The Pain Of The Narcissist From A Narcissistic Injury

The Pain Of The Narcissist From A Narcissistic Injury
00:00 Welcome and Shout Outs
00:36 Introduction
01:48 How Narcissists Respond To All Narcissistic Injuries
02:53 The Ultimate Narcissistic Injury
05:24 The Narcissist's Emotional Response To The Ultimate Narcissistic Injury
07:57 How Narcissist Treat Their Injuries

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Published: 12/12/2021

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#exposingthenarcissist #narcissist #narcissisticinjury

[gabrielamartiniuc]

Seeking help requires humility. They won’t seek help and that’s a choice !

[debrawilson]

The narcissist has made many their Cinderella; the one that doesn't get to go to the ball or ever wear her gown. The one who gets to scrub the floors and pick up messes the narcissist leaves behind. Cinderella doesn't have a life, no friends but sits waiting to serve her narcissist...at least that is what the narcissist wants. Narcissistic injury comes when Cinderella realizes she is beautiful, loved and can go to the ball any time she wishes. She is free to choose, free to have her own mind and free to be herself. She no longer listens to the condescending threats because they do not pertain to her. She is whole in her soul, happy and full of life. She doesn't have to dream of wearing a gown fit for a princess because SHE IS THAT PRINCESS. The narcissist will insist she wear Cinderella's shoes that are worn and torn from running to the narcissist's every whim and demand. Cinderella cannot have her own identity. It would mean the end of narcissistic control. If she found out she was a princess to be honored and cherished... the narcissist would have to sacrifice the many ways they intend to destroy her identity as a princess. Cinderella must remain for the narcissist to survive.

[MyAgenT]

Exposed, insulted and abandonned 39 days ago, "my narcissist"* is dismissive avoidant, he gets scared easily and hides the head under the carpet. Hope he NEVER attempts to contact me again. But I am ready for his revenge in case he dares to challenge my sense of self. I am actually thankful that I met him cause he showed me my true inner power

[katrinahill]

I'm so happy now, I'm finally free from harm xxx

[kafkaesqueee]

Watching these videos can someone's make me wonder if I'm a narcissist. But I think the best way to tell in a case of a bruised or hurt ego is:

If you're angry and hurt and you want revenge, but you're going to therapy and trying to heal from it because you won't go to extremes to achieve revenge, then you're not a narcissist.

I think simply by watching these kinds of videos you aren't one. Because you're here trying to understand and heal from something.

[Anna-icpt]

Thank you for mentioning they may even "hire a hit man". This is what I'm dealing with now. My ex is a raging coke addict and alcoholic locksmith. 😤 If he comes for me, I'm ready...

[mickyj]

I think I caused a Narcissistic injury recently… I went no contact.. but when I didn’t respond to a comment on my social media, the Narc sent a personal message and threatened to unfriend me.. Looking back they never responded to my likes or comments, but was offended that I did the same, this one time !! 🤦🏽‍♀️😂😂😂

[dumblizzie]

I dumped a Narc and energy vampire when I finally realised what they were. The manipulation and controlling behaviour was unreal. I saw their fake self. I walked away quietly, no explanation and no contact. Blocked their no. Then it got 2 flying monkeys to do his dirty work. Last time I saw it socially the anger and rage from it was unreal. I refused to talk to it, I felt dark energy from it cos I refused to let it drain my life force, give it my attention. It's not happy cos I refuse to have a public showdown of exposure and let it play the victim for supply and project blame on to me. I've seen it around and won't give it eye contact or talk to it. It's lost power and control. It's probably in panic mode seeking new supply from the flying monkeys. Me - I don't care anymore I had 6 months of mind games❤️

[dawnia]

I believe that my exnarc is waiting in the shadows to destroy me, I will never answer the Hoover.

[sandykayto]

Clarice, so true. I walked away quietly forcing him to make huge blunders that exposed him. During a session of fam therapy to support our daughter, our gazes locked for some seconds and the hatred that spewed from his eyes was amazing. Now it's sabotage and stalking. I will however still refuse to let him destroy my peace. All i feel for him now is pity...

[michaelb]

My narc got an narcissistic injury when I became honest with her, explaining to her that I understood her. I thought I was being honest and an understanding friend. Little did I know she didn't want to face reality.

She's a single mom to a 4y/o boy, recently divorced. I thought me telling her I know her needs and understand her emotions was a good thing, and she can depend on me. Instead it triggered her massive !!!

[peterknyk]

Thank you so much, Clarice for continuing to explain narcissistic abuse and behavior....calling out the narcissist with truthful comments or simply the truth is dangerous because they get SOOO ANGRY! 🤬 Thank you Clarice! Your videos are ALWAYS so helpful....🙌💞🙌

[MrHappyNappy]

Their destiny is destruction, their god is their stomach, and their glory is in their shame. Their mind is set on earthly things.

[GinjaNinja]

I've survived the most deadly and dangerous attacks from my ex Narc...and the words that I CONCENTRATE in this, are...I HAVE, SURVIVED!!! I wish you all a totally safe 'recovery' a release from your suffering and Peace and Joy and thanx to Clarice for her unerring...CLARITY. Blessings all...

[tanyaclouse]

Thank you, this video is sad but true!! I am trying to leave my children's father, it's been 17 years living and dealing with him. I first realized about 18 months ago what he is. So I became obsessed for about 2 months in finding out all about narcissism. The last 17 years of my life made a little more sense. Sad but true!!! I am working on a way out, the beginning of a brand new life for me.

[skmbausa]

Love your show. I'm a Super Empath/The Truth Teller and son of a Malignant/Vindictive Narcissist father, who is now 85 years old and lives in Singapore. I'm a suvivor. Thank God. Thank for your educational show. You are a true warrior :-)

[erwin-fegi]

That's exactly what l did...I threatend 2 expose the monster, writting a LIST of secrets tht ONLY I knew...(afther the PROMISS of smear campain) ...need l say;
I was left alone!!* Tx Clarisse...girl..u ROCK

[ai]

This was painfully true! It saddens me that the narcissist is in so much pain out of sheer unhealed trauma and ignorance. I can only send blessings and continue to work on my inward journey. Continued gratitude, Clarice! Love and light to all 💛🌟

[mekaorsu]

I’m an educated empath. I took tongue lashed them, devalued them, deleted her number and blocked all the flying monkeys. I went hard on all of them and bow out.

[narcissistinjurygiver]

being exposed is so bad for these creatures that they will even take the side of another narc who they hate if that narc is exposed. they would not wish being exposed on their enemy