Where Your Insecurities REALLY Come From

#shorts #selfimprovement #selfhelp

[danielhagemann]

I recently got to the same conclusion at 21. It flips your life around and helps you learn who you truly are, and essentially unlocks the self lock so many stop themselves with from chasing their dreams

[Kobukseon]

I don't know who said it, but someone once said the measure of a life is how many uncomfortable situations you are willing to endure.

[SilviuSDJ]

When i feel embarrassed to approach a stranger, i remind myself that it doesn't matter if i go to talk and what's gonna happen from that because one day i will die, maybe even same day. Works every time.

[araneuskyuro]

I had this moment recently too because I'm usually very unwilling to approach someone I wanna talk to because I feel they may react weirdly or will be angry with me for no reason, but recent experiences in the new gym I went to changed my thought process because everyone was so nice. I found myself wondering "where did these thoughts come from?"

[ledz]

Cole my man you are the realest youtuber on this platform rn and one of the realest people ive seen salute to you my man keep up the content and keep going strong not a lot of people can speak up about the topics you cover on your channel so bravo keep it up and keep going strong

[JulleTime]

I don't want to overthink things anymore because it makes me feel insecure and don't do the things i am planning

[lyt]

This is such a good question if you are really honest

[potapotapotapotapotapota]

in 57 seconds you helped me understand something I've been thinking about for forever

[lacecreationz]

When trying to talk to strangers the anxiety I feel often times isn’t due to embarrassment necessarily but it seems like so many people are cold and unfriendly and have this stuck up demeanor about them when you try to talk to them and it rubs off on you and I just want to steer clear from that type of energy if you know what I mean

[irakawayashi]

Like they say "Whats capable to ruin you is what you are consciously hiding"

[pingeee]

my brain tells me i'll always be ugly and i'll never be good enough to be cared about or loved in this world

[Raiyoken]

Cole, you are seriously underrated as a YouTuber. Hamza made me start my self improvement journey but you are helping me heal and accept myself for who I really am. Thank you. 🙏

[purpleplays]

I’ve been learning Japanese for 9 months now and recently I’ve hit a plateau because I seem to be refusing to surround myself with Japanese because I’m too used to English, I want to be fluent and that’s how I happen to get better at a language getting used to hearing the language and disregard learning the grammar because I think I’ll naturally learn the grammar without having to google it up every 5 seconds

[Inveggible]

Unwilling to feel failure. It’s why I overachieve and then crash and burn out or I either fail and can’t handle the failure which makes me overthink about my capabilities and value I bring and it shows because I’m a worrywart. It’s a horrendous cycle..

[SurajKumar-lnij]

Bad memories are like a demon hiding in some corner of our mind. They are the major source of insecurities.

[Anika]

Excellent advice Mr. Hastings. Thank you ❤

[wooofwooof]

I am insecure of my own sexuality, and i felt like im forever stuck with this or forever trap unless i become someone i am not. The toxic masculinity, religious influence, pressure to have gf from family or friends even i am not into romance, the teachings of men should not have emotions or should not have weaknesses and should not be close with another men or else you will be labeled one of alphabet community, men should be dominant and being introvert is weak or sick, men should be mentally stable but being deep is feminine or when u have depression or anxiety ur labeled as weak and making excuses to not imrpove yourself, men should always be in gym and etc. shit. i felt like i always need to justify myself and explain why i am not what they think of me and i just wanted to be accepted that i am different, but i felt like because of this i cant be close with men and i am outcasted by society.

[mosescross]

You are very smart young man. Where do you get this knowledge from?

[RINSHOUJO]

Guts! I see, my fellow, that you have good taste in entertainment :).

[Krum_Popov]

My insecurities comes from my acne scars, what to do?