INFJ: 10 Reasons Why You're Still Single

Exploring some theories on why some of you INFJs may still be single. Or it could just be that you're too cool and attractive and everyone is intimidated.

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[bernzZz]

Anyone here having deep thoughts about how badly you want to be in a relationship but also don't want to?

[DesireRee]

Who else here lies in bed at night and can’t sleep because they are having deep philosophical conversations with hypothetical run ins with people you’ll probably never meet in your head?

[memcm]

The main problem with relationships is that there’s another person in it

[sonalimartinii]

1) You're too attached to your dream person
2) Dating is a pain in the butt
3) You think too much and overplan in order to feel safe
4) Too aware of other people's needs
5) You're looking for someone to give you an identity
6) Become a shell of themselves when in a relationship (go cold)
7) Look too far in the future and get in too deep, too fast
8) We can read people very well and that can scare us
9) You are weird and that's okay 💕

[rayquaza]

Me an INFJ: Im so lonely. I have very few friends and I'm still single

Also me an INFJ: AAHHH!!! SOLITUDE IS

[rosegervacio]

"You look too far into the future and decide it's not gonna work out." - Wow, that's scarily accurate.

[christinekobzeff]

It’s so interesting seeing other INFJs. I feel like we’re our own species.

[axcvilla]

I'm an INFJ and I am single. Reason being, relating to people takes too much work. Plus, I always feel resentful over the fact that while I always try to make people happy (even at a cost to myself), it always feels like, "NOBODY KNOWS ME" - even the people who are supposed to.

[heynananads]

INFJ is like a curse but a blessing at the same time

[emilycaballero]

I’ve never felt so simultaneously attacked and understood

[KaffiRawr]

Me, INFJ, on Tinder:
"no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, maybe but still no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no..."

[officialthomasjames]

My thing with dating is I just cannot stand small talk. The meaningful relationships I've had were ones that began with almost instant deep conversations.

[hershani]

(10 reasons why you're still single as an INFJ)
1. You're too attached to your dream person.
2. Dating is Painful.
3. You think too much.
4. You're too aware of other people's needs.
5. You're looking for someone to give you an identity.
6. You're too shell with yourself.
7. You get in too deep, too fast. (You get too attached to someone too soon)
8. You can read people and see their flaws quickly.
*9. I didn't get this one*
10. You are weird.

[sarawardian]

I think I need to go to a meeting for INFJs. Any other INFJs feel like they need a support group? Lol

[dill-one]

I’ve accepted the possibility that I’ll be single my whole life.

[faafafineartist]

I think being an INFJ improves as you get older. This is where the boundaries and letting go get better. Less controlling, more spontaneity, etc.

[jula-maytaylor]

When after realizing you're overthinking you overthink overthinking....
Edit: Thanks for the likes I didn't
even think people would find this

[sarawardian]

Any other INFJs feel like a villain in every relationship because you accidentally made someone think they love you and they aren't "the one" so you shake them off? :/

[chadsperandeo]

INFJ's hate to be told who they are by people who make a lot of assumptions.

[dylaancaarpio]

Hello INFJs!! I'm an ESTP and I absolutely love your species haha! Such emotionally complex people. I wish I can just open your head and explore it. I have a friend who's INFJ and he is too fun to hang out with and drag around. Keep being you, you INFJs.
edit: im actually an ESFP, but point still stands