How Women select Men (Natural Selection) - Jordan Peterson

In this lecture Jordan B Peterson talks about genetics, sexual selection and dominance hierarchy.

[DrAdnan]

So I need bigger shoulders, more money, and more intelligence.

[tonidedik]

Legends say he’s still drawing triangles in the air.

[niteshbhatti]

If I had Jordan Peterson as my teacher, I'd never miss a class

[kamalkumar]

Note:-
1. A woman feels secured-emotionally and socially with men who are built tall usually.
2. A woman feels secured- financially with men who are either rich or have a stable job.
3. A woman relates emotional and social security with her physical security.
4. When it comes to very good looking man, a woman takes his shyness as cuteness and his non-shyness as strongness.
5. A woman first look for physical security then emotional security and then social security.

[Romaboo]

Step 1: Be attractive
Me: Mission failed. We'll get em next time

[TonyHernandez-wvvi]

Jordan Peterson: Eat healthy, be lean and workout, work hard in your career, passion or business and have good social skills.
Everyone in the Comments: sO Be GoOd loOkiNg aND bE RIcH.

[myviolinjourney]

How to pick up chicks with Jordan B. Peterson 😂😂

[r.t.hannah]

Males are rated and chosen based on the degree to which they can positively influence the 'Physical Environment' around them. Indicators of this in the human domain are appearance (health, hygiene, and charisma), physical size (height and strength), and available resources (money and assets). Being able to positively influence their environment means they can acquire food, housing, allies, and create general order and stability. These things grant safety and protection. Probably the most important aspect to achieve this is having resources. This is probably why there are so many stereotypes about women chasing men with money. Women want men who can create a safe environment and bring stability into her life. This is logical. Especially in times of extreme vulnerability like during pregnancy, and when there are young children present.

Women are rated and chosen based on the degree to which they can positively 'Influence and Add to the Social Environment.' Indicators of this in the human domain are Appearance (health, hygiene, and fitness) and caregiving (supportive, nurturing, peace-making and friendly). 'Adding to' the social environment is straightforward, able to have children. The burden to bear children has greatly influenced the shape of women's bodies over time and evolution has imbued men with a subconscious sense for what is suitable for childbearing. This is why the stereotypes about men only caring about looks persists. It's partly true. Being able to positively influence the social environment means they are good at managing varied and complex social situations which maximize the safety and reputation of the family and social unit. Men want women who can bear children and who can bring peace into their life.

The most effective family units, in general, are those where a division of labor exists between the parents. Each party works to minimize the time the other must spend away from their primary role. If the father has a primary role for providing safety and stability, he must maximize his health markers and earnings potential. If the mother has a primary role of raising children and safeguarding the family's social wellbeing, she must maximize her health markers and home management abilities.

Each role is determined by what they initially found attractive about the other. If the roles are reversed, that's okay. You would have a dynamic where the man was attracted to the woman for her ability to provide and the woman was attracted to him for his looks and skills in social navigation. I've personally never seen this. In modern times you usually see a woman working to provide while also being the primary caregiver in the home. Splitting one's energy between roles is probably very hard and probably why the rate of depression in women has been skyrocketing. Women are filling two roles. Humans did not evolve to do this.

[pokemonitishere]

My father always tells me that never dump the one that loves you the most even if you don't love them because in the end you would be more happy with the people who love you the most than the one you love the most.

[rishiraj]

According to my own opinion women choose men based on two criteria:
1) with whom she feels secured- emotionally, financially, socially etc.
2) with whom she can have fun in life.

[zqrffsg]

instructions unclear: my crush ignored me after I told her I was a beautiful butterfly

[TheMyfanwy]

I respect a man in the gym, it shows he’s a hard worker, and doesn’t let go of his goals easily, and also shows he doesn’t mind focusing on a particular goal, if it means that much to him.

[wayneflint]

So basically, if your handsome, well built, High IQ and have money you've got it made. We all basically knew that didn't we.

[emmanuelsonmabande]

This man looks physically stressed out trying to explain women. Awesome!

[dancronin]

The primary objectives vary according to their biological compositions which express differently their selection processes. For males, they need to increase the chances of passing on their genetic material which statistically increases their chances of success when there are multiple viable mating options. Therefore traits are more common and not selectively narrowed. However, females select males based on orientations such as parental investment, kin selection, and resources allocation which are much more sophisticated processes to adapt. The best way to think about it is that females will choose males based on what they can empirically provide, whereas males select females based more on what they can pass down.

[thedon]

1) look like a male model
2) be rich
3) profit.

[justinrogers]

Our selection method is to the woman who says yes.

[baptistic]

So to become an attractive female or male: stay healthy and evolve your ability to abstractly represent the physical and social world and act upon it. Fair enough.

[RedAlertUprising]

- So what do you do for a living?
- I talk while drawing triangles in the air.

[TheDedloc]

ahhh the lengths we men go to, to figure out women lol