How To Find A Real Man

Are you tired of going on lame dates with guys who don’t seem to have a clue what they’re looking for or want in a relationship? Is the idea of meeting another immature man making you want to never date again? Well, if that’s the case then you’re in the right place, because today I’m going to teach you some tips for finding REAL men.

That’s right, the kind of guys who you can envision a future with, and who you’d be happy to take home to your parents and show off to your friends. The kind of men who are motivated and kind, the type that will put your needs first and are considerate of your feelings.

If you’re thinking this is too good to be true, you’re wrong. In fact I have plenty of clients who would happily tell you about the great REAL men they’ve found and are now in loving relationships with.

So, where to begin. Well, first I should introduce myself. For those of you who don’t know me, my name is Amy and I’m a relationship coach and women’s dating expert. Now to get a better idea of who you lovely ladies are and your dating preferences, I’d like to ask you a question that you can answer in the poll on the top right corner of this screen. My question for you is this: Would you rather approach a man, or be approached by a man? Be sure to vote in the corner here.

Now, let’s talk men, how to find the good guys and where they’re hiding. To make this easy as pie, I’ve broken this video down into three parts. So, from the top!

1. Meeting Real Men Starts with You!

This means if you’re hoping to find a real man, then you first have to become a “real” woman. And what I mean by this is simply know yourself, your values, your wants and needs in a relationship. Only once you know this, will you be able to find the kind of man who is on the same wavelength as you.

So, grab a piece of paper and draw a line down the middle of it. On the left hand side write out all of your absolute, non-negotiable necessities. These could include things like someone looking for a committed relationship, someone who is driven and passionate, someone who shares the same values as you, and so on.

On the other half, make a list of the things you would be open to exploring. The more detailed you can get here the better, and don’t worry, this list can and probably will change as you continue to meet men and experience new encounters. For instance, what you think is a “possibility” right now, maybe quickly become a necessity. On this half of the list you might include things like someone who is adventurous, someone who shares the same interests as you, etc.

2. Be Open to New Experiences

Obviously your usual hangouts aren’t working for you, so if you’re looking to meet a real man, different from the ones you already have in your life, then you’re going to have to expand your horizons and check out some new spots. Now, not to be stereotypical here, but you’ll need to consider the places you’re looking for Mr. Right, because I highly doubt the kind of guy you’re looking for is grinding with girls on the dancefloor of the newly 19 hot spot.

It can be tough opening yourself up to new experiences, but a good practice to get the hang of it is to be a “yes girl.” Now, this isn’t to say you have to agree to every opportunity that arises, but rather make a point to put yourself out there and try new things. Maybe you always skip office happy hour, or you’ve been turning down your girlfriend’s invitations to social events. Instead of backing away from the idea of something new, give it a go!

Another helpful tip is to take a look at your list, and ask yourself where the kind of guys you’d like to meet would be hanging out. For instance, are you looking for an artsy intellectual? Then check out a museum or gallery. Do you have a thing for musicians? Sign yourself up for a local jam night or check out an open mic. Even if you don’t meet the man of your dreams, putting yourself out there is great practice for when the right guy does come along.

I know first hand how frightening it can be to doing new things, but you’ll never know what you’re missing out on unless you try it. Besides, what’s the worse that could happen? You meet someone who doesn’t float your boat, or you don’t meet anyone at all? I’d say it’s a risk worth taking.

*** More from Amy North: ***

[alittlebitofjoy]

Ugh I want a REAL man. All the ones I've previously dated were imaginary, like, SO annoying

[camazar]

Hi Amy, I like to think of myself as a real man, I have problems putting myself out there because I have a physical disability from an accident. I have tried many forms of dating advice, I almost prefer listening to the women’s side then listening to what the man have to say? Knowing what the woman is looking for from your point of view, it honestly is more understandable as it’s almost like reverse psychology! I appreciate your channel thank you so much!

There honestly isn’t too many women out there that will date a man with a physical disability?

I broke my neck on a mountain bike and I should be in a wheelchair but I’m not! Are used every ounce of my being to fight and get everything I could out of my recovery! I was in GF Strong in Vancouver for 6 1/2 months fighting for the ability to walk out of that place! I did even though Dr. said I would never walk again!

If that’s not being a man I don’t know what is! I can personally say that I know myself and what I want in life and what I can do for another probably more than most people can! I can honestly say I know myself I am limited but not to the point that most people think all I need is a chance to prove myself but most women will not even give me the time of day?

I’ve listen to your friend Brad is really not much help sounds like a great guy but I prefer your point of being of view! Sorry to ramble on but if you got any tIps for the disabled man out there feel free?

I might be disabled but I’m not dead and everything still works! Lol

[mohamedbendhaou]

I am a man turning a 30 years old and I want to be happily blissfully married to a kind, loving and spiritual minded woman, even she is older than me.

[MightyTANK]

can you tell how to find a real women? like a real life one?

[Anamnesis]

"Become a real woman."
🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣 😂 🤣
Good one.

[misspou]

3:35 marry a bassist. their fingers are THE best.

[YZFMANIAC]

Taking advice from a woman to get a real man lol. Like asking the fish how it wants to be catched 😂

[rehnumajamal]

Kindly Make a video on how to maintain a happy married life.

[vapeking]

As a 49yo man I suggest you stop with the super attractive men who won't commit. If you want true love then find someone who is equal to you. Most women nowadays have lost touch with reality and are delusional when it comes to what they expect from a man. The men who you never give a chance are usually the ones willing to commit and treat you like you should be treated. Don't let the delusions lead you to a single for life status. Find a good man while your young marry and have children together. Build a family that stays together forever. Don't just leave when times get tough or you get "bored". God should be #1 in your life and dating a God fearing man will lead to a very good relationship that will last forever. Don't be afraid to show interest we can't read your mind but if you wink, smile, touch us we usually will get the hint. Many guys no longer approach women as the denials can get old after a while and at that point guys will only approach those who show interest! The me too crap also has turned men off of approaching girls. Protip consider dating an older man as these tend to be the longest lasting relationships. I suppose because men take longer to mature and build wealth. 👌🙏

[ironphoenix]

So you are looking for a real man. Well then are you a real woman? It should be noted that men are trying to do the best they can for themselves too. If you are an overweight single mother with a raspy smokers voice and a snarky attitude then don't expect to land a high quality man. One other thing too whenever you hear a woman say she wants a real man all that is about is just serving her. The woman in this video even says it @0:27. I would advise any man that if he hears a woman say that listen very closely to what she is saying after and be cautious.

[Ghdoosh]

Could you please do a video about how to support my boyfriend if he has work issues?

[noscopesnaughti]

If you cant complete #1 I have some bad news for you.

[jcsully]

Real men do not put the needs of women first. They put their own needs first. They lead the way and women follow and in doing so provide for both. Nor do they pay any attention to the irrational emotions of women. They apply logic and reason to the actions they take minimize risk and optimize opportunity, which again benefits both.

[algeriennealgerienne]

please do a video about the one who appeare and disappear without a reason cz i really can't understand him he is like a puzzle 😠

[sashajohnson]

Hey Amy, this is off topic... But I think I need help :( my boyfriend seems to b loosing interest. Ive recognised some mistakes from your videos that ive been doing, and have been doing my best to fix them. But he is now acting different and pulling away. Ive given him space but he just seemed to not care anymore. Things are getting more awkward and talking to him is hard he just isnt acting like he used to toward me. How can I fix this if possible ? Thanks.

[raniamer]

Hi Amy 🙋 so there's this Guy i'm talking to and i really do like him when we first start talking (texting) it was cool we meet once and it was wonderful and it was way better than texting so now our conversation is weak 😥 what should i text him or what should i talk about .. Need help please

[hemanginitiwari]

Hii Amy..
I have a friend. But we are more acquaintance. I like him. He likes me too. But we had some conversation last year regarding dating. I wasn't ready because we haven't met each other. Just on phone we used to talk that's why I never dated that guy. But now after 1 year he texted me and said to meet him. I feel shy and confused too. Because we hardly know each other. Iam afraid that If I get attached to him if he doesn't talk to me. What shall I do?? Thank you for making videos on such topic we are blessed to have you. Godbless

[alatan]

How is it fair to expect from men to put needs of women first? This type of thinking will get most of you living with cats and the rest living with simpletons they will despise for not having a backbone.

[hopemirembe]

Hi am single too but i need husband really husband what can i do?
Please guys am waiting to see comments
Am from uganda Africa
Thanks

[nijah.a]

Can you make a video Amy North Explaining why man Avoid Deep emotional Conversations with you? When you bring up feelings why does he avoid it? Also. Why when a guy hurts your feelings n knows reach out to you then you respond but then they stop responding?