The REAL Reason Why You're Sad When You're Single..

Do you feel sad when you're single or do you just not feel valuable? Let's talk about it!

[womenwhodate]

"Don't forget a person's greatest emotional need is to feel appreciated." - H. Jackson Brown

[kayemendi]

PREACH!! I learned this lesson the hard way. Once I learned to value myself instead of looking for someone else to value me, my whole world changed for the better!!

[bunanenelevu]

Now can we talk about the people that are in a relationship but look at single people like their more happier?

[MsmmBeretta]

Refreshing to hear someone so young talking about this.

[jhinckle]

You know this isn’t always the case. Honestly as a dude I miss the idea of growing with a person, learning that person, having those special intimate moments (not sex) where you do things y’all would do together, I miss laying next to a person and enjoying their company. People have needs, physical touch being a huge one.

The idea that this is all about being valued is oversimplified and a bit nonsense, take it from a person in the field. Yes people can be too dependent in a relationship and assign their value within that dynamic more than their own self worth (often due to anxious attachment styles), however we are humans and our society was built on tribes and tribes have social structures and family units. This is why speaking about nurturing and this and that does play into it, but not as much as y’all think, there is a nature component to this as well (for survival). We crave connection and that connection is what we miss because it is biologically driven and socially instilled, but these social structures are part of our individual identity (how we view the world be our own experiences) and play into our own psychological health/wellness. We crave connection>connection helped build our society>social connection is prioritized by society>this cycles continues thorough out history

People just be on the internet making a video and y’all be like facts, but these are just regular degular folks who use their experiences to justify their opinions. This is no substitute for actual theories and dynamics in psychology, sociology and anthropology.

[mvxzrpg]

I guess I'm comfortable as a single woman, since I value me for who i am. I feel more valuable when I'm independent. But i also had family who helped me build my self importance around myself and not a man.

[CBrown-zujf]

Good point Taty! I been single all my life though. It's time.

[lifeasniya]

and it makes me want a real man in my life to help nuture and sooth me. but at the same time i really been trying to take time and continue to learn myself. learning yourself is one of the most beautiful things of being single and being a young woman. thank you for this loveeee 💕💕💕

[redtigerlily]

I love this. And to say even more on it when you get in that relationship is less than what you were really looking for and less than what you deserve so you feel even emptier!

[je]

I agree. I used to feel that way back then but I'm glad I learned self-love.

[SumMumBoMum]

Or maybe it's because we are not meant to be alone and you're feeling the natural instinct of a being a mate. Just a thought.

[astalsa]

What really matters in life?
Got to ask yourself after all the fun, traveling and self-worth what do you really have when you get too old to do all that and what will keep you living?

For me a solid family around me with a foundation that I created for a successful future.

Guess what, that requires a partner which makes alot of people feeling lonely or like wasting time when single.
Turning to science to make up for the lack of compatibility with a partner will only create a void for the child not having two parents.
No amount of self worth can fix that if family is your purpose.
Bottom line we need eachother.

[lawless]

Girl I’m single I got out of a narcissistic relationship and I’m rlly rlly happy . I don’t need me a boy with mommy issues and an attitude . We should all value ourselves and not forget about our worth!I rlly like your videos btw they are very inspiring 💕

[crystalanamericaninsicily]

Yes! It's WONDERFUL to have a soulmate BUT let's work on YOU! Better your life!!

[chatwat]

FACTS and she young. I'm a older woman and you're speaking FACTS

[clarissa]

What she's saying it’s too real and when I was single I felt that way too. Damn lol🥲😅

[lifeasniya]

because i don't even feel valuable in my own household😢💕

[acerexdeus]

I'm a dude thas been watching ur content 4 a teeny while since my girl friend (not girlfriend lol) shared a vid ov urs 2 me and I hav 2 say, ur content iz soooo friggin helpful yo!
I know this channel iz more female focused... but it's reeeel good info 4 anybody 2 hav. U r the baddest ass ov all badasses, tx 4 tha stuffs u put on here, I appreciate it 8)

[BUCK]

Finally a young beautiful sister that speak harmonious and positivity finally. Cuz a lot of these ladies just laying on their back and getting paid that small amount of money and destroying their body physically and her mind.I mean who going to want you after you done slept over 10 or more dudes. You done been ran through you ruined. yeah guys want to smash but that's about it.🤨

[candzjordann]

preach Taty ! there is nothing wrong with being happy while single ! 💕