Words that destroy a narcissist

[CFernndz]

U forgot, "NO!"
That really twists their panties in a bunch.

[celissewillis]

“I’m disappointed in you” is so far off the mark! They don’t even care about your disappointment! They don’t even care when you’re sad or upset, & not one that I’ve come across has cared about me being hurt or disappointed

[HarpazoReady]

Girl YOU ARE SPOT ON!! 💥 I do all these to the office narcissist and it keeps her in check and at bay! I ignore phone calls to my cell- call my office phone. And that’s stopped them. I don’t return texts after work lol. It’s kinda fun bc I know it drives her nuts. Everything is an emergency 🙄
I work in a school & she’s off for summer. She text me one morning last week asking for me to send her a copy of her resume bc she has four days to send it. I waited 30-minutes & replied “I’m in the middle of something right now. I will have to look later.” One minute later she responds “I found it. Thanks anyway.”

Another example from last week, she included me in a group text about updates on her sisters surgery. I responded to one out of courtesy. After multiple subsequent updates, I didn’t respond again. She sent one last update. I didn’t respond. So she texts me individually with the same text update. I knew she was attempting to force a response. So I didn’t respond to that either lol. It’s been silent now. She got the hint.
These people are so annoying & demanding. But you gotta be tough & strong to put THEM in their place.

[kristyLpriotti]

I used to believe that would work. But then I realized that they can't be destroyed by ANY of your I found that it is not what you rather it is what you DONT say. The sweet sounds of silence from you to the narc .... is like nails on a chalk board for them. They don't get "destroyed" by it, but damn it's fun to see them confused.
No response is the best (and I believe it's the only) response to that.
You can't "destroy" a narc by saying those things but it'll drive them Banana and confuse the shit or of them.

[needabusinessloanviewourch]

This is so true, I wasted 26 years ignoring the red flags, these smart phone devices in people's hands have taken them away from real individuality, not until i got closure on my husband I was in the dark. We create our reality and the consciousness of the planet is accelerating. This means people have to become more aware of who they are. When one experiences abuse, you first become aware of the abuse, then realizing you are a victim, With healing and processing comes strong boundaries built by confidence in your worth.

After this comes a realization that the experience made you stronger and more of who you are and that the narcissist was simply a vehicle for your growth. Ultimately you then realize we are all a creation of our energetic spiritual energy and the narcissist was and is a part of us. In the end, we become accepting of the experience and knowing we would never go back to the previous unawakened and unenlightened version of ourselves. It is not by any means an easy journey and is filled with pain especially when we incarnate into a family with a parent of such characteristics. There is a plan and it is ultimately to drive us. You would love an awakened version of you.  

My husband was a deceptive narcissist and sociopath, he would never apologize, I was always made to feel little on the inside, it was pure psychological warfare at its lowest, I suspected infidelity on his path, not until with the help of the developer of an app code name rat9 for accessing his device without having to physically touch it, with a functionality to view deleted chats and messages as well as call logs and in-app chats, I was completely in the dark. There was a Conversation I read on his Instagram Account where he did address me as 'beauty with no brains'. I'm finally going through a divorce with evidences too overwhelming. His device contained secrets that I could never have imagined. If in need of such help, write directly to the developer on email ' ethandavydova at gmail dot com '.

[triplejmom]

Say these things by going full no contact. Give them a permanent silent treatment.

[rc]

"I really don't care what you think anymore"

[riverratrvr]

When I saw the "I don't believe you" I subscribed!
Hit the nail on the head with that one! I told my best friend wife that as she desperately tried to gaslight me over the weekend, and SHE BLOCKED ME!
Lucky me, right!?

[eandsm]

SPOT ON ! ! !
Make it a GREAT day everyone!!!

[katieneal]

Wouldn't most of those affect victims of abuse too...I've been in a victim mindset from severe abuse and it definitely carries over...if anyone is in either of these I promise the best option for you both is to release the attachment and separate...see possibilities for a better life for both of you so you can truly live life...placing labels only furthers trauma...they'll know they are the narcissist when they have issues after you please don't confront them...simply walk away with love and disconnect please value yourself more and imagine a life worth living...you are not broken that's an illusion...you are a survivor ❤️

[krissykazele]

We mustn’t forget “no”.... that will invoke their absolute most animated and explosive tantrums ever.🙌🏻🤷🏼‍♀️

[susanfurlong]

Learn their Achilles heel! Trust me, they completely meltdown when you "get" them!! RUN from these horrible beasts.

[beatewagner.]

The best "words" to say are....
silence !
👍💪✌️😊

[ladyadlauge]

I feel like “I don’t like you” deserves a spot here even if you don’t mean it

[ginabrown]

Getting worse. It is such a strange thing. Im smart, not to brag. Alot of street smart and common sense. This is the most stressful. Unhealthy, weird, quizative, what the heck, psycho situation. Im bewildered. Its scary. I feel so weird

[annaburns]

I love this video. Dealing with narcissists is extremely difficult. I’m ready to just give a simple reply like this and be done with it. 😁

[llwpeaches]

Lmao. I just casually said "I'm busy" to my narcissistic neighbor the other week after she kept botheting me and I'd finally had enough of her shit. She flipped the hell out into a full narcissistic rage with severe verbal abuse and did the whole pretending to discard me first as if I hadn't been purposefully avoiding her already. She even hurled insults that I knew beforehand that she would use. It was a disturbing experience, but also fascinating as hell because it was such a classic, predictable, textbook response.

[kellystarlight]

This!!! This was the song my 30 year old daughter sent me the day I evicted him!! So empowering!!! ❤️ You are empowering as well!!! Cute as a button with brains!!!

[nmccleary]

Can I just say how much I really love you? Much mad love!!! You help me, a stranger with your wisdom and kindness. You bring air to my lungs. You speak truth to my brain. You care for this girl being gaslight by relative and I see your words written on my spirit.

[octaviahh]

I said 'nice story' when an attempt at gaslighting was being tried on me. It infuriated him that I wasn't buying it and set him off on a huge rant about how I don't care about his needs, I'm doing this and that, blah, blah, blah. I didn't stick around to listen to it.