What Men Want (It's not what women think it is)

What do men want? What are men looking for in a woman? Why are so many men going their own way? The answer is actually very simple.

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[anthonyromano]

Normal people want peace. The confusing part are the people who are not peaceful.

[michaelpond]

I’m an older man. I’m happily married nearly 40 years. I treasure my time with my spouse, however, I am increasingly aware that I need time alone. Time spent in personal contemplation and “peace” is paramount. The need for both companionship and time alone is a healthy balance.

[XenoRaptor-]

Here what my mother once said “ smart people avoid drama while dumb people craves drama”.

[tomhamilton]

It took me 50 years to find a woman who was compatible. Today, I have enjoyed 20 years of marital bliss. Because I am with the right partner.

[lgbenauer]

My husband has passed now. Having said that we had perfection. He gave me safety I hope I gave him peace in his home and security that I loved and treasured him. We often sat for hours comfortable in our love for each other. I miss him so.

[judithgoodwin]

I'm a woman, and I want exactly what you described.peace, harmony, and tranquillity .

[sherryelysiak]

I prefer being "alone" by myself than "alone" with someone.

[robertcovino]

I am married to a wonderful woman and we have five children. We don’t have many arguments since we are on the same page when it comes to our lives. That’s all I ever wanted. With that I have great peace in my life. Have a great day everyone.

[richcrozier]

I’ve lived alone with my dog since my wife left over ten years ago now. I am living a peaceful quiet life and really enjoy your videos. I’m 68 and retired here in the USA

[jilliancrocker]

I don't think that too many women genuinely want or seek conflict, contrary to how it may feel from a man's perspective. They want the peace and harmonious existence that is on the other side of the conflict. In my experience (married 20 years and divorced) men tend to be highly avoidant when it comes to addressing challenges that naturally arise in sharing a life with someone. They see any need to discuss these challenges as a threat to their wellbeing rather than an opportunity for mutual growth which will ultimately lead to deeper, richer, more meaningful relating. At least this is what I have learned and also observed in the successful marriages I have witnessed in my friend circle.

[gailhoffmann]

Yes, women want peace and harmony too. I agree that living alone in peace is much preferred over living with a partner that brings drama home daily. I left drama behind many years ago and have a quiet, tranquil life. No regrets.

[slydermartin]

"Men want Peace". Hahaha!!! I'm 71 and have saying that since my 20's. A strong dash of Respect also.

[jantrimble]

I’m a woman and I want to be free from people who make dramas. To me sunsets, the waves crashing onto the beach, summer evenings, the birds soaring in the sky, music, dancing, laughter and people who connect with my soul are all precious to me.

[pleasebringcake]

As a woman of grandmother age, I try to give men compliments when I'm out and about. If a man has a magnificent beard, I tell him so. Our men in the West receive so little encouragement, and as a woman I've realized how much power my feminine encouragement can have for the men in my life. It is like fuel for their will, for what they want to accomplish. It is the opposite of criticism, which drains them of their enthusiasm. Encouragement is part of a woman's magic.

[Marco_Aurelio_Ph]

Peace is not refusing conflicts, it is to know which battle needs a fight

[JM-eryl]

For 31 years, I've been my husband's best friend, confidante, and biggest cheerleader and he has done the same for me. Whenever life punches us in the face, we cling to each other and most importantly, we don't forget to laugh. "When you're born, you get a ticket to the freak show. When you're born in America, you get a front row seat." - George Carlin

[Bacrenfencing]

Exactly why I left my high paid corporate management job in oil and gas and set up my own fencing business.
Outside every day, alone and listening to the birds sing while I work = peace to me, never been happier !

[debbietodd]

I think you speak for both men and women, most women don't want conflict but we also don't want to be taken for granted and used and that's often where the conflict comes in. If you don't want to share the load, every day, then stay single, you have no business getting married. And right up there with peace is lie to me. I have been a widow for 22 years and I will stay that way because peace is paramount to me and I will NOT be somebodies maid/cook without that being reciprocated.

[shaktibutterfly]

There is a lot of sterotyping around men and women. I've met men who talk non stop, worked with men who acted like bitches and drama queens, slandering about each other, something that shocked me as i had expected different working with an all men group! I've met mature men who rest in their masculinity and as such, are supportive and loving.

I've met women who treasure peace and quiet, who love nature and their own company. Who are refective and mature, and yes, there are those who are the opposite.

Why do we have to put people into boxes? Some of the comments here sadden me because of generalisations and disbelief that women too seak peace and harmony.

The fact is we are individuals with different personalities, life experiences and cultures, as well as needs.

[tnetroP]

I've told my wife this so many times when times have been bad. All I want is peace.