Stop Spending Money On A Woman! | Stephan Speaks

When dating women, you should not try to win her attention and love with money. Money should be the icing on the cake and it should be the extra benefit that you provide, but it should not be what represents you or how you define yourself.

A lot of men try to do too much on first dates. Even after that, as they continue to date a woman they overextend themselves financially and head down the path of going broke trying to keep up with her desires. As a dating coach I can tell you that this is a huge mistake, and have to take a different approach.

Even if she is drawn to you knowing that you are successful or heard about your success or has an idea of your success or financial position, she should only want to date and be with you as a man, and not because of what you have in your pocket. Of course, women do care about financial stability and they do desire that in a man. However, don’t go broke trying to date her. Dating is about getting to know each other, not using all of your money to get her.

As a dating coach who provides dating advice for men, and dating tips for men, I want you to know that if you find yourself dating a woman who is putting greater emphasis on how much you are spending, that woman is not truly into you. If she is really into you, and when it graduates to where she loves you, she is going to want you to be also mindful of your money to a certain extent.

Besides, if you bring nothing else to the table you will start to feel like these women want money. So, don’t start in a way that you cannot finish and never try to win a woman over with your money.

As a dating coach and relationship coach who provides relationship and dating advice for men and women, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you, and I pray you find this video helpful. If you are asking yourself the following questions or searching for:

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I hope you enjoyed my video “Don’t Go Broke Trying to Date Her”

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[facelessman]

A lot of these women are broke themselves. Don't get caught spending outside of your budget just to impress someone who doesn't have her finances in order herself.

[janedunlap]

If she really loves you..."money is not the primary focus"...so true. Thanks
for your wise counsel

[zyolamzumara]

'Don't start how you can't finish'. Felt that

[gurudra]

Your Insecurities tend to make you do unnesecery things to impress her

[melissabrown]

My bf & I just went to coffee on our first date & had a wonderful time talking and getting to know each other. I don't care about having a lot of money spent on me on a date. I care about a real connection & the quality of a man's character.

[mrjarrel]

Agreed, this is why i keep the first few dates cheap until i feel she is worth spending more on.

[dainnasinclair]

20 seconds into this and I think I 100% agree!

[chrisparker]

When did a date or dating become so elaborate that we lose purpose.
We mustn't get caught up in what culture suggests as "appropriate for dating." See me for me or let me be, and this goes for both men and women.

[dawnandrews]

Maybe I'm strange... but to me it is a ABSOLUTE turn off if a man mentions money or how much he pays for things. I like nice things and to be treated nice, but I am not a "Bought B*tch"

[ianditwin]

Even if you have 5 star restaurant money, you shouldn't want a woman to be with you because of that. I would rather a walk in the park, hike, etc. Things I prefer to do. Regardless of how much money I have.

[ryanamari]

Don’t go broke trying to save him ... a MAN wouldn’t allow that

[patriciascorner]

You're right, a woman who's interested in a man is not about his money.
I'd rather go on a ice-cream date or tea date and find out what his mindset is. Where he is in life and where he's planning to go. And I see if he's interested in me as a person rather than go to a 5 star restaurant.

[kenyajosey]

A REAL woman who is truly into you and for the right reasons Appreciates the simple things in life It’s the man and how he truly makes her feel is what draws her and wants her yarning for more When you bring money to the forefront of any relationships right away, that’s a disaster it sets up for failure, especially, if the intent and intentions are in the wrong place

[missharris]

I'm attracted to a man's inner riches, his loving heart, caring nature, being thoughtful etc 💕


Great video Stephan 💕

[pameladavis]

There's so much advice telling women not to act like a wife until YOU ARE A WIFE! To me the same advice applies to a man. Don't act like a husband until YOU ARE A HUSBAND! Two adults should be able to talk to each other without someone being offended by what he or she THINKS the other should do, based on. ..? Grown people communicate verbally and nonverbally by their ACTIONS! Each one pays their own way until they BOTH agree to either move the relationship in a different direction or end it. Remember EXPECTATIONS, not everyone's are the same, TALK TO EACH OTHER, DON'T ASSUME ANYTHING.

[zero]

Always found more sucess going on cheap dates versus expensive dates anyways

[monathomas]

I truly appreciate a man who is creative. I enjoy going to grab markets, walking around fairs, picknicks, and nice walks. I like to spend at these places, an ice cream, hot cocoa, touristy things lunch or dinner. I want to spend time with the person and see their personality.

[joanagain]

Right on again! If she's pushing money she's for short term period! I've never pushed money, not my style I earn my own, but from most of my previous experiences with men they start off pretty stingy too so they can be a sure turn off too, leaving me to foot the bill. You're analysis of the topic is spot on tho! Excellent job!

[kateharms]

If you can't make her happy being yourself your money wont make her happy

[joannadziokan]

I'm never after anyone's money. It's the person that counts. Money comes and goes. We need connection and physical attraction. Everything else is also important but comes second.