INFJ Dating | When You Keep Going Back

Aug 7th, 6pm CET, 12pm EST, 9am PST

INFJ Life Coach Lesson: Today we're talking about INFJ Dating - What to do when you keep going back?! I'm not just talking about literally going back and getting back together with that person. It's also about obsessing about the other person, daydreaming about what it could be when in reality, nothing has shown you that this relationship is making progress in a way that makes you happy.

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[Wenzes]

Have you experienced situations where you kept going back?!

[dorotaem]

I didn't realize you had gotten married. Congratulations!

[eclecticcoach]

Your videos have been so helpful to me thank you so so much I almost got stuck in a relationship where I would have been his sidekick and treated like s*** all because I was in love with an imaginary image that I superimposed on him. He is an ISTJ and I swore that I would never be interested in a sensor. I just can't be in a relationship where I don't feel there is very strong intellectual compatibility but my imagination is so vivid I would have make believed myself into a situation that could have wasted years from my life. I can't thank you enough.#ain't nobodysidekick!

[beatporthaha]

This was an eye opener! Super insightful, thanks!

[bobevans]

You should make a video on infj self doubt because you also know that how much its matter to infj.

[richardpidgeon]

This video is EVERYTHING! I have been in a pretty bad state the past 9 months trying to get over a relationship where I was continuously lied to, and continuously hurt, however I just couldn't let it go. Even now I find myself thinking about her multiple times a day, fantasising that she might get back in contact. I know I need to move on and I am getting better, and this video is definitely a big help that I am sure to keep coming back to when I need it! Thanks Wenzes!

[NomadOfTheWoods]

I hope you are in for a long term haul.

[sexymiss]

I've been trying to stop thinking about an ex. It's gotten better but now and then he will pop into my mind and I will start daydreaming about him the way I used to when we were together. AHHH i will catch myself doing it! Thank u for this video, Imma keep working on it Wenzes

[invadercem]

I watched this while rolling a Russian Cream Backwood and eating Chick Fil A.
And I don't feel guilty about it! 😂
Fr tho, thanks for all the talks Wenzes! You've helped me see clearly more times than I can count. Stay blessed.

[khorLDW]

You're married? Congratulations! So awesome

[Aeimos]

It's serendipitous you made this today. I've been dealing with this same issue with my son's mom for years! I've been thinking maybe she will show some interest in our son. Even my son stopped caring before I did! It was so hard to let go. I was addicted to the situation but I had to let it go because it was humiliating holding on. She's going to be surprised this next time around when she won't be able to move me for any sort of connection again.

[BehenaDesi]

WOW! Amazing insights! Daydreaming is an excuse for not focusing on reality ! and "You cant live through another person". Thank you so much Wenzes <3 <3 <3

[indigozion]

You are SERIOUSLY making my life transform! Thank you!

[LewisRacing]

Damn! You have brought insight into a situation I have been involved in with a woman for some time. you're correct, it's not moving forward. Wow

[mr.goodwrench]

Have I experienced situations where I kept going back ? ! Yes. A long time ago back in the 1980's. It's been over with for a while, and I'm good. Nowadays as an INFJ, I am content with being single, and not be so "needy". Yet, when I do meet a lady, I do hope and pray she is also an INFJ.

[lindateuling]

This is wise counsel, Wenzes. I've believed this for a long time, but you have articulated it so well. ❤👍

[taylorswift]

I'm so happy watching your videos makes me be in reality 😊
Thank you so much 😊❤

[sophiegilbert]

I have experienced the same thing many times in my life. Thank you for the video!

[simplylilyyy]

This is one of the best videos I’ve watched. Very clear and succinct. Great examples!

[oliverbauer]

Yeah this "dreaming" happend often to me and it wasn't even good at the long term. For the moment, it were awesome - but not real.
Than I learnd to not dream like that. It wasn't easy, but it helped.