The Surprising Benefits of a Gray Divorce

Are you considering or going through a gray divorce and wondering what's next? In this video, John Griffin shares the surprising benefits of a gray divorce and how it can be a catalyst for personal growth and development. As a divorce recovery coach, John has helped numerous individuals navigate the challenges of divorce after 50 and find a new sense of purpose in life. He believes that a gray divorce can be an opportunity to start anew, to rediscover yourself, and to create a fulfilling life 2.0. Whether you're seeking divorce healing, empowerment, or simply looking for guidance on how to navigate this significant midlife change, this video is for you. Tune in to learn how to turn this transition into a transformative experience that sets you up for success in your post-divorce life.

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00:00 You Get What You Need
02:42 Gray Divorce On The Rise
06:06 The Perfect Divorce Storm
10:48 Transitioning To The New Reality
15:30 Get Your Money Right
17:05 Free Range and Retired!

[howiesfunware]

Old men regret getting married. Old women regret getting divorced.

[Zoet]

Years of being told I was loading the dishwasher incorrectly, now divorced and it’s just amazing how the dishwasher works just fine for me

[mgtow]

I divorced the ex when I was 48, now 62. I have to tell you, after that 18 years of hell called a marriage, these 14 years have been absolutely wonderful! That was the best decision that I ever made!

[alangeddes]

46 years of Heaven before I lost her. Has been a long decade with a hole that can't be filled. I feel so sorry for you guys that couldn't have that.

[SirGalahard]

When my morher decided to devorce my father, he was 47. I thought it was the worst thing in the world, for us children. 29 years later, he is 75 and is a happy camper, and I am so glad for him. My mother has been remarried, redevorced had partners and feels miserable alone at 74. I bet my father would be dead by now if they stayed together. I love my dad and try to support him in any wsy I can.

[TylerAkers]

My divorce was miserable but 6 years later, i couldnt imagine my life being any other way.

[terrymastalski]

Was married for 28 years. Divorced at 54 yrs old. The last eight years have been the best in my life. No more working 2 jobs. No more coming home to a sink full of dishes. No more supporting her lazy ass.

[drumsnbass]

Grey divorce here in my early 60’s. Took me two years to fully understand my life & times with her and all our dysfunction. At 3+ years I finally feel like I’m me—that I’ve grown back into my skin. I’m just incredibly happy to be ME again!

[eric_linden]

I know a couple in their 50s with no kids. They live in a two bedroom house, but the wife thinks they need to find a five bedroom house.
If he was single, he would be looking to downsize and use the extra money to enjoy the rest of his life.
Men and women really think differently.

[Florida_Joe]

Some things have to end, for better things to begin. Pain is inevitable, but suffering is optional...

[chrismoody]

After 25 years of marriage my wife filed for divorce. Man did my life take a turn. A turn for the better. No more putting out the fires left in my wife’s wake. No more walking on egg shells trying to avoid her misery. All the kids abandon their mother to her own misery. My bank accounts doubled, tripled, No they actually increased 100 fold. Been divorced now for 20 years and have retired from working. I’m never going back to what once was my life of misery. She did me a huge favor. I’m not lonely, my kids and grandkids all live within 15 minute drive. I get to watch them cross all these different milestones as they get older. Just last week watched my grandson put in the go ahead goal at a regional hockey tournament to win the championship title. My grand daughter recently acquired her first car, a really nice car that’s going to last for years and years. All my kids have all bought their own homes in the last few years. I’ve been blessed.

[rayheinlen]

You're spot on, brother. I was married . I adopted her two daughters, and we had a son together. I really loved her, but she made it damn hard the last few years. Got my divorce papers on Valentine's day! She didn't have to work outside the home. I worked 60-80 hrs a week, providing a good life and future. Only to be dumped. Have had a conversation with my oldest daughter since. Never was able to save money until she was gone. Now I'm debt free, own 3 homes, a fleet of paid for semi trucks, and much more. I would have stayed with her, but I wouldn't be where I am financially now. Yes, she did me a favor!

[off-roadadventuresnorthwes]

My Fiancée got cancer about a year ago. I took her to every appointment and sat next to her when possible or waited in the waiting room. Just one time after being at the hospital and bringing her back to her place, feeding her and her son, I had to step out for a couple hours to pick up my son at school. She said, “if you walk out that door, don’t ever come back and if you do try coming back, I’ll slap a restraining order on you.” She call blocked and ghosted me after never missing one appointment and I paid off all her bills to keep her from going bankrupt. That’s what you get for diligently loving and serving someone for seven years.

[damonryan]

I’ve always been a loner and never put allot of thought into marriage. I dated allot through my 40’s, but decided to stop and now that I’m 60… no regrets. I love being single. No headaches.
The thought of dating makes me cringe.
Cheers to the men who understand you don’t have to be a couple to enjoy life.
Happy new year folks!

[averageslaphead]

By far the best channel talking about these subjects. Just pure wisdom in a relaxing atmosphere and tone.

[pauldeal]

“Chronically Unhappy” is a perfect description that describes many older women.

[pugsymalone]

To my fellow men out there: I'm 61 and in Monk mode now. I strongly encourage you to get into cooking. It's very satisfying to assemble the ingredients and prepare a meal, and when it's over, you say to yourself, "Holy Cow, that was freakin delicious!"

It will help you save money like you can't imagine, you will contribute greatly to your own health, and the impact on your morale is difficult to measure.

I just finished a breakfast of chicken Marsala with garlic and oregano, sauteed red and green cabbage with butter and Himalayan salt, and a fresh cup of French roast coffee. "Holy cow, it was freakin delicious!"

The chicken started as a rotisserie chicken from my local grocery store; it doesn't have to be complicated. Cheers!

[tomasfarish]

You are so right! Divorce at 61 after 37 years of marriage was a great gift to me. I started a consulting business, started dancing for exercise, began traveling more, and frankly started casually dating women much younger than I am. I am vigorous and healthy in my late 60's. I still have to force myself to get out an about several time a week, but it is so worth it. I recently had lunch with a former colleague who is about my age. I couldn't believe how OLD he was...shuffling instead of walking, sad and depressed by his divorce, sitting at home watching tv all day, and probably drinking too much. Mental state makes a real difference!

[brianhoyt]

Your experience is similar to mine. My wife left me and divorced me. It was her decision. This gives me the peace of mind where I don't question my decision because it was her decision not mine. Today I am more blessed in my job, finances, and I have more freedom. She remarried. I am free.

[Dee-O]

45 here. 3 years divorced from my high school sweetheart. It was tough until the healing began. I would never go back to her or commit to another woman. Peace and freedom with limited pain is something I’ll not sacrifice. Love you guys!