20 Truths a Narcissist Will Hide From You/What a Narcissist Does Not Want You to Know

If you're in a relationship with someone who you think might be a narcissist, it's important to know what they may be hiding from you. In this video, I share 20 truths that narcissists will hide from you and what they don't want you to know about them.
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[kristilindley]

I believe that the reason narcissists never apologize for anything, is because they are enjoying the hurt they gave us, and to apologize would make us not feel as hurt so badly...AND THEY WANT US TO HURT! An apology ruins the whole harm they secretly intended, or even if they didn't actually intend for something negative to happen, and it did, then that's their private little enjoyment they're getting, seeing something negative has occurred to us. They are over there, just laughing up their sleeve, and any apology would ruin that secret satisfaction.

[janetwestbrook]

Demons, demons, demons are what i call them!!!

[IamBeautyBraeden]

Imperfect list:
1. They have two Selves: True Self = scared little one that they hate, think is weak they want to cover up = their masquerade. False Self =
2. Lying. They do get away with it. They can’t tell the truth even tho it would make their lives easier
3. Don’t want you to know the secrets they are hiding. Lot going on they don’t want you to see. Constantly accusing you of lying…
4. They don’t want you to know all the things they have done wrong that they can’t take responsibility for.
5. They don’t want you to know that the reason why they treat you horribly is bc this is a reflection to how they feel about themselves (?) > they see something you have as valuable they want / need
6. They don’t want you to know that they are looking for ways to get attention.
7. They won’t tell you that the reason they have a hard time apologising to you: either it is your fault to begin with or… the only way they can apologise is a way of manipulating
8. They don’t want ou to know why they are punishing them. They want to hang it all on you the responsibility for the pain caused…
9. Don’t want you to know they have the problem. They are deeply unhappy inside and they don’t really know they have inside themselves
10. Everything a Narcissist does is to manipulate you: everything is a manipulation
11. They don’t want you to know they are chameleons: whatever makes them
12. They hide the fact they are looking out for Number 1 at all times. All expressions of affection or care is FAKE FAKE FAKE FAKERS IT IS ALL A MANIPULATION
13. They don’t want you to know their true intentions to use you
14. ….. Numbered points mixed up from here on
15. Don’t want you to know what they are truly capable of: how devious and nasty they are capable of > they save this for their true targets
16.
17. They don’t want you to know they are doing the bare minimum in the relationship. They want to take
18. As long as they are getting some supply out of you they are going to keep going on. They hope you are going to keep buying their…
19. You are simply a source of supply to them. As long as you have use to them they want to keep you around
20. It is literally exhausting for them … feeling empty..
21. They hide the fact they are living fearing they are a massive fraud and they fear they will be found out = where your leverage really is

[brianwick]

Success story: Your vids helped me assist someone in a relationship with a narc. Beyond helpful. Narcissism is a cancer on our society.

[hawaiigirl]

Yessss for years my Ex. Narc was Mr. Charming at public places. Church, work events etc. I used to think, that’s the wonderful man I married. But on the way home from a party, event etc he started his pouty brat, hissy fit - he’d pick a fight in the car on the way home 🏡

[ce]

I'm walking away from my covert narcissist wife today after 4 years with your help. Thank you!!!!

[Shut-up-Shelly]

Yes they are MAJOR FAKERS!!!! Thank you Rebecca!!!! Always great tips and words of knowledge!!! Knowledge is power over these disgusting creatures!!!

[QuetzalcoatlOdin]

I think an important point here is when you hear someone blaming you for something.
A narcissist will make it a character attack.
While someone calling a narcissist out on their behavior, it's to address the behavior, and the co.plaint is specific.

[stacigeenen]

Well I'm not with this guy anymore.
I am SO GLAD that he caused me to walk away from him. It was a blessing. Now I'm able to move on with more healthy relationships. Praise God 😇😀❣️

[Borgabobotv]

it's really sad dealing with such type of people in a romantic love relationship. I am a victim and i dont feel ashamed to voice it out, after the trauma, abuse and shame showed towards and against me. The love booming, attention, genuine love, spending together all ceased in one day and never was restored. Until after going through rejected, doubted myself, my worth, and sanity for few weeks, i decided to tell me myself i am not the problem, and that i did everything as a genuine and healthy person should do in a relationship and it wasn't appreciated but took for granted. Today, am listening and watching this vid and i feel blessed.

[TrustJesus]

They were not all traumatized as a child. Some just deeply and thoroughly love evil and to murder the souls (mind, will, emotions) of
specific chosen others, as they project a wonderful facade to most. They LOVE to hurt others.

[emptydog]

It’s all about them hiding from themselves. That’s it. Everything grows from that.

[OjibweBloodNation]

I have no compassion or empathy for this individual. I will feel no remorse for this person till they struggle with their last breath.

[deedrathelibra]

Your vids have helped me stay no contact with the narcissist.

[dk]

An honest person doesn’t need to tell you they’re honest. A smart person doesn’t need to tell you they’re smart. A rich person doesn’t need to tell you they’re rich. During discard - a lion doesn’t need to tell you it’s a lion.

[brandondawson]

This woman.. is amazing I have never heard a more accurate and easy to understood explanation.. I never could understand I could never get anywhere with these type of people no matter how much I tryed to listen or be there ..

[mah.d]

4:57 thanks for reminding that we cant save them. it really hurts but is essential.

[Bianca-swid]

Rebecca 🥰, they struggle to look you in the eyes when speaking the truth because they are busy doing something else when lying to you

[Dillon-vgjk]

Going through this right now, my heart hurts, my head hurts, she doesn't care about the kids, nothing, just being a lying cheater, has alienated everyone from me, talked shit with my friends, slept with my alleged best friend of 25 yrs, love life 😔 not. I'm made out to be the crazy one. I am not, I've been evaluated, it isn't me.

[drjovanmusic]

TRICKSTERS, FAKERS AND DEMONS IN DISGUISE!!!