How Narcissists Try To Steal Your Personality

To overcome the obstacles that the narcissist places before you requires fortitude, a strong heart, self-respect, and self-love.

Narcissists have no intention to self-reflect. The empath does. This is what triggers the spiritual awakening.

The narcissist wants to become you and get you to submit to your control.

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[coolgirly]

I can agree, the difference between an empath and a toxic person is, an empath ist a defensively person who never try to hurt other people, the Narc always use manipulation and fight 24/7. Until your soul becomes sick.

[jesussaves]

They dont want you to reach your full potential because that would make them completely obsolete, not only that, but they know you would see them as bad company and avoid them like the plague.

They want to keep you dependend on them, for gratification, financialy and for any other means and they never want you to see their true face and their true motives, thus the gaslighting and the narcissistic fog.

[noahjames]

I grew up with 2 narc parents. It took me until the age of 30 to really, I mean REALLY, see how twisted my life was because of them - how it permeated ALL aspects and all relationships. Why I was constantly discarded because I was drawn to the WRONG people who emulated both my mother and father. I had this big awakening and I cut off all the people I used to call friends because they never understood when I'd try to vent. They'd gaslight me further and tell me I should be ashamed for how I feel and the way I talk about my parents- but they had nothing to say when I would explain the multitude of ways I was abused.

I really like what you said, because once I sense any toxicity in someone, even the slightest whiff of a gaslight, and I book it. I've often described how draining it is to be discarded by someone prior to this huge revelation. It feels EXACTLY like that. Someone who is incapable of producing their own "light" will come sit by your fire and before you know it, snatch it away and run off. Then will ride that until they find another source - like your time with them was never real and never meant anything. But you're left behind, distraught, and little by little, day by day, your light returns. In essence, I feel sorry for these people. Who can only take and never give. They'll never see it in themselves. They'll never change. They'll never correct it. And that just sounds like a personal hell and I'm so thankful that's not my life. I'm thankful I can see these things now and know who not to respond to on a dating app, who not to enable, who not to get close to, etc.

I can't describe the tremendous difference in my life now that I learned how to properly protect myself in the ways my parents should have taught me. I often say my parents didn't teach me how to live, rather they taught me how to be abused. And I hope everyone in these cycles and family structures feels true love and gets the support they need. <3

[PassionateFlower]

I literally have no more personality left. The narcissists have all siphoned every little bit of spark of life I ever had going for me. They drained me until I was bone dry with nothing left to squeeze out. Now I'm just here, flat and deflated. Not dead, but not alive. I'm just left with bitterness, rage, contempt, and apathy. That's not a personality that's just a death sentence waiting to happen.

[rauxieswisdom]

My mother is this person. Always tearing me down and trying to take credit for the things I do. Ultimately, when you finally catch on, it quickly shifts to outright determination to destroy you. That’s where I’m at. I’m rebuilding at the moment.

[JackNance]

Agreed, it's very liberating to fully accept you can't help a narcissist, suddenly you have a lot more energy and love to pour into your own well being and others who are worth it.

[scottdwyer]

Interesting, I was just pondering this aspect of the interactions with narcissists, and it beginning to seem like they don't have a soul and them they try to take other people's souls

[maidmarion]

This is my life. Husband, father, mother in law father in law and siblings. Then my son. It’s so hard to think that you are right thinking when all around these people are bringing you down. Sometimes it’s so subtle, others downright shocking. I must have something strong in me to have battled this, although at times I have succumbed to nervous illness. I am just so glad that the information is out there now thank you so much. This is the validation of all that I have worked out over a number of years.

[jacqueshowell]

It is very refreshing to hear someone that speaks the same "language"...truth.

[stringerchick]

Empaths don't just see how someone is feeling they can feel it

[HealwithHabiba]

Thank you for being so honest. I have noticed that narcissists truly hate themselves and ever since my spiritual awakening, I can pinpoint whose a narcissist or not.

[scotttully]

We are learning the hard way to switch our loyalty from others - creating harmony - to our own Inner Light. 🙏

[legs]

Mate! The early Narcissist used to love it when I played my guitar! 14 years later the Narcissist wouldn't allow me to play my guitar in my own God damn house!

[mimi]

Thank you for spreading awareness 🙏 I think as an empath we want to believe the good in everyone and are so willing to forgive and so willing to share our love and kindness. But we must be educated about these vampires who will do anything to feed their own emptiness. They need someone to bully and control and they will never change. We must be educated and realize we have to have boundaries. It is a spiritual awakening within the empath, because like you say, we are self-aware but we must be aware of those who only prey upon our goodness. Thank you for sharing 🙏 I encourage anyone listening to this and reading this to continue educating yourself and stay grounded! Much love to all ❤❤❤

[tianiemitchell]

I like what you said about reaching one's supposed potential for a narcissist when they see that someone else might be fulfilling their potential it makes the narcissist aware of their failures and inadequacies so to speak, resulting in them wanting to sabotage the other person's successes innocence again kind of like a spoiled child who doesn't have the toy and wants it at any means.

[Slipperygecko]

That comment about the Narc always wanting to trigger your flight or fight was pretty spot on, and wanting to peck away at you.

[dasoren]

Its like me facing my brother, and he slap me with reality. I am an empath, not willing to have a fight, an argument, not gonna hurt people, trying my best to help, and this narc creature ruin my own golden compass moral. But now after no contact, i finally can stand tall and proud again, thanks bro.

[keldealmeida]

Your comparison between a narc and a black hole in the universe was on point. A friend of mine just said exactly the same some years ago. Thank you very much for your wise analysis.

[philliphovencamp]

Hello Thaddeus:

Just found your channel via the YouTube feed, and was very moved by your message explaining the mindset of the narcissist. It took me most of my adult life to understand these energy vampires, and how they use to project their Inadequacies onto my loving nature....causing me to judge/question myself. NOMORE....and I'm so glad (in these current times) messages like yours are in the collectives consciousness....

Kind Rgds, Phil

[marilynb]

So True...a Narcissist has no Soul they are Shallow and very Ego sensitive just say anything that offends their little mindedness they'll hate you forever and do everything to destroy you ..🌹🌟