Why Do I Push People Away? | Therapy Thursday | Issac Curry

Many times we hold a record of wrongs and magnify every impurity in everyone we enter into relationship as a way of shielding ourselves from them hurting us. It's impossible to love without being vulnerable. Once we understand and trace the root of our fear of getting hurt then we can begin to let people in past the surface.

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[yahkar]

We can't let our past hurt be the lens we view our current relationships through. We Gotta Heal 🙏🏾

[reginalove]

You Can’t have love without VULNERABILITY 😢

[Monica-rmij]

It’s my first time here so grateful to have come to this video. Love how this a Christian therapy session ❤️

[tabsperspective]

I was just pouring my heart out God in prayer earlier today about pushing people away because I’m scared of being hurt again. I just came out of a very toxic and abusive relationship. God has put new people in my life and brought me Christian friends who try to show me love. I had a trigger moment last weekend and started pulling away this past week. Then not too long after I prayed, this video popped up on my YouTube feed and I know it’s God’s response to my prayer. As I watch this all I can do is cry. I’m thankful that God allowed me to watch this. I’m continuing my healing journey and surrendering to God during this process. God bless you 🙏🏾

[joeldillard]

I don't know if you'll see this pastor. But it's honestly what I'm going through right now. 💯%. I don't even know if God sees me anymore. I have pushed everyone away. And for some reason i feel like that's a good thing. I'm even pushing my wife away. I don't trust anyone anymore. And to be honest. I don't want too. 😢

[Katherine-tz]

Amen!
My first time and it's Thursday, thank you god

[kalelahardin]

Trace your fear, Chase your fear, and chastened your fear

[iyindaramola]

Lord, help me to correct my narratives concerning friendship and love!!

[MarissaLenea]

I needed to hear this! The part that stood out the most was the question "What defense mechanism do we employ?"
1. You find fault early
2. You give low or limited effort
3. You keep a detailed record of wrongdoing
I’m definitely guilty of #3 😥 I’ve been reading 1 Corinthians 13 where it says “Love…it keeps no record of wrongs” and I’ve been feeling convicted already but this really made me see this as an area where I need to grow in. #correctthenarrative

[bDISCERNING]

Brother, this message….WHEW! I recently met someone who, unbeknownst to me, was fearful avoidant. I was very angry at him but this message really helped me understand what happened. Fearful avoidants need INTENSE THERAPY, especially if you’re older, 50, 60, 70, years old, to uproot the painful childhood trauma. This is a PROCESS! Yes, God can deliver someone instantly but that would be a miracle and we know miracles don’t often happen. That’s why it’s called a miracle! This message made me very sad for him and caused me to intercede for him. (STILL stay over there!) 😆This is an extremely sad way to live! Thanks for your transparency!

[LRNJ-]

Fear is not your master. God is LOVE and He created us to LOVE ❤.

[dosageofdemi]

Wow you just opened my eyes to a generational curse. This was heavy. God bless you and this Therapy Thursday episode 🙌🏽

[stayhumble]

Assess your circle = 0 circle
Assess your heart = limited access
Assess your workplace = lone worker

Absolutely zero trust in humanity and my heart can NOT take anymore of this world or humanity!

[pleasantp]

I love therapy Thursdays! This ministry is truly a blessing to me and my family from the first day I tuned in. I pray the Lord continue to bless this ministry and the team working in obedience to do the will of God. 🙏♥️♥️🙏🙌

[arontesfay]

I remember hearing the story of Mephibosheth in elementary school. That was some 18 years ago. It's good to hear it again because I had almost entirely forgotten about it!

[SLP-ks]

I NEVER comment on YouTube… but you just helped someone who’s really dealing with inner turmoil. This was a PERFECT follow-up after therapy. I can’t thank you enough. May God bless me with the ability to bless those like you ❤️

[B_M_DUBBA_U_]

Do your best to keep that person happy you and whoever is there for you….

[officialhighvalueman]

Nobody cares about the time, we need this healing

[kimajolly]

Simply...thank you. This message revealed chains I've had for a very long time. Looks like, with God, it's finally time that they be broken.

[kiyajordan]

Thank you Brother Issac Curry of REFINED TV. You all are AMAZING!!!! ALL GLORY TO GOD!!!