7 Signs Your Ex Still Loves You (Real Life Success Stories)

preview_player
Показать описание

7 Signs Your Ex Still Loves You (Real Life Success Stories)

In this video I’m going to show you signs that your ex still loves you;
- Hot and Cold
- They make eye contact longer than usual
- Brings up “Throw away” details
- Long meaningful conversations with you consistently
- Future pace
- Will be ok with “Yucky” behavior on your part
- Comment about how much he loves one of your quirks

In fact, many of the signs I cover here today are things that I have taken from my successful coaching clients who have gotten their exes back.

Sign #1 – Hot and Cold

Break ups are often accompanied by swings of emotions, where you ex can show interest in you and then all of a sudden, changes his attitude. This is hot and cold behavior where they do something to make you think they are still in love with you, then do something to make you think, they’re not.

Different terms that are used to describe this behavior such as mixed signals and rubberbanding, but it also very common in exes who are still thinking about loving you.

Now what you’re looking for is the consistency, in the hot and cold behavior, if they’re doing this, three to five times, it shows they’re having a really tough time internally deciding how they’re feeling on whether to be with you or not. The greater the struggle, the more likely they are to still be in love with you.

Sign #2 – They make eye contact longer than usual

When you’re with your ex, a great sign is one of two a prolonged eye contact, but also the exact opposite, if he can’t quite look at you in the eyes for very long, quick glances. They may not be able to explain why they are doing this, or what feelings they’re having during this but it is a really good sign.

Sign #3 – Brings up “throw away” details

When you’re really interested in what someone has to say, you’re hyper-focus on every single word. This is especially true if you’re still in love with someone, you focus so much on what they do and say almost to a fault.

What you’re looking for is your ex to bring up brings up unimportant detail back into a conversation. This shows he is hyper-focusing on everything you’re saying, even in the past.

Sign #4 – Long meaningful conversations with you consistently

Measuring conversations there are three main factors

- Length
- Consistent
- Topic

Typically speaking, not all conversations are created equally. Look at the last few conversations you’ve had with your ex;

- How long have they been?
- Have you had consistent conversations with them?
- What have the topics been over?

We're looking for long consistent and meaningful conversations, about whats going on in your lives and interest.

Sign #5 – Future Pace

If an ex boyfriend is still in love with you, they’re going to do something to picture a future with you. While having a conversation with your ex, and he brings up a topic that you’re interested in and wanted to do in the future, then mentions the both of you doing something together in the future.

This way your ex boyfriend is actively showing he sees a future with you

Sign #6 – Will accept “Yucky” behavior on your part

Willing overlook bad behavior is a sign that your ex is still in love with you when they excuse your shortcomings or bad qualities.

Sign #7 – Comment about how much he loves one of your quirks

If you feel you have quirks, something you feel unattractive about yourself, but your ex mentions it or that they love this about you or that they pick up on other things that they love about you then it’s a really good sign.

Рекомендации по теме
Комментарии
Автор

😔 😔 😔 😔 😔 I don't have this yet we're 21 no contact after he said Goodbye to me and I accepted on it as well

mithugenedhar
Автор

Love what he said about his wife's quirks...made me think of my ex and how good he made me feel about mine. He called me 34days into my No Contact....said he thought about me all the time. Good video🙌

l.k.
Автор

I know mine still loves me he shows it

kekefoster
Автор

Hey Chris,
As far as hot and cold behavior goes, could it still be a sign if I go a month without hearing from him & then at 12:15 AM on a Friday night I get "hey." I'm trying to figure out if he's just looking for a booty call or he sincerely misses me.

melissakatchen
Автор

Hi Chris,

I am working on the programme and started a NC of 21 days, on day 4 but he hasn't reached out so it's been okay I guess. I wanted to ask, as when we were talking he was exhibiting all these signs, if he starts reaching out meaningfully, should i ignore it or should i work on nurturing the long conversations etc.? He says he doesn't believe you ever stop loving someone as long as it was real love, that it was harsh for me to assume he didn't love me anymore, but that he's not ready for a relationship and when he is, he's not sure he wants one with me. Am i too far gone into the friendzone? I fear that I have inadvertently helped him get over me, by remaining close, bear in mind we've been broken up 10 months after a 6 year relationship + engagement.

khisla
Автор

He is hot and cold like all the time, he’ll be nice to me and then he’ll be kinda mean. As far as conversations they vary depends on how he feels that day. He says he loves me so much but I don’t understand can’t he just take me back😭 it seems like everyday doesn’t get better it gets worse depending on how desperate I am I guess he hates that it’s so hard to just be friends with him though I don’t know if I can do it! He kinda just sees me as friends with benefits now which I don’t really want at all how can I build the trust please help! thanks

MsLinzoo
Автор

My ex and I broke up more than 2 months ago and he hasn't reached out to me since our last discussion one month after the break up. We were arguing and he deleted me from all group chats. I never heard of him since. That day, I also started the no contact rule. He probably will never reach out....

micheleverhoeven
Автор

:( my ex reply me anytime everytime i texted him.. we broke up i broke up with him.. and he doesn't have any explanation or asking forgiveness.. but when i told him that we have to finish everything that connects us he so i can move on and also him too.. he aswer me.. ah i will think about it.. i don't understand:(

rhosekim
Автор

My ex still loves me, he cant go long without talking to me and the Lord tells me so

leratoseretsi
Автор

He does all this but convos and other convos. But he listens to everything. He will change whatever I say I do not like I noticed lol

ashliejarman
Автор

What if ur ex never doubts the breakup even with no contact??

moneymill
Автор

And i greeted him yesterday happy pepero day.. he reply.. just greeted in words? I reply did u recieve any chocolates? He replied .. id i don't have wife who will give me? :(

rhosekim
Автор

If you have mutual friends with your ex, and they ask how you’re doing to your friend, how should they respond about how I’m doing?

joann
Автор

I'm in no contact with my husband since last 50 days. Accidently a video call was ring to him last to last week but i cut that and texted him that it was by mistake. Even though he didn't contact me back :( we are not connected since last 50 days. What should I do now ?? Please help me.. Because of some family issues we are living apart since past 6 months but we were in contact till Sept 2019. From october we stopped talking to each other.. I'm very much disappointed by his behavior :(

souljourneytospiritualpath
Автор

It’s been over a month since we broke up, and I can’t stop thinking about him 😔 and he didn’t contact me yet, what shall do? Seriously I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️
Thanks for your videos 🙏🏼

nuhaooo
Автор

Why does he always apply this to just women.

Los
Автор

Got all the signs, but what does it mean if they suddenly ghost my text and dont call back after a great interaction in person?

viollao
Автор

Sir Answer my quistion..how can i know if my Ex pass Love me untill now Hea block me already 1 month already

ermadelrosario
Автор

Chris does this count if I’m. Guy and my ex is a girl ? Also if your says I wanted to start a family with you... could that be counted as future pace?

TheGoldWii
Автор

We had a heated argument and he left me saying that he can't stay with me anymore. It's been 1 and half month we are in no contact. Neither he blocked me nor did I in social media but he doesn't add me in his whatsapp status. I don't know what is going in his mind. Will he contact me or not? Or has he moved on

julid.