Top psychological tactic a narcissist uses to love bomb you

This is how mirroring works #narcissism #narcissist #narcissistic

Break a Trauma Bond 6-Week Challenge:

[cushmanarmitige]

I made this mistake, she would repeat things i said a few weeks or months later, even stole a long story of how i was treated as a kid, i was surprised and said "oh that happened to me" and we bonded. Looking back i feel a fool when thinking back. So many red flags i ignored.

[davidemm]

" hi wow, what a coincidence to see you at the store again, I love your smile" " what do you have for me to take from you cause I am virtually an empty human. "

[IzabelaWaniek-ix]

True. If something seems too good to be true, it’s because it probably is not true. We must watch out!

[cj]

Randomly taking note of this also as why I hate interviews, and thus another sign I'm not the actual narcissist :'D

[annaburns]

Ok. So this is why I feel like I’m being interrogated every time I meet a person. Basically they know nothing about Star Wars but pretend to by baiting me into giving them more information. This is why I hate it when people constantly ask me questions, like dude, just talk about something you are interested in. Maybe I will like it anyway. And if I do, then I have found a genuine friend. If not, there are other people who will.
I hate how most people are not genuine anymore.

[Arcturus]

A lot of people fall for this because they need to get that perfect partner that checks off every box. Narcissists fall for this because they have to see a reflection of their own thoughts and desires.

[andrewstewart]

Conversation mirroring is taught by dating coaches to stop awkward moments and help create connection during the date. Oops!

[Imnotyourdoormat]

*"Let him have it. It's not wise to upset a Wookie." "But Sir. Nobody worries about upsetting a Droid." "That's because Droids don't pull peoples arms out of their sockets when they lose. Wookies are known to do that."*

[davidchelepyan]

Thanks for the great video. My narcissist is excellent at using mirroring. If you have a conversation with her you will think she is the best, the kindest, and most caring person in the world. In the beginning of the relationship, she wanted what I wanted and was agreeable but when I would ask her or her family about her past, I would get nothing. On one particular occasion when I had gone to visit her parents, I asked her family to tell me about her growing up, immediately her dad, also a narcissist, shut down the conversation. On another occasion when I was trying to find out more about her past relationship she had her dad threaten me with physical violence. Being new and naive I stayed in the relationship. Now were are split up and she wont let me see my daughter even though we have a court order. On multiple occasions I have had the police call her about the court order, which she says she is more than willing to follow, but when my family or I reach out to her she just ignores us. It's very difficult because I feel my daughter is essentially held as a hostage by these narcissists and I can't really do anything besides taking her to court, which is a long process to say the least. As cliche as it sounds, I hope this helps someone to not make the same mistake as me lol