How To COMPLIMENT To Get Her ATTRACTED

Does complimenting a girl "work"? Hollywood and your grandmother will tell you one thing, while classic pickup theory would say another. Which is correct? Well... it depends on what you're expecting the compliment to do...

📑Outline
00:00 - What are you trying to achieve with compliments?
00:40 - How MOST guys use compliments
01:45 - Use compliments like THIS
03:25 - Here’s WHAT you should be complimenting
04:35 - Building comfort
06:40 - Make sure you do this…

[abdul.arif]

6:15 one of the best ways to build connection with a girl is to find two unique non-sexual things that you like about her, and then mixed those two things and complement her. And when it comes from a guy who she already really likes it will make her like you a lot more and feel a lot closer and connected to you

[johnnyd]

Todd V is very thorough and sophisticated🤙

[youwilllaugh]

Most importantly compliments only matter when they are delivered by the ones we like

[pahyzhahyz]

What is your take on the common argument that attraction is either there right away or it isn’t, and you shouldn’t try to win a her over?

[brookvalley]

Yes, and complements can be given in at least two ways. Complements can be given as a fan or as a judge. A complement given as a fan is without judgment, full of unquestioning adoration. A complement given as a judge is given with judgment, full of questioning her worth. A compliment given as a judge says that yes, she did okay on this thing, but is she good at other things. This kind of complement sets you up as her judge, not her fan.

In all cases complements should be given in a off-handed manner, so they do not seem like a big deal, just a casual observation. Your demeanor should be that you are attracted to some of her qualities, but you don't know if you both are going to fit for the long term.

[topsycrates]

Hey man. I've been learning from you for a while now. those things under your eyes... I don't know if that's make up or what but that looks like you need to focus on your health. and I just wanted to say that, that's not a good thing. You should look into it. Maybe it's the night life and work all the time.

[alexstockl]

Hey Todd, how does one DELIVER a line that conveys premise/man to woman when one-on-one? I noticed some guys like to sneak it into the conversation (with the line sometimes not landing), and some like to deliver it with a bit of a smirk + pause and then continue with the convo. What is the better method? Thanks

[LtVadim]

Can you please analyze Pierre Woodman's strategy during his interviews?

[teemohnay]

these videos are way too much to think of all at once. overwhelming af. which leads to me just doing the same old shit. im also 38 and been single (and not looking) for around 11 years. I sure hope this old dog can learn some new tricks. cause holy shit do i feel like ive been wasting away. learning "game" recently sparked when a straight up dime approached me and we hung out a few times and i completely blew it. which has been tearing me apart. so instead of feeling sorry for myself im gunna springboard off the fact a chick that hot even considered me. If she did, then that means i likely have a chance with other cute chicks as well, even tho im COMPLETELY out of practice. And i mean completely. so bad its embarassing af. i absolutely hate that about myself. They say learn to be happy single first. well that rule dont apply once you have been single for a very long time. This is gunna be a long process and im gunna have to force myself out of my comfort zone. But, thanks Todd. Youre videos give me confidence that I can do it. Cheers bud

[ariesostia]

Question: why not just do ALL VALUE, since that's what makes everything ”go” anyway

[Eline_Meijer]

I got a question: Do men dont understand that talking to girls in a difficult situation (hard set in your language) is a huge plus and a show of value, competence and risk taking?

[damirderek]

I have a question. I have a new coworker girl in company and we talked and it was ok. After some time I showed interest with intend in a way that I complimented her dress. She said thanks and went away. Day after I texted her stupid text like I meant only on dress not you and after that she started ignoring me. Is it ok to disqualify to lower needyness in that case?

[immortalom]

Is it ok to game around children? I always feel like it might be inappropriate to be sexual in any way around kids and especially if they are the girl’s kids, she might feel extra defensive as well. How do you get around this obstacle?

[pahyzhahyz]

When and how should you get physical in an interaction? Most advise to do it asap, but in your videos you seem to be mostly hands off.