Narcissists use the Humanization Trick #shortsvideo #shortvideo #shorts #short

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[momosan]

Yep....or start turning on the water works....when that doesn't work, the crying stops immediately...that hate in their eyes returns, and it's back to what they really are...empty, soul-less entities.

[Babinkley]

When they start the 'poor little me' I say "There are 8 million stories in the naked city, everybody has one, " and I walk away.

[GeoDelGonzo]

Holy shit. This is so right. I just got out of a bad marriage and totally fell for this. I'm glad I'm moving on.

[taylorpresley]

My daughter (narc) posted on FB this week how terrible her childhood was because I flipped houses and she had to sand cabinets. Lie. lie. lie. Not all her friends fell for her bs and sent me a copy of her post. Disgusting.

[Amaje]

Disgusted. Had this used on me when I tried to call out the terrible ways they treated me. The perpetrator seemed oblivious to the evil meted out to me and started talking about their terrible childhood. I was so disgusted, I just shut down. My ears were bleeding from their "woe is me" cries while not acknowledging their own terrible behavior.

[mobileradiofitter]

This is so interesting, she would show emotions that some times didn't fit the moment. Also she seemed to go into the same mindset like she was reliving a trauma but over laying it when she needed to turn on her tears. She was never sad about current topics instead she reverted to another time she was actually upset. It was so difficult dealing with her. One thing for sure, her words never matched her actions and her happiness was just for show, she was not a happy and greatful person at all. 2 years of utter confusion.

[sinceresong]

Even that gets tired...join the club..get it together like the rest of us

[deedeeglynn]

Yes it happens every time he wants me back 😂

[incognito]

Yes, the only thing they are capable of is "tricks." That tells you all you need you know about their character. Oh, I mean their lack of, or absence, of character.

[incognito]

The only funny thing about narcs is that they are not smart enough to know we have them all figured out. It's laughable that they don't know they are narcs.

[sizzling_rozes]

Don’t let them put you through the experiences they put you through constantly and then forgive them because they have remorse. I don’t think so

[mac-juot]

Oh okay it's always the poor child routine.

[coloradopackratprepper]

Mine its all my past relationships is why this one is bad. N i say NOPE its all you by yourself!!!!

[Жестокий-Новый-Мир]

True. I have a covert narcissistic GF. Pretty interesting to learn them. I call her Sad Master. She enslaved you with her sad stuff. She even can self-harm herself to cause that pity feeling inside you. 2 days ago she said she's got liver cancer. (She is very very very big liar. But I think it is her fantasy world). First I was worried, but then inside me was big doubt and I said to her that I don't believe her. At the same time she likes to upset me: might not-answer for a day, or ignore my questions. Interestingly, when I see her in person she feels ok, intimate, but when we don't see each other she turns weird. Why I am with her? She is interesting and I am learning. She is my big lesson. I like her, she's still a human and she's got interesting vision of things and she loves birds as I do. She can even come to a bird on the street and take her in hands. I never seen people can do like this. And she never ever said a bad ŵord to me even though I was calling her many bad words. I feel shame for that act. Only she knows how to piss me off so I go psycho, but she is always calm. But I like her.