What to Do When a Girl Flakes On You (+ Text Example)

Much more on texting inside:

As well as, of course, profiles, photos, dates, and lots of infield footage and breakdowns.

[RafaelGringo]

Normally, my pride would never allow me to double text, let alone triple text. But seeing you and how you handled the situation with such a finesse gave me a whole new perspective on the matter. I'm coming back to game after a long pause and I'm really glad you're still putting out amazing content. Thanks, Todd! You're the man!

[KurtDobson]

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together, it was a really bad phase but we got through it

[xristoskostoulas]

Man, in every video Todd says wiser and wiser things! Thank you for existing Todd

[porteauloin]

That girl have no idea how much effort it took to make that date happen. :D

[chrstaki]

For a flaky girl, once I drew a stick figure drawing of me and the girl out on a date, photographed it and sent it to her… actually worked 😂

[firsthelix]

Thanks, great comeback! Back in the days when online dating was a new thing, you still could get away with calling her out on the bad behavior she demonstrated. A good portion of women didn't shy away from a basic conflict like this then and would actually reply and apologize. Today, with the enormous attention they get from dating apps and on social media, girls just ghost you and think they have endless opportunities with someone who would put up with their shit. The masculine trait of indifference they acquired over time which makes ghosting a serious issue having normal communication leading to getting to know each other IRL. Those girls mostly will end up with guys demonstrating beta-male behavior putting up with all their shit out of fear of losing her, which is exactly the opposite of what they actually want to see in a masculine man. The sad truth is that communication in this day and age is degenerating, and so does our social life.

[paulsippil]

It's sad that flaking has become socially acceptable behavior. The mindset that a woman doesn't owe a man a response after they have already agreed to meet shows how much a man's time and worth have become devalued. Sure, he's handling it well, but it would be nice if more women didn't behave like this in the first place.

[Modifiedparts]

Todd does a great job breaking these things down. I know the theoretical breakdown isn’t for everyone, but I love it.

[mattrR]

I like Todd but I disagree with him here. When a girl ghost me, I delete the number and don't pay her a second thought. It is a huge red flag. This is the girls first impression, when tries to impress you the most and she ghosts. It speaks of her character.

[EarthtoAdam]

If a girl likes you and wants to see you, she will.
If she’s not into you, a follow up text won’t do anything but make her run away from you even more.

If she doesn’t respond or doesn’t turn up for the date (assuming you planned a specific day/time/location etc) just let her go, pursue people who put in effort and enthusiasm to see you.

[TeamDrif-Tastik]

Problem is. This happens often. A lot.

[codederick]

The Toddfather is America’s favorite bad boi

[bobiadan]

man! you are truly giving value through this video. those are not just simple commercials for your program

[Cee_Eff]

Seems like a lot of work for next to nothing in return. What he Todd did is an example of going out on a high note...but still too much work for next to nothing in return.

[joewauters]

Love Todd's mature and rational approach to dating and relationships. One of the best role models for modern masculinity?

[SqueamishPuppet]

This video is amazing! So many guys need this. I was the low value guy calling her out. Once I learned to act and think high value, my self-esteem was raised to someone of higher value, making things much easier. One thing I felt was left out is that once the date is set, say 2-4 days away, do not send texts until that follow-up text. Most women do not want to hear from you between that time. If she texts you between that time, then it is okay to respond.

[guntertorfs]

One of the more unique qualities you have is having no fear to break the accepted mold on dating rules and really experiment. I'm sure it's one of the main reasons for your success.

[masamangtao]

Love this video. Great advice on how to be an empathetic (and high value) human being who lives in the real world. Also, Todd, when is Week 2 of ODA dropping? I'm ready to gooo!

[amnestylost]

The "hotter the girl" the more likely she is to go silent? Dude, the super average ones go silent and flake on me if I ever get them to schedule a date(which was twice in two years). There is some serious average girl entitlement out there. And I'm a tall muscular guy who has walked runway as a male model(not famous and have almost never been paid, but still). These chicks only accept men HIGH above their looksmatch and if you arent super rich giga Chad, you get NONE. I live near Chicago, however. Where you live might be different.

[codederick]

Wish Todd would make a vid on converting pulls to lays. Always been a sticking point for me