Things ALL Narcissists HATE. #narcissist #shorts #npd #narcabuse #redflags #cptsd

[waynepret]

I know a narcissist who compete with his 9 yr old daughter in a swimming match. And posted it in social media like it was some great daddy daughter moment.

[izawaniek]

This is true. Life and relationships are a game to the narcisists and they must win no matter what! Ends justifies means for them. No conscience.

[jellybean]

Yes, they hate losing and yet everything is a competition, a very twisted perspective.

[Anne-eepw]

The very first time I played a board game with him I caught him cheating. We were recently married and I had no idea he would cheat just to win. I was so blown away that he would cheat I never ever played a board game with him again. I later found out he lied about everything, even in court, but he was a diagnosed narcissist, yes true very difficult to do because you can’t get them into get an evaluation. Well I lied to him and said they needed his help to determine what was wrong with me. His ego exploded and he went but I had already prepped everyone that it wasn’t about me. They understood and after he blew up on them and told them I was the problem even though he was a cheater, liar, and thief. He admitted to his affairs and never keeping family commitments, but I was still the problem. No one could believe the stuff he was spewing freely out of his mouth. I was later told to be very careful, I was now in a precarious position and was most likely in danger and would need a safety plan. Yes I already knew that and at least now they knew too what he was.

[lalaniARTblue]

It can mean winning at being the favorite parent. At a cost to the mental and emotional wellbeing of you and your children. You will be alienated one way or another. It is extremely painful to witness the confusion and sadness that your children are experiencing. And if you lose your shit about it in front of your children because you've been tested for months on end... it's even more damaging to them. These narc's are poison and they 'know' it. They are nothing but a thief.

[aking]

My ex hid his assets during divorce. He eventually, after 3 years, had to admit to the Judge he lied about being fired to avoid any alimony!! He took early retirement to claim he was broke. His new 18 year old source convinced him he owed me nothing after 30+ year marriage.😳

[jessmason]

🤣 I accept the challenge. (Reflection )

[mararamitchpeace]

Been there, going there my God help me.

[oliviamiller]

Part of winning is grinding you down publicly. Mine showed off his new leather jacket which was obviously vinyl. He decided to argue about it. I finally asked him if he wins the argument, does he expect it to transform into leather? Stupid subject aside, he just HAD to win.

[johnsonfamily]

This is true. Normal ppl do not play like this

[privateprivate]

It can be like a seesaw. I think that it’s possible that, any time my mother saw me winning, even if “winning” was mere surviving, instead of thriving, that might’ve begun to mean she was losing. Perhaps even that any win I had, was a distraction from me helping her to win, while she was trying to use me, as she later told me she’d always just used me. I think that, increasingly over the course of time, especially when the effects of age became more apparent for her, than myself, she more secretly enjoyed my failures. Anything from a car problem, to unemployment, to the death of my cat, where she seemed to dance around the room, like paparazzi, snapping pictures, as he was being put to sleep. It was one of those times when, although I didn’t know about narcissism, it was a strange feeling and I never forgot it, to the point where, when I went for a biopsy, I told her not to show up at the hospital or I’d have her removed. Even months later, when she was thinking of taking in a family of stray cats and I’d mentioned I was considering adopting, it upset her terribly. When I started putting together the pieces, although I still didn’t know it had a name, it seemed that she wanted a scenario where she had a family of cats and I had none, when I was much more of an animal lover, than she was. But, for her, the “I have all and you have none” might’ve been what she wanted, as she knew I would’ve been saddened to have no pets and because, at one point, much later, she expressed that she wanted me to come to her house to care for hers, while she was at home.

[clarknawrocki]

These videos are great because it's exactly what I went through and life with these people is a living HELL

[chickenplay]

Yeah, if you don't get upset when you lose custody, there's something wrong with you. That is an insane reaction to just not care. Same with divorce. Losing a board game is one thing, lady, but losing your kids is WAY different.

[jon]

Lol after living with what mabe a narcissist I am starting to think that I had it all wrong, merrige is all about being the slave to your spouse, if u have to starve so they dont go hungry then the marriage is going great in their eyes hahaha

[rodneymartel]

Good morning Jill
Life is not about a score board or sheet. At the moment I am dealing with a Puddle over access to my youngest daughter Jéanette. If she's only concerned about her score sheet
' have at er "
One's personal peace and internal joy is more sacrilegious than the score board.

[jill]

Oh my Lord
That's the facts🫣😵‍💫🤪