Why You Attract Broken Men

Have you ever attracted someone who looks great on the outside, but when you get into the inside, it's like a deep, dark plague of war, misery, and destruction? Then you wonder what you did in a previous life to attract these types of people? Well, fear not. There might be some emotional reasons why you are attracting these types of people, and the good news is this is totally within your control.

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[tonikc]

I've never had someone say healthy relationships can be boring.... like THAT MAKES SO MUCH SENSE and why is scary? Thanks Adam!!

[wyrdwitch]

I want to thank you Adam for helping me turn my love life around! I binge watched your videos about 5 or 6 years ago at the end of a string of toxic romances with narcissistic type men (from my teens to my late 40's). Your clear, compassionate & knowledgeable advice was what I needed to move into a new healthy era of love in my life! I am in my 50's and no one had ever taught or told me these things, the wisdom and tools have been invaluable in creating a much more joyous rewarding experience of love with a kind, generous man for the past 5 years now. Thank you from the bottom of my heart, and may your business & personal life thrive to even greater levels this new year.

[brendah]

Also, women need to master the catch n release technique. If they’re not a fit….. nope, out they go

[sassarific]

I definitely struggle with people pleasing so I'm going to say no more.

[cabrinismith]

This is me!! My last relationship was a train reck!! He distorted my heart!

[Cretivedz]

Yes Adam! Thank you Next is a healthy phrase to remind oneself to stick to your own boundaries of self respect. I have a group of close friends to help keep me accountable when considering my next potential partner. I highly recommend supportive friends looking out for your well being!

[sheila]

Omg! On point! Have been in an emotionally abusive relationship for past 8 months & I’m damn near broken! This video was a light bulb moment! It’s time for me to stop the insanity & join love strategies for some help! This video was so on Thank you

[Prettypryde]

My broken husband moved put yesterday. 15 years 😂 but you are right. He was broken and I couldn’t fix him.

[jartotable]

Yep.. If you're used to toxic and red flaggers then healthy would seem boring. I'd just argue that we don't attract. Every women attracts poo bags.. It's just healthy women spot and step away straight away where women without boundaries don't see toxic straight away. Toxic people often throw a huge net out and see what comes back. They're not that picky because it's all about them. Being picky is the best lesson.

[lindajones]

Thank you Adam. This helped so much. You nailed it on the head. Happy New Year.

[cheekymonkeygirl]

I’m thankful to Adam for everything that he had taught me. 💕

[farzanehtn]

Healthy relationships can be boring. Toxic ones are emotionally volatile:)

[shutit]

Number one is true sadly my household was toxic plus I wasn’t taught anything about guys just my mom saying no boyfriends but my dad didn’t care and sadly I went through this from age 15-20 years old so at 20 I decided to stop dating now at age 22 I know what to look for.

[irina]

I wish I could give this video a thousand likes

[jennifercedre]

It is hard to say no, when you live together.

[alicejansen]

I'm going to start saying No from today onwards

[Emmprove]

Please do a video on what to do when dating apps fail you.

[yaminakhaled]

I recently went on a date with a guy who is definitely broken (no job, depressed, terrible family history) but I felt bad for him and I wanted to be there even though every fiber of my body was telling to run. He took advantage of me for 24h and I still let him because he said the right words so I am successful but I always feel I am not enough and i want to save people give love. Unfortunately people take advantage of me even though he didn’t do much damage because i took off (i am trying to discipline myself) but he still took from me and I feel sad for rejecting him even though he also rejected me because i wasn’t gonna fix him and i said saw. What’s wrong with me? I know and I distinguish people but I still make the mistake.

[melanielocklear]

Wow I know a lot of this, but it drive it home.

[dian]

my problem is that I don't attract any man. I'm almost 30 and only had 1 guy asked me out, who was one of my high school classmates whom I've never even talked to, and he was disrespectful to our teacher, didn't care about school and had bad grades (that was all I knew about him when he came up to me). I have to admit though, I never went out to meet new people, but I did know a lot of guys from school and work. Are people intimidated by me? Btw I did find myself to be attracted by guys who resemble my dad, who was an intelligent and loyal man with lots of positive traits, and also a few potentially deal-breaking negative traits lol