How to get out of your own way & be unrecognizable by 2025

The new year is almost here and the thought of another “transformation list” we don’t fulfill can make us forget how capable we truly are.

Maintaining the dream life we desire to have is like anything else, we must have a plan or system in place to keep it. Like going to work daily or changing your car’s oil - you must see our dream life as one we are capable of keeping and nurturing with care.

Shifting your mindset now will change your life later. The time will pass anyway, so you might as well be intentionally creating that existence now.

Likewise, we are also approaching the holidays and some of us are still struggling to set boundaries with family members and these forced interactions create tension in our bodies. We are also discussing how to speak to people in these moments & the mindset we need to adopt in order to have the courage to do so.

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I look forward to connecting with you! Thank you for your support and for trusting me to join your journey.

[wayNAY]

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[antonnijames]

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[Allurelifestyle]

This hit home for me. I’ve been so blessed and i wake up and can’t believe this is my life. I’ve been afraid to get comfortable in the space I’m in.

[JAYD]

I have had a household where I was beaten up until 14 yrs old. Mentally abused until now that I'm 29. My single mom(who sucks btw).constantly told me I won't ever achieve anything into the arts industry bc they don't make a living lol. I Manifested this failure mindset and yes, I didn't get into this artistic world bc I had instilled in me the fact that im a failure, &we never have enough money, others had it better than us. Nobody values talent etc. Idk why she is so negative but I do know it's bc she fears I become more successful than she wants me to be and that leads to my independence & obviously me moving out. She has been the block in my whole entire life and only now at 29 I feel so left behind bc I still depend on her .I'm slowly but surely making my way out of this hell house and I'll come back to let you know that I made it. Because the amount of anxiety I have living w her and still not achieving my dreams is insane. I also have 2 incurable diseases and I have decided this is my only life. I'm gonna live it for me

[theshaesthetic]

I absolutely love how raw and honest you are in every video. You don’t sugarcoat for aesthetics. 🙌🏽 thank you so much for being real

[lisahenderson]

You are beautiful. I thought this was another glow up video, so I clicked. I had no idea you would touch on so many things that I struggle with. I am really grateful for finding this. It's like you let me know that is not laziness or lack of discipline, keeping me from becoming the best version of myself. It's much deeper than that. This is so helpful. Thank you.

[msdarkangel]

Watching this video in tears because I had to leave my son father for my peace. When I believed I had to keep my family together because I didn't have my parents together In my life 😢😢

[loriestrada.]

This video is so powerful and so positivity impactful. I am watching it for a 2nd time and 2nd round of notes. I am so grateful. God bless you and those listening.

[mygreyhairlife]

Amazing video. You described my upbringing to a Tee. Single parent household. Having to be a responsible woman before my time the crazy thing is as it was my reality I felt it was a positive thing. The walking on eggshells and having to read the room as a young child was tough and I am fighting my co dependency to this day. Thanks for your words of wisdom❤❤❤

[singsongs]

I stumbled on this video while looking for something else…started to end the video and continue my search, but EVERYTHING you said was so relatable…WOW! I found myself in a lot of these scenarios. Awesome video. Thanks!

[suki]

Videos like this usually go from one ear to another but there is very few content creators that i take in everything they say. I listen with intention when i watch your videos. Thank you for sharing your perspectives. You make it very digestible🧡

[jennsmith]

I love how you share these concepts from experience. You mentioned therapy having a place as well as trusting your own process. You are that embodied. How you articulate your own journey, relate it to your viewer in a way that delivers tools from an authentic POV is genius. The world needs this. Thank you for doing the work, BEing an example and sharing your wisdom. 🎉❤

[PreachThePoet]

I have been just playing this and rewinding over and over. this is right on time. I appreciate your directness.

[danielagordon]

I'm sure God sent this video my way. This is exactly what I needed. Thank you.

[petravinklerova]

Incredible. Two minutes in, so much depth already! I absolutely love your content!!

[journeywithgill]

Alonna, the timing of your recent uploads has been absolutely impeccable. You describe situations I’m going through down to the T, and what’s even better is you provide actionable steps one can take to pivot to a more desirable state. Thank you for these wonderful gems, and thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge with us. 🔥

[unwitched]

I swear lovely, we are aligned. Some of the things you mentioned I am literally going through right now/have been crossing my mind these past couple days. You're incredibly inspiring and I'm so glad I found your channel 🩷

[mAline]

I love how authentic, honest and transparent you are with scenarios and emotions. I didn’t know I needed to see this video but super grateful I did ❤

[JSCWIT]

Thank you so much for making this video! It’s everything I’m transitioning and out of having no boundaries