The REAL Reason You Will Never Be 'That Girl'

Hello lovers,

Today I wanted to talk about the reasons that you may believe that you are never going to be "that girl".

But despite what the title and the face I am pulling in the thumbnail, this video is actually meant to inspire you to do exactly that. I WANT you guys to go after your best self with literally every single solitary thing that you have. And I rebuke anyone who tries to make you think that you shouldn't do it, you cant do it, it's not worth doing, or that you don't deserve it.

I said what I said.

Besos!

Whit xoxoxox

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[doug]

Thank you for this video. I had been watching that girl content and it was really motivating. Then I watched a video about how that girl content is just trying to get us to be the most productive for the capitalist society to feed the machine and produce more. So I stopped watching it. when watching your video I realized that it was helpful and I’m not feeding the machine so to speak, if I want to watch and follow suit in this content. Negative content really does have the ability to grab you and not let go.

[glamwarrior]

I think the problem is that people interpret "That Girl" as a destination. "That Girl" is synonymous with ideal, perfect, flawless, constant, etc. All of which are unattainable to us as imperfect humans! To me, it is not about becomimg "that girl" because I'll never get there. Its about the journey of striving toward that ideal, and perfect version of myself. Though I'll never succeed, I will still be better than I was the day before because I'm always reaching for "That Girl". Thanks for creating such thought provoking content. 😘😊

[melanierodriguez]

I’m actually surprised because I never heard of anyone taking “that girl, ” in a negative context. If anything I felt it promoted self love, and self motivation.
Maybe people who haven’t introduced themselves to that mindset, haven’t identified with it at all. Therefore projecting it focused on comparison to another “unattainable person.” Personally, “that girl, ” is the best version of me and I strive to be that girl every day. Even if it’s 1% better than the day before. I am that girl when I show up for myself emotionally, mentally, and/or physically. The woman I’m creating is THAT GIRL. I love me now. And I will also love her too!!
Lol as always Whitney, thank you for this awesome video. It needed to be said.
Love these!!! ♥️🌹♥️🌹♥️

[spacebar]

i love this make up look, you look like a doll!! and i agree ! i feel like too many people are deliberately taking it the wrong way. if you dont want to be apart of it then just don't.

[beckyb]

I totally agree with watch something positive! It’s why I love your videos Whitney! I have really been trying to focus on what actually makes me feel happy and joyful, not just what fills the time and in the end doesn’t motivate or make me smile.

[alanamose]

Yes! I’m glad I’m not the only one who had the unpopular opinion about what Kim said. I agree she could have said it differently to get her point across but we can’t control what people say!

[bemydinosaur]

I love this Whitney! Thanks for the perspective and motivation ♥️

[nancykerrigan]

Lol, I sub to the take too and just finished a video before watching you! Lol

[stephanied]

Burnout is definitely 💯 real I get it a lot thanks to my mental health

[deeluther]

🌹Good Video as Usual🌹
Lovely thumbnail tho
🥰You Looking So Beautifully🥰
Makeup always on Point
😘Nice Cheeks Structure😘
Happy MarvelouS Week Too
😇Stay Bless n Be safe Always😇

[cnice]

People were so offended by Kim’s comment bc people can’t help to but to compare to others. The audacity to compare yourself to Kim is mind boggling to me. If you listen to the message without the comparison there is nothing offensive about it.

[carafrey]

Personally "that girl" content motivates me and gives me something to look forward to

[sikay]

Let’s define the word “work”. Perhaps it has negative connotations attached to it, but why? Life is work. Self development is work. Progress is work. Work is positive. I’m not sure why it needs to be seen as negative. Seeking perfection is something else, that is false and breeds negative attributes. Working towards a better version of oneself should be celebrated. It promotes growth and awareness.

[easymanga]

The whole "That Girl" thing reminds me about something Silvia Bovenschen called "die imaginierte Frau" (I think it can be translated as "the imagined woman"). The principle is this: In a patriarchal society men can be individuals, but women are images. The mother, the witch, the damsel, the femme fatale, the woman in the refrigerator, the manic pixie dream girl, the cool girl, the "not like other girls" or now That Girl. We are expected to conform to a type, instead of being a whole person and it is so ingrained in us, that we even do it to ourselves.

[danyf.]

I think any change in our lifestyle, habits, routine, even if the goal is wellness, is not easily sustainable in the long run if it is too big and drastic. Small and incremental changes are more likely to have a positive effect on our health and happiness. I also agree with what you said, we should not make decision after comparing ourselves to others, especially to what we see on social media. We should strive for our own version of "that girl".

[shgws]

"people like to hear good news about their bad habits." YES

[Foxijt]

I knew there was a reason I gravitated towards you, Aquarius see each other! I really think you should attempt to try the positivity content, you are right, there is so much "The downfall of" content. I would love to see your positivity rituals, what colors, clothing, home scents etc make you feel positive. I love your outlook on everything!

[alidapearce]

I agree! There's entirely too much negative content. That's one reason I love your channel...very positive but keeping it real. Hugs!

[Maria-.]

Anything that no longer serves me, I unsubscribe I unfollowed or Deleted

I’m working on the best version of me (that Girl) the old version of me that’s where I’m currently trying to be
It’s taking me time but I’m doing the best I can 🙏🏻❤️😍

This video is everything😍❤️

[jessicac]

A lot of “that girl” content that goes into the thousands and thousands of view range on the clock app is, pretty aesthetic, one camera shot views of “a day in the life”. People are seeing only the highlight reel, per usual, and most of us are common folks with common homes and common clothing that don’t usually fit the expensive “that girl” vibe. That’s how I see it. But, my takeaway from that content when I was viewing was, make better habits in the morning, take my vitamins, complete my skincare. Blah blah etc etc. additionally, your thoughtfully curated videos help me self improve in many ways too but it’s so much more realistic.