How To Help A Negative Person Become More Positive

The best way to influence others to become positive is to be one yourself, specially when you're dealing with negative people. Here are a bunch of Do's and Don'ts when you're helping negative people become more positive.

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Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[prezidenttrump]

I watched this, as a negative person, to help myself. That's a positive!

[SpiritDragoness]

I wish more people knew this. I am one of those people who tends to slip into the abyss of negativity, and people lecturing me to be more positive really doesn't help. It only makes it worse. I also struggle with gratitude... on both sides, showing it to others and receiving it. I always feel like i don't deserve it and i start acting all weird. I am getting a bit better at showing it as i am reflecting more on my past lately, and there are a lot of people who have helped me a ton to keep my sanity, knowing or unknowingly by just being there and being themselves. Been writing a lot of thank you emails for things that happened 20-25 years ago. But there is one person who i really need to thank, but unfortunately i can't find him. The person who i hardly knew but who pretty much saved my life when i was 21-22.

[diamondunicorn]

I love my partner in many ways. But his negativity and drama is over powering at times. This video is an excellent way for me to hopefully be able to still stay in this relationship with him.

[rachelzed]

Great stuff! One thing I find is if I seek out attributes in others that I'd like to see in my family and reflect on them out loud it helps. I always do it with true appreciation and a smile. Never in a comparative, angry way. It works with fictional characters too. I just had to complement my guy the other day for his Mr. Darcy moment.

[juebasu]

Very different and new perspective...I truly appreciate that.

[shalomgarcia]

You've did it again! I love how sincere and helpful you are..Thank you so much for another quality video!! 🙌🏽😁

[maddyG]

Thank you for this. My best friend is my soul sister, she is SO supportive of me. She’s always my number one cheerleader who will encourage me to pursue my dreams, but she struggles a lot in her own life. Sometimes I find it really hard being around her when she’s in her low moods because the complaining and the worry over everything is a lot to swallow and no matter how much I reassure her and show my support, it’s one thing after another. I feel so guilty saying that but I want her to be happy.

[cathymars]

Thanks. 💕 I feel happier already, knowing that this negative person is not my responsibility.
I'm responsible for the me in my skin. So I need to focus on my own positivity and not waste my energy on trying to help negative people.
Yes I will make a habit of leaving space for them, moving away when I feel myself being dragged down, and pointing out positive things that I appreciate about the person. 🙂

[sonalsunshine]

Thank you for being so kind and sharing

[raek]

Bless you....when I searched this subject you were the first to want to help in a 'positive' way. 💕 Just what I needed/was hoping for. Your specific how to's are good! I will endeavor to drop MY labels, MY shoulds. I can be grateful.

[taliakuk]

I am a negative one and I gotta say it really make me live a life I don't want to and the worst part is I lost one important person in my life because of this very negativity.. He was, he is one of the most positive people I've ever met, and it was tough for him to handle me, and I let him go to be happy without me...

[prezidenttrump]

I have this strange issue, where I won't share or tell my friends about things I've learned or read about. I don't do that all the time, but some subjects I keep close to my chest, such as this. In some ways, I think I want to be appear stronger than I am, as I work my way to becoming strong for real, and have them think I'm some sort of super hero who just figures things out. Not really sure, but it's a pattern I noticed within myself.

[phammond]

Your videos came to me at the right time. Thank you for these. !!!! Blessings.

[rabiakamal]

The great video! Thanks for sharing brilliant stuff dr. Paul.

[tanaallen]

This has been very helpful in my situation, thanks!

[yanyan]

Thanks.. just what i need for my friend

[georgeannepanos]

I'd like to share this with a family

[JessicaTang]

Great video Dr.Paul, thank you so much for sharing with us.😊😊😊

[Allie-cklj]

Well, just fine! This is not what I expected! (Joking!) Wouldn't you know, it all depends on me. I'm the only one I can change. Same lesson, over and over again. When will I ever learn?

[paulrevere]

Love it! Amazing information thank you