If You Want More Respect Than 99% Of Men, Speak Like This

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Joe Rogan is so good at conversation that he just got $100,000,000 to license his podcast to Spotify. A big part of Joe’s success comes from his ability to command respect from a broad range of people. From fighters to movie stars to academics.

Which is why in this video we will go over 4 things you can do to command more respect in conversation.

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0:47 - #1: The way he speaks.
1:53 - #2: He does not allow people to derail him, if he has something important to say.
5:01 - #3: Joe will share his honest thoughts, even if people don’t like them.
8:50 - #4: Joe actively seeks to break the echo chamber.

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"Jamie, pull up that clip of Charisma on Command talking about me"

A_Salted_Fishe
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I think Joe's greatest quality is his thirst for knowledge and for understanding other people's point of view. Even when he might disagree with them.

mickys
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1.
- Do not rush.
- Emphasis important words.
- Use pauses between words to hold attention
- Remove the fear of losing sb’s interests or getting cut off -> say effortlessly -> finish your thought

2.
- Not allow others to derail u from saying something important (1st interruption)
- If sb repeatedly interrupts you, call it out while remaining calm (no yelling)
- If sb just messes around, allow them to interrupt
- (Not direct way) Pause! Agree. Continue your own thought

3.
Share your honest thoughts even if pp might not like them (save your self-esteem)
- your own motivations for doing things (even if u don’t like it)
- call people out on their bad behavior (then empathize it by your story. I’m not perfect)
- Share your opinion on topics you feel passionate about (politics, religion)
+ Proactively address your potential misunderstandings. Answer their objections

4.
Be more interested in finding the truth than being right
- be willing to consider alternative opinions

sophiedavidson
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I LOVED the way he said “if we’re going to continue having a discussion, we can’t keep talking over each other”. The PERFECT way to word it that it gets the point across without full finger pointing and causing offense 🙌🏻. I’m so glad that example was used here!!!
First time really listening to him, and I caught that exchange. Immediately made me realize that holy crap… he’s not just some hunter/fighter tool bag.. he’s incredibly emotionally mature. He gained a new fan in me, that’s for sure. Glad I’m not the only one who also caught that little gem in him!
Loooove Joe Rogan

annthemaam
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Joe's conversational skills have improved tremendously. He became less attached and doesn't get angry as much as he used to. His second podcast with Crowder proves how good he is at rekindling relationships.

PowerMatrixAnime
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Mastering others is strength. Mastering yourself is true power.
- Lao Tzu

prajaktaswar
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My greatest takeaway from this video is the fact that when you honestly voice out what you think, you become a magnet: people that resonate with what you’re saying and believe in your values will come closer to you while those that don’t believe in what you have to say will go away from you. This is such an important thing to realise because if you don’t do this, you become a people pleaser and basically have no personality of your own. As a result, when you don’t have an authentic and interesting personality, people don’t find you interesting and hence you don’t build long-lasting healthy relationships with people of same interests and values as you and your life is boring as hell.

Parallaxxx
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Damn. This video is reminding me how important it is to stay cool, calm, and collected when confronting someone. Raising my voice and speaking too quickly is usually followed by an argument. I usually mean what I say but don't say what I mean. Remembering to slow down will help me choose my words more wisely.

healthgoddess
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4 ways to command more respect in conversation

1. Do not rush. Place emphasis on important words. Use pauses between words to hold attention
*avoid fear that you won't get to finish your thought if you make pauses

2. Do not allow other people to derail you from saying something important
*If someone repeatedly interrupts you call it out while remaining calm
*Pause, agree, continue your original thought
*acknowledge what is being said then return to completing your point

3. Share your honest thoughts even if you know some people might not like them

*Three areas of proactive honesty that instantly gets more people to like you:

A - Your own motivations for doing things (people pretend to be more charitable, hide money as motivations etc.)
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B - Call people out on their behavior (explaining why you're not perfect either after is a great way to earn respect for your honesty and help maintain your relationship with the person you called out
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C - Share your opinions on topics you feel passionate about (Joe shares his on the two no-go topics on polite society: politics and religion) (even if he knows he will get backlash about it. Example: transgender MMA fighter opinion)
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4. Be more interested in finding the truth than being right (be willing to consider alternative opinions)

lenonfreire
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One of Joe Rogan's best qualities is that he is very open minded and willing to listen to others. He really knows how to make people feel like the most important person in the room.

aleng
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Something that has helped me a lot with my confidence is just being 100% honest about everything you say. That just sort of clicked with me and I feel loads better

cookiesmuggler
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I like him so much I named my second son Rogan. He’s changed the way I talk to people, the way I measure success, and how I treat others. All in a positive way ❤

Thank you Joe Rogan

Thryvetogether
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*Remaining calm is a power move. I've even read studies that have found most women (generally speaking, of course) find calm men more attractive than reactive men.*

Esabelle
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I have always tried my best to make it clear that "I want to be wrong, please tell me when I'm wrong. I will listen, I will do my best to understand." because i take more pride in my ability to listen than in my ability to be right. My own satisfaction for winning an argument will always pale in comparison to my need for truth. This is how i feel people should be, even if we disagree with each other.

Srprior
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Yes, Joe is not a non interuptable machine. His standout characteristic is he allows his guests to talk, and his own, rare, interuptions are excellent observations and questions that throw the ball back to his guest and enrich the interview. That's what makes him such a great broadcaster imo

jonthomas
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Joes maturity and lack of ignorance while talking to people is top tier because he shows respect first. He has his ego in check. This video has great point and great advise. Having your ego in check and being open minded makes him a power house of a person.

VcottntailW
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The fact that Joe reguarly gives his own take on wide variety of stuff and is still really liked by the left and right is a huge credit to him as a person.

danielogorman
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Joe is the person on the Internet today or in the public eye, most taken out of context.

At the same time too many people hang on to his every word instead of learning for the example of wanting to seek truth, think critically, and be willing to change your mind.

RobertoBlake
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Rogan has shown me the exact method to surrendering my pride and opening my eyes and heart to acknowledge and understand people with beliefs that I feel were much easier for me to just disagree with. The world is lucky to have him.

thetruebatman
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He's just a straight forward guy that is willing to learn more through other peoples knowledge. The way he interrupts a guess talking on his podcast is not the kind that'll make u say " stop interrupting and let them talk". It only shows how interested he is to what they are saying rather than cutting them bcs he's got something to say.

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