She Friend Zoned Me But Still Messages Me, Why?

Jennifer and Corey discuss a viewer question that asks about a girl who friend zoned him but still messages him and he wants to know why she does it.

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[troubleshooter]

If you tried to date a girl and she puts you in the friend zone, cut ties and never talk to her again.
If all guys do this it might teach women how hideous their behavior is. It doesn't matter how lonely you are, dump her permanently. She doesn't deserve any more contact.

[ceasarsalad]

The paradox with the friend zone is that it's not real. If she gives a guy the "lets just be friends speech" it means she just wants him as an orbiter and not a friend. The moment a friendzoned guy wants to meet up for lunch he will be swiftly rejected because she only wants him as someone she can call on for validation if she's feeling down about herself. If she messages the orbiter and he replies then it tells her he's still interested and communicates that she's still desired by someone and that's all she wants. She will then proceed to end the conversation.

[daveblackman]

You’ve become another girlfriend for her and wants your attention. Let her go and be

[brianmarshall]

Why care any further? She got her chance. Next!

[kingofgames]

I am so sick and tired of being second fiddle. All these girls having their orbiters and guys they can run to for validation and comfort when their main guy isn't working out. SICK OF IT

[stellarumbrella]

Friendzone just means she isn't interested in the guy romantically OR as a friend but will keep his number just in case she starts to develop self esteem issues. If she's having doubts about her own worthiness she'll drop him a message and see what happens. If he replies she knows he's interested in her which in turn will "scratch the itch" for validation. Once this is achieved she will feel no desire to continue the conversation since she was never interested in the guy for anything at all. Friendship will not work because she knows he wants more so will not feel safe around him.

[bidensbikepedal]

I booted her out of my life, especially after she led me on, whether it was intentional or not.

[breatheliveandthrive]

Translation to her behavior: You will be my back up while am searching for chad thundercock.

[jg]

I had a situation like this, took me a while to realize it was never gonna happen with her. I finally walked away and stopped contacting her. I unfollowed her on social media so that I can’t see what she posts, nor do I want to. I probably should just delete her number.

[suriyadunya]

She sometimes keep people friendzoned for validation. Women can be trash

[MailmanNick]

Too many women in this world to deal with girls like that. Go out with the other girls who are trying to see you. They'll appreciate you more.

[siegfried]

I like how you didn't even let your co-host get that idea out it might have confused some of your followers.

[mrdee]

She texts her friends for attention and you are one of them!

[s.ctcdmjndedr]

The "friend" is only there for moral support when Chad does the pump & dump.

[bigdaddysugarcane]

Tell her your “busy” you have plans. Then ghost her. Just like they do. The worst thing a woman can do (and do) is talk about the (cute guys, hot guys) right in front of you like your invisible man. Disrespectful and insulting. Been there and learned a lesson. No more favors or hearing about your dates or problems.

[devilsadvocacy]

Answer: Because she wants you to be her backup plan, her emotional tampon, and/or do boyfriend/husband things for her without being your girlfriend/wife.
Either way, if you have an ounce of self-respect, be/do none of those things

[troubleshooter]

At 5:37 he mentions a fictitious character named Chad Thundercock. That is hilarious!

[m_jay]

If you friendzone (reject) me, you aren't getting the boyfriend benefits! I'm walking away and unless you change your mind you are getting no contact! I don't need to be strung along and given false hope anymore like I was in my late teens and 20s, done with that crap!

[PB-mdnt]

Coach, I usually disagree with most of your methods..HOWEVER, you hit this one out of the park. Although I would never agree to be in the friendzone to begin with, your responses were spot on here. My last GF tried to play the friendzone routine, although she didn't necessarily outright say it, but her actions were making me do the math on it.

Day 44 of NC today

[aaronlang]

I know instantly when an ex has issues with current boyfriends from the random snap, DM etc.. basically a "hey what's up? U still available".