How To End An Affair With Someone You Love | Ending An Affair When It's Hard To Do So

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How To End An Affair With Someone You Love | Ending An Affair When It's Hard To Do So

Hello and welcome to Happily Committed. Today I wanted to talk about how to end an affair with someone that you love. Tt can be very tricky very emotional and difficult to be able to do something that you perhaps don't necessarily want to do. Being the bearer of bad news, hurting someone that you care for is tremendously difficult. Many times people are afraid of being the bad guy, afraid of hurting this person that they've had a very passionate intense relationship with. But you know that it's the right thing to do and you don't know how to go about ending this affair with this person that you love.

You can't run away from the hard conversation. it's important for you to do this with dignity to not just over burden this person with your decision but at the same time you need to make sure that you are open and honest and transparent with them. Explain to them how you got to that point, how you made your decision, and why it is so important for you to work on your marriage instead of trying to create a parallel life and relationship with them. If they truly do love you in the selfless true love type of way. They may not be happy about it but they'll understand, they'll understand because they'll want what's best for you.

Once you've had this difficult conversation, it's going to be absolutely essential for you to create boundaries. You're not going to want to provide them with an opportunity to communicate with you on a daily basis. You're gonna need to create boundaries in any way shape or form that you deem necessary. It might mean blocking them, it might mean removing them from all sorts of social media, it might mean not having interactions with them if you see them on a daily basis at work or in your social life, because you're gonna want to protect yourself and also protect them from going through some sort of relapse. You're gonna need to make sure that you're strong because you will be tested. You're gonna have moments where you may have regret or guilt or temptation and you need to commit to this process. It doesn't end when you actually end the affair. You will find that you still have to deal with the consequences of it for many weeks if not many months.

I urge you to set goals for yourself. You need to have short-term goals and long-term goals. You need to make sure that you're bringing yourself to account on a daily basis, to stay on the path that you've set out to walk on. It can be difficult but it's the only way to truly end an affair the right way. We are here to support you. We want good people to be in healthy relationships. We're not here to judge and we're just here to be of service, to put our expertise and experience to good use so that you can maximize your chances of healing after an affair. Not everyone will be able to salvage their marriage or their relationship after an affair, but we want to be sure that you maximize your chances, that you do everything possible to make things right so that you have no Regrets at the end of the road. One way or another life goes on and you're gonna need to be able to look at yourself in the mirror and know that you did everything possible to make things right. That's why we're here, that's what we've created all of these resources and seminars, that's why we do this video, why we've created this YouTube channel, to be able to support good people who want to make things right. So thank you for tuning in, thank you for watching this video. If you have questions, please leave them in the comment section below. Help each other out along the way as a community and we'll be here to provide you with guidance as well. As always keep fighting the good fight and see you soon for another video on Happily Committed.

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[tyty-fgqm]

i lost the love of my life recently, we had an affair and we cut it off. the pain of not having my best friend there with me is the absolute worst, and now shes pregnant with the other guy. If anyone is debating on letting yourself fall into an affair even if youre not the one bound by a ring and legal documents, I strongly... strongly advise you to not do it at all costs. hands down the most emotionally draining experience of my life. if you love your AP, your basically being cheated on yourself as well. do not put yourself through it. If they aren't willing to get a divorce and do things the right way, dont even entertain it. It spirals quickly.

[lilyflower]

I can’t believe that the man can start the affair and end it and get out without any consequences

[blueflame]

You get what you deserve. Remember that. You cheating and hiding on your S.O. may seem like a game to you. You may giggle and think theyre stupid because they did not think you were this sneaky untrustworthy to them. But in the end you're not playing them, but yourself.

[haroldbarnett]

Truth, please don't get married. You destroy homes and kids lives. Don't do it if you can't control yourselves.

[salinimudhoo]

Hi, sir, thank you for the useful reading, I just need this, because that person hurt me and cheated me, lies to me. I am so depressed. I blocked him,

[parulgautam]

But the temptation ....Am not able to overcome

[jeanjoseph]

Infidelity is a choice....you can say no...but of course we say we can end it when we want but it doesn't work so because emotions are involved ...so the thing is to find out more about the person etc. before going into a relationship.

[georgevue]

3% of affair partners end up together & of those 3% 98% end up in divorce. Still for the husband it stinks because even if the wife returns the husband is forever her 2nd choice.

[chrisdavis]

Please no judging... what about the affair partner? 🙋‍♂️

[hannahmut]

I honestly needed this because my bf hasn't talked to me in / been online for 4 weeks & I truely love him. I started talking to another guy & now we started spending lots of time together, now he starts talking about how he really wants to do the deed with me & he's lying to his gf, so now he kinda thinks that we r a thing. I just wanted to be friends with him, so now I'm kinda screwed. I have his gf's number & everything & he talks to me way more than he talks to her coz she's being kinda cold towards him, I honestly don't know what to do now.

[vincentganable]

Hey saying that if your spouse loves you in a selfless way then will understand is seriously not right. Some people have a red line that you don’t ever cross. Putting it this way is saying that the bs is not loving in a selfless way is not the right way to go!

[legalmemories]

I say don’t end it - I say have the hard conversation with your spouse. Offer a generous divorce settlement, including paying their legal fees and minimizing disruption to kids if you have them and then move forward with the affair partner “you are in love with” - right 🙄

[Nicana]

Funny how it's all from the perspective of the cheater and their feelings and the affair partner, who has most likely been led on and lied to for months if not years, is just not important. The cheater is always #1 in their own narcissistic brains. This video just feeds in to their selfishness.

[EButta]

I'm so progressive in my thinking that I would allow my husband to have a partner and just be safe I wish he would allow me!

[cristalcap]

You dindt say how, only say better be personally.. As some people are react to stress berger and emocionais drawn and Manipulate.

[nicklee]

What you said is nothing new!! So lame!!