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The Royal We has helped Millions to escape the grip of narcissistic abuse. Here’s a deeper look into what narcissistic abuse looks like and steps to heal from it... It’s Okay to Admit You Hate the Narcissist’s Behavior

Narcissistic abuse looks like:

Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.

Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:

Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.

Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.

Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.

Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
Healing from Narcissistic Abuse

How to begin healing from narcissistic abuse:
Understand that you have been enduring narcissistic abuse. This awareness is the first step toward healing.

Get Help:

Establish No Contact or Low Contact:

Limit or completely cut off communication with the narcissistic abuser. This helps you gain emotional distance and begin your healing journey.
Rebuild Your Self-Esteem:

Engage in activities that boost your confidence and self-worth. Surround yourself with supportive, positive people who value and respect you.
Educate Yourself:

Learn about narcissistic abuse and its effects. Knowledge is empowering and can help you recognize patterns and avoid future toxic relationships.
Practice Self-Care:

Prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Regular exercise, a healthy diet, adequate sleep, and mindfulness practices can all contribute to your recovery.
Set Boundaries:

Develop and maintain healthy boundaries in all your relationships.

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[Dorothy-gpnl]

They also attract their new "love" by acting like you. Get away from them, and they have to mimic someone else.

[stephanielove]

They mimic because they are children they never grew up into their own person. They are shells.

[TheRealMissRed]

My identity was stolen by a narcissist in the music industry. It’s truly sick. They do this to everyone they envy.

[feefsmanuel]

I find this to be one of the creepiest, most unsettling parts of this disorder.

[nomoretears]

I've seen and felt this, it was weird, when I would address it to other people they would always say "relax it's a compliment " my thought was no, it's creepy. Thanks for validating what I always thought was strange.

[valshelby]

That's because they don't have an identity of their own that's why

[TheAshMcG]

Thank you....and so true. They steal words, phrases. My person started going to the same restaurants, dressing like me taking my hobbies. This is scary stuff, thank you for educating people on this.

[LindsayLongOfficial]

We must learn to stay so private… Unless we know the person is filled with the Holy Spirit. They will just eat us alive.

[edcho]

Sad part is they don't give credit. Probably have stolen so many people's ideas before and came off as they originally created it. Sad.

[FIREGOD]

they take who you are and replace the real you with someone you dont even know... :/ its just so awful

[creator]

They take the good qualities you have, beat you over the head with, and then, steal them, as fake qualities of their own. I remember feeling like i was held captive in a prison camp. I didn't think i could scrape myself off the floor after 13 years with this liar.

[zarah]

Also, because they make you lose your mind and you get tired of the bs you start to absorb their ugly traits to 'protect yourself' . Madness.

[magstr]

Mimicking mannerism, style, hobbies, interests, favorite music/songs, colors, food, brands, shows, appliances/electronics, right down to your favorite kind of honey mustard too lol… 🙄

[DGd]

Iv suffered this. ....it's brutal. ...when I was witnessing this happen ...you can't believe what you are seeing. .total mental cases they need to be locked in a padded cell and made to drink siriquill everyday to extinguish there crazy making behaviour. !!!
Watching this video has confirmed what I all ways knew was happening. ...Thank you !!!

[mikeriolo]

I felt like I was losing myself my identity to the narc

[Hylefavud]

"Don't cast your pearls to swine". GREAT advice Kevin. These are important scriptures that should not be overlooked if we are to overcome and thrive in the narcissistic age that we live in.

[rmcd]

They absorb you and everyone that gets closer to them

[makayla]

My narc sister mimics EVERYTHING I do she mimics my vocabulary, what I eat, how much I eat, the time I eat, my hair products, my style, and my movements she is a real pain and makes me and my other sister's life a living hell

[MA-yvdw]

Came back for a refresher Thanks a million Kevin!
1. Steal your words
2. Ideas
3. Phrases
4. Your Life

[icu]

They cant mimic the power invested in ones true self they don't create they imitate not genuine FEAR NOT