Friend-zoned? Here’s why.

[NeonNova]

Instructions unclear, i am now in federal prison for assault.

[massimo]

Don’t accept the friend zone fellas. Don’t think you can wait her out. Make your intentions clear to her. If she isn’t on board, you take your time and attention elsewhere.

[thomasjurgensen]

Falling in love with someone should never be something this complicated. If you like them, you shouldn't act like a prize in order to attract them

[LNLBD]

F all those rules. Relationships should not be so complicated.

[lecomtedeneuch]

Guys, I struggled until my 28 year of age with women. Here is a quick resume instead of listening to her because you might take it the wrong way :
- Be a challenge
- Stop being "nice"
- Don't be too available
- Tease her with humor, be playful
- Never ever put her on a pedestal
- Your compliments should rather be on her personality than her physical appearance.
- Don't show any emotional reaction to whatever she says. If you don't like something, tell her in a calm manner. For example : Anytime a woman says that I'm nice I go for a saying like : "I have my moments, yes." I know it's sound stupid but it works.
- If you like a girl that has a boyfriend and she seems to like you, stop whatever you're building in your mind. She's looking for a replacement and she'll do the same to you.
- There isn't the "one". Just women. Take your chances. If you get rejected, you win. If you get her you win.
Get your mindset right then go talk to women. Peace.

Last thing : "Never showed any sexual interest", don't do that unless she seems interested in you, you'll just scare her away. Time limit to know if she likes you : first interaction to 2 months if you're patient, longer than that, forget it and move on.

[jparcasm]

If you leave me in the friends zone, you gon catch me in your friends phone.

[wizardwisdom]

If it's true that the easier you are to get, the less value you have, then why do women get angry when someone says that having a high body count is unattractive?

[JSK_]

I was friendzoned by a girl, I liked for years. One day, I had enough, I cut off contact, started ignoring her and a year later, she started throwing hints and tried flirting with me. I was done with her at that point, tho!

[fatboy]

She has such great advice, she must have dated a ton of women to learn so much about em.

[keithsmith]

This is such BS

She friendzoned you because she is not physically attracted to you

Remember, Chad can:

Act as a friend
Put her on a pedestal
Take no lead
Create no tension
Literally do NOTHING

And she WILL still sleep with him

[enfynet]

Uhh... This is why people are so screwed up about relationships now. If i can't be your friend why the hell would i want a relationship with you?

[bills]

I may be wrong and there will be exceptions to what I am about to say, but most relationships that start with friendship are usually the ones that last a lifetime. The reason for that is you didn't just jump right in with someone based off of their looks. As friends, you start to hangout, you know what each other likes, you vibe together. So even when you become lovers, the friendship remains and it becomes a beautiful relationship where you know the person inside and out.

[jayhpaq]

This right here is a good example of the kind of woman you want to avoid.

[martinbrewi]

Be honest. once you're in the friend zone, she will always see you as a friend and nothing more . Dump your female friend and go on to another woman.

[ADayOOO]

True, but it’s also important to note that kissing the ground someone walks on can create a lot of pressure on that person to reciprocate. Not only a turnoff, but honestly anxiety inducing.

[xyshomavazax]

We’ve heard millions of times that guys only want one thing, and we don’t take the time to get to know women. So we do the right thing - take it slow, treat you as a human being, and wait for the right opportunity to express romantic interest - then get friend-zoned because we didn’t act fast enough. Not in a year or a month — it happens in a matter of DAYS. Can’t even take you on a second or third date without getting this nonsense.

[PantheraOnca]

"I would just never want to lose your friendship." You just did, sweetypants.

[adamurmos]

I feel like women like to put too much emphasis on nebulous things like: "the vibe, the energy, the ick or the chemistry" You can't explain these well to men. We generally speaking want more tangible things like: is she attractive, good in bed, or just doesn't have a horrible personality. We can't afford to be super picky, so we'll have a hard time understanding what exactly do women want especially as this is not necessarily the same for every woman. There is no magic formula or cheatcode to the female brain. The best general advice one could give is: take care of how you look and dress, build some confidence, take the initiative, don't be distraught by rejection and most importantly: have integrity. That is it gents. Let's stop pretending that these dating influencers have all the answers to your issues and can tell you why women don't want you without knowing anything about you.

[hank]

Exactly why I don’t care about being single I’d rather be single then have to deal with these mind games women pull, why do women have to complicate everything, I said a long time ago I’m good with all that, I’ve been happier ever since lol

[AngelLopez-meep]

“When engaging the enemy know your enemy” -art of war