Covert Narcissists' Favorite CATCHPHRASES #covertnarcissists

Things Only a Covert Narcissist Would Say #covertnarcissists//If there have been covert narcissists in your life you would agree that it's not easy to define them because they show sneaky signs of narcissism. But there are phrases, lines, and weird things that only they would say which screams your definitely dealing with a covert narcissist. Grab your pen and paper and get ready because Rebecca Zung, narcissist negotiation expert, tells us the phrases narcissists use and what they REALLY mean.
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🎓What you’ll learn in the webinar:
The 3 empowering secrets you need to take back control when communicating with narcissists.
How to develop a winning, foolproof strategy to drive the outcome you want out of negotiations with narcissists.
How to be more powerful, persuasive and confident when negotiating with narcs.
What to say in negotiation and how to say it so that you can beat narcs at their own game!
How to anticipate what the narcissist will do and be two steps ahead of them at all times.

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About Rebecca Zung:
✅Rebecca Zung is one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News & World Report as a “Best Lawyer in America”, as “Legal Elite” by Trend Magazine, and recognized by her peers and the judiciary as AV(c), preeminent rated in family law, the highest possible rating for an attorney by Martindale Hubbell.

✅But her journey wasn’t always easy. She got married at 19, had 3 children and divorced at the age of 23. She was a divorced single mom when she decided to go back to law school. She went from being a single mom, college dropout, to becoming one the most powerful lawyers in the country at the helm of a multi-million dollar practice. She is now committed to sharing her secrets and empowering others to live their lives at their optimum level of success, professionally and personally.

✅She is the author of the bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and is a sought after major media contributor.

✅She has been featured in Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among others. She is the host of the popular show Negotiate Your Best Life™ which is available on YouTube and as a Top Podcast. She is also a frequent keynote speaker.

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Disclaimer: The commentary and opinions are for informational purposes only and not for the purpose of providing legal advice. You should contact an attorney in your state to obtain legal advice with respect to any particular issue or problem.

[oonaghmolyneux]

The smirk. The sneer. The eye roll. The cold hard stare. The rebuff. The silent treatment. The mock concern. The heavy breathing. The maniacal rage. The blatant insults. The body shaming. The character assassination. Their desperation to be the centre of everything, pulling everyone’s strings, their general creepiness…

[marlaharris]

I’ve been dealing with narcissistic people my whole life it seems to me the whole world’s gone crazy and there’s more of them now than ever

[colleenlambrichs]

They say they were just joking but they can't take it when it's done to them.

[Mindyzzzzz]

My mom’s favorite when being held accountable “I’m sorry you feel that way.”

[shaeholden]

Death by a thousand cuts. Yes, that's it exactly, very well said!! My narc ex-husband was very well-liked and respected by those outside my house, who didn't know the silent treatments, verbal abuse and passive-aggressive mind games that I was subjected to. I thank God every day for escaping. EVERY DAY.

[janipt]

Its impossible to descripe this to someone who isnt familiar with it. Its all the little things that make you crazy and nobody can understand your problems. You get the feeling something is not right but cant pinpoint it, its insane.

[traciewalker]

I had a coworker who would act like this when confronted about her undermining behavior...."Oh, I was just trying to help." was her favorite response.

[alicialynn]

"I'm sorry you took it that way" "I remember when you had a sense of humor" death by a thousand cuts is so true. I'm still stuck and desperately want out. Its so hard.

[psychoshamrock]

Jealousy is a form of hatred. They seethe with rage, and their sh*tty mood comes from YOU and your success. Such childish b.s.

[BlessinNoStressin]

My mother is a covert narcissist and I can only stand a surface level relationship because of my battle with anxiety and depression. She’s depleted my self-esteem over time.

[raquelbarajas]

As soon as you said “that’s not what I meant “ I burst out crying . He has always lead me to believe I’m the gaslighter, the abusive one . But he lies a lot and explains it with “that’s not what I meant” . I’m not crazy I’m not a bad person . It’s getting hard to believe with him ….

[cherryblossom]

"That's your perception. Take it how you want to!" 😒😳😵‍💫

[psmith]

Yes, a bottomless pit of jealousy. As I learn more, I see how fragile they actually are. How armored and hardened their facade. Please teach us more!!

[sandgroper]

Freedom fighter for the simple and uninitiated against the Narcissists

[RebelKat]

Took me forever to discover there was a covert narc. When I did, I discovered why I was so confused. He was passive aggressive and if I pointed out things...he'd say "I don't know what you are talking about.""that's not what I meant". Coverts use the "lost puppy" victim thing too. You always feel bad for them!!

[LiaSol]

"you are too sensitive"😢 Classic one

[maggiemedina]

It's always been the "That wasn't my intent"

[agirl]

“Death by a thousand cuts” is perfectly stated. If I tried to explain it I’d be laughed at. It’s such tiny things … like sticking me with his chores (and he doesn’t do many) or moving things that I leave in a specific place in the kitchen. We also have repeat conversations. It’s so invalidating when he says “I don’t remember what you said.”All these little passive-aggressive punishments always come after times I disagreed (nicely) with him or if I spoke up, have my own opinion about something

[tammyw.]

My company never use to be this way, even though these people have worked for my company for over 15 years… but Covid happened and all of the upper managements before - have since retired or passed. Now the people that were blocked because of behaviors like you describe, found their way in because they’ve received their get out of jail card i call it. It’s now exhausting working there and looking for ways to make the job still work. Been there almost 20 and I’m not young anymore. Like the encouraging words. Thank you

[outlawsjustice]

I agree 100 % and it took a overt and a covert teaming up to crush me for awhile. Without the covert the overt couldn't touch me. Covert in my opinion is the scariest because you never see them coming.