuriousGeorge]

Solution: walk away from online dating. Why participate in a broken system that only perpetuates unhappiness?

[Mickyboi]

Unless you are a 10/10 guy and a girl feels she is punching above her weight, someone ‘better’ is always gonna come along. Meeting people in person blows the online garbage out the water

[csx]

2 minutes in and I'm having doubts he's going to address how awful the women who use dating apps tend to be as well.

[Jeremy-qlor]

The problem with the "try to meet someone in real life" is, at least in my experience, once a girl has used dating apps, she kind of has dating app psychology where she is still going to be checking the dating apps for someone better. And there is always going to be someone who seems better.

[dsztiger]

Its super difficult to find partner on dating apps especially for men. Women see men nowadays like a product and keep them in their shopping baskets, and they will chat, talk, date multiple men at a time, as soon as they find their match that is whoever is more convenient for her, she will then proceed for a buy . Men are just products on online dating platforms nothing else . Nobody cares about feelings, emotions, being a good human, everything is superficial. Looks, money, career prospects, family background is that matters .

[philipcallado]

My problem with online dating is it becomes like a job interview. Your profile is like your résumé; it might as well be LinkedIn. And it becomes more about saying the right things and what you have in common as opposed to vibe and energy. I can convey my intentions in 30 seconds after meeting someone just with a look and maybe saying something suggestively, as opposed to a guy who spends five minutes using cheesy pickup lines and telling a lame story. 😂 or spending a week texting or messaging someone.

[valoriebroderick]

"Don't be afraid to have a short date" such good advice. Especially for earlier dates. You don't even know how you feel about each other yet so an all-day, many hours long, date can be a bit much. Plus, people need time between things to process how they feel, to be allowed the simple joy of anticipating meeting again, etc. Time is important, but space is also so incredibly important in my opinion.

[dominiqueg]

There is so much general information given about men and women these days that seems to pit one against the other and creates bias. I think that along with our bad past experiences, if allowed to, destroys relationships and weakens the ability to have a good, healthy relationship. It’s important to remember that each and every one of us are individuals who deserve a fair chance.

[alezanee]

Bumble feels really weird as well like sections for bff, had the esxperience that a lot of dudes there are homosexual and are not at all searching for friendships. It’s such a weird world. For a while I was dating a Woman that wanted to take me out on a date she claimed to be 27…had nice fotos, cool interests seemed very mature, traditional. Then we met a few times went out in a hotel…spent our night together. Till she told me she’s actually 35, has a child and is married to a lawyer. I was instantly pulling back from her. She got really toxic saying I couldn’t get other woman then her etc. these apps are a circus for real. It doesn’t feel natural at all and the people you meet there are rarely material to build a future with.

[hesmycat]

The only success Ive had with online dating is to find people who have really shitty and poorly put together profiles. It shows that they are not putting their eggs entirely in that basket.

[JupiterMuffles]

As a woman, I never had an easy time on dating apps. Most of the guys I ended up matching with were mass swipers who unmatched from me barely a second later. Or I do send messages first and never get a response (And I usually ask questions about whatever they wrote on their profile).
And believe me, I have gotten many guys who only started with "Hi" or something dry like that.
I'd say Hinge is where I have gotten the most dates (Only three so that's not saying a lot). Never led to a relationship though.

[markusk]

I love how lately many of my favorite YouTubers have started collaborating and putting out content featuring one another.

[marcusgodfrey]

So glad I got rid of all the dating apps, life is better now