How to Find Out If He’s Married

“The Real” ladies and guest co-host Sheryl Lee Ralph drop a little knowledge on how to find out if he’s cheating, during this Girl Chat. Watch and take notes, ladies!

[thatsojordy]

Roses are Red
Violets are Blue
If he's always busy,
The side chick is you

[livelove]

We women have better intuition than we know. I think we need to learn to trust that. Especially where men are concerned...

[alluringblackB]

If he don't have time or you can't call after 10 or his holidays and weekends don't go to you or you can't go to his house 9 times out of 10 he's married

[Empressive]

Sounds like Sheryl and Jeannie like having part-time husbands lol. I liked Sheryl as a guest.

[MsBrooklyn]

I like Tamera's and Adrienne's ideas the best on how to find out if a man is married. If the man is never around for the holiday season (Christmas, Thanksgiving, and New Years), if the man never invite you around his friends or family, and if the man most of the time never calls or text you and if he never takes you out to go places than that should be a sign that he's a married man.

[daluvofnikki]

Loni was right ask. A lot of women do not ask. They assume. If he is con artist he is going to lie and if your gut is telling you something is not right. Do what Adrienne said check the public records if you are so inclined. I don't think my Father has ever worn his ring. Mainly because of the line of work he used to do. But now he is retired and still I don't think he wears it, because he is accustomed to not wearing it. Trust your gut ladies and ask the right questions up front.

[TBTrade]

Sheryl held that seat down. I'd love her to be there until Tamar is back.

[xMlleCheerry]

Lol look for the tampons? If he's married he's not taking you to the house he lives in with his WIFE

[chelly]

This chat was too good for me. I dated a married man and the signs were all there but marriage was not a thought in my head. Just that something wasn't right. All I know is trust your gut!!

[MSASHLEYG]

Men do not carry pictures in their wallet anymore lol

[HewanYitagesu]

just check his phone to see who calls/texts him the most and call her back and be like 'who diss' and if she says 'his wife B*itch, who's this' then he's married.

[mamie]

I absolutely loved Cheryl on the show. I love her in general

[nicolenunya]

Lmao @ Adrienne's face at 1:58, like Jeannie just put her on game...a few years ago my friend did exactly what Adrienne did and found out her man was married

[clarke]

I've watched an episode with "Say yes to the dress" and the bride has not seen her fiance in 12 years...she claimed both too busy to find appropriate time to be physically present with each other, yet still she still getting married to him smh.I'm like but now that they getting married he now has the time? hmm. Long distance relationship is a no no for me, I dont know how some people do it

[SophieLovesSunsets]

What Adrienne said is 100% true. Lots of people don't realise that marriage certificates and divorce papers are actually public records. In this day and age of the internet people would have to be pretty foolish to lie because there are lots of websites where if you pay just a small fee it will give you a background check on someone, marriages, divorces, criminal records ... etc. So if someone is being dishonest you can easily do research on them at a click of a button. When I was single and dating I always listened to my gut feeling, if I ever had my suspicions that someone wasn't being truthful about their past or their present that was enough for me to walk away from them, intuition is everything.

[Lovebirdd]

My god I love Jeannie! Her hairstyles are so beautiful with those signature braids that she does in so many different designs. I'm so glad I started watching The Real because now even if the show doesn't get picked up sometime I'll still be able to keep up with someone I genuinely enjoy watching.

[SolarLove]

I don't need to spend $14.99 on anything I'm the ultimate snooper & stalker

[bookbag]

I want to see my man everyday, Can't do long distance.

[llfalexo]

I love Jeannie's enthusiasm!!! You can tell she loves her job.

[briellecruz]

"He'll be leaving soon"

Not with me. You're stuck with me Ain't no breaking up lmao.