Your Wife Cheated On You (Now What?) | Can You Ever Trust Her Again? | Dr. Doug Weiss

When your wife cheats on you, you will never be the same.
It's not always the man who cheats, but it sometimes seems that way because men don't tell the world about it.

Your anger, pain, frustration, trauma, and embarrassment are valid. You need to find help for yourself.
You may feel like getting a divorce, you may want to work on the marriage, you may want to cheat in revenge, there are many feelings that come along with this traumatic event.

But when your wife cheated on you, how do you get over it?
If you want to heal the marriage, you need to get to the root of her problem so that this doesn't continue to happen to you.
She may need to deal with a sexual addiction, trauma, intimacy issues, possibly intimacy anorexia, etc. She may need to take a polygraph to verify her faithfulness or recovery. She needs to get help, but you must get your own help as well.

The book, Partner Betrayal Trauma™ was written specifically for those who have experienced the trauma of betrayal from a spouse. (Yes, it is generally gender specific to women, but men who have experienced this can use the principles as well.)

The Partner Betrayal Trauma ™ Book helps you understand the broken trust and trauma you have experienced in your relationship or marriage. This betrayal can come from infidelity, pornography, or intimacy anorexia.

Partner Betrayal Trauma ™ is a real type of trauma. Your pain and experience of betrayal has impacted all of your being and all of your relationships.

Dr. Doug Weiss walks you through what betrayal trauma looks like in your life, how it affects, you, and steps you can take to become stronger and recover.

Doug Weiss, Ph.D., is a nationally known author, speaker and licensed psychologist. He is the executive director of Heart to Heart Counseling Center in Colorado Springs, Colorado, and the author of several books including, Partner Betrayal Trauma ™.

by phone at 719-278-3708

[srocker]

My first wife cheated on me with a co worker and it crushed me . She wanted me back after we got divorced. I stayed in Church and God sent me a woman who loves God and we got married and been together now for 23 years. Remember there is life after a divorce and never give up. God Bless

[gregimport]

If she cheats. Get out and run. If you give all you got. And she's not happy. Save yourself. RUN

[yungcash]

When ya wife or gf cheats on you u will never be the same

[JaylenBieber]

My mom cheated on my dad after 20yrs of marriage. She brung a alcoholic into the house. Me & my brothers kicked him out cause he hit her, & he use to walk around naked in the house. She followed him & left with him & abandoned us. Awful!

[byethebooksbookkeepingbeyo]

I feel like advice for women is to stay when the husband cheats and to leave if you're a man who was cheated on. Why is that?

[surgeonviper]

I think I have been cheated on by every woman I've ever dated. Because I'm biracial I've always been lied to except for my best friend I know the rest of em are just liars. Having such experience has allowed me to identify signs at a rate of speed instantaneous which means I

[k.s.ktheboogeyman]

Mine cheated so much its krazy each time she gets worse n worse or pettier and pettier swearing on peoples lives and graves kids and ect. And shes lied kbowing the whole time shes promising she already had plans to cheat while promising she wasnt going to again n the only reason she can use to justify her actions is the fact she pushes me to b n a situation to when we need help because of her and the only thing i could do for my family is ask the one persone tbat would help me tbat i new and she used and manipulated me into cheating n i say that because if i didnt the things not having her help would cause such as my family struggleing to eat kuz she was helping with food kuz our money was being used on bills and the only way out at the time was for us to get away from that place and those people but my wife having the only income i kouldnt sign off on anything and she was to busy working and cheati g to notice the seriousness of the situation I even tried to explain the stuff that was going down saying i needed her to b my partner so we kan focus on us before anything gets worse then boom for 8yrs now of me being loyal shes cheated numurous times kuz a chick used me to keep my baby feed. Im not justifing wat i did i made it damn klear to that girl wat she was doing was messed up and shortly after her cheating so much kaused my family that already hated me to take my 1st born that i refused to sell them from us kuz she wanted to cheat and i wanted to keep the family unit together for the kids hopeing wed get thru it but no 8yrs of my loyalty and sacrificing everything i knew for her to kontinue to chose to hurt me kuz of an incident 7 yrs ago and thats her excuss every time for 8 yrs like she hold one heck of a grudge right? How is 8 yrs of b.s. ok kuz i made a mistake that u refused to help me out of for the families sake kuz u were being selfish?? What do you do then how could you teust her then muz i dont beleive n divorce i wont to beleive shell change but 8 years man ive almost sucessfully offed my self 3 times kuz of her mental and emotion abuse and im skitzophrenic which make me get even worse off mentaly so after 8 yrs of empty promises and lies and nothing but cheating what can i do then

[harunkoch]

wife cheats on you . as hard as it is when it’s fresh walk away because one day . you will face the break up . you don’t want to touch a dirty thing like that .

[minduniverse]

Can you ever trust someone who cheats on you? No. Leave them.

[Tonychavez]

Hello . I need help Dealing with this my wife cheated on me
The reason I found out is I check her phone
I saw the message and picture . This really hurts me I don’t know what to do we have a family.

[andrewmcewan]

I was betrayed and cheated on over a span of 4 years. I did confront her. Forgave her, but only after 6 months. However, just today, 20 months after being caught, I found her massaging a guy and he's asking her out.

Absolutely at a loss. Don't know what to do.

[claricestar]

Men who hit their wives will get cheated on. If you are abusing your wife, she’ll find a way out and yes it’s your fault! You don’t beat a woman and then expect her to want you!

[karenKristal]

men think its fine if they cheat as much as they want though dont they?

[ashleyching]

All men here should ensure they are alpha males. You got this