How You Collapsed the Narcissist!

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[Happy-Me.]

When they find someone else it's not someone better than you. It's someone better than nothing!

[alex-cfdy]

The biggest misconception of narcissists is that they’re confident. Exactly right, they are very insecure and always have to put on an act to prove people otherwise. It’s why when you walk away they absolutely freak out

[DarkChild]

Tara (Niagara region, Canada) - Oh my sibling's meltdown was epic. After both of our parents passed within 3 1/2yrs of each other and I in no uncertain terms told him he was 30+yrs old and I am not and will not be a mother figure to him and it's time to stand on your own 2 feet and not expect everything delivered on a silver platter without working for oh boy! Then came the threats, stalking and break in, but 4yrs no contact and a no contact order later and I can live my life in semi peace.

[happygardener]

Thank you, David. This really helped me understand the narcissists NEED for others. They are the ultimate USERS. Watching this video again.

[scottoz]

Handed out some narcissistic injuries. That's when they sleep for days. Checkmate honey I beat you at your own game. What a rollercoaster ride. I literally had to rewire my brain AND thought process. Broke that Trauma Bonding Soul Ties. Twin Flames is another word for Trauma Bonding. No contact is necessary. I broke it a few times AND paid dearly. Because when that mask slips. I didn't even know who that woman was. All i wanted was a soulmate. Not a degree in psychology ..Stay Educated AND Dedicated...✌☝️😎🙌

[afriend]

Scary People… I was hunted, and looking back I can see where he would imitate me to calm me. He has no sense of self. I actually said to myself while single and enjoying my life Let me meet a man, stronger than me, smarter than me, with bigger moxie than me.. Then the devil sent a Wicked Demon to take me down.. I’m alive ! I’m Stronger and Thank you God for saving me..!

[scottoz]

Absolutely. It's exhausting being them.. 😮.. The more I GAVE The less I got. Energy Vampires. I was depleted....

[Happy-Me.]

Thanks David right on point again. This reminds me of where my BPD ex is. She has looked so helpless and lost since I left her. She knows that others are talking about how foolish she was to lose me. Although they don't know her condition they question why we're not together and why she'd let go of what we had. They've seen the personality change and lack of energy in her and no change in me!

[MimiReese]

In a moment of weakness, my ex n h told me, ‘you know I don’t think much of myself’; bingo! I knew that!

[debbiegalica]

Great video. I got some really great information.

[nessauk]

So sorry Rory x been here along time and know how much you have sufered x hopefully one day we can be a happier versiin of ourselds x nide knowing you here x

[Willa]

Another Great video. Rory asked a very good question..Glad you really helped me understand mental behavior.

[Ravid]

Hey David, David in Kanata, Canada. Thank you for another great video that reminds me how wonderful life is now that the cluster-b people are no longer welcome in my life.

[rorywright]

Hello, David! Colder in Ohio but no snow! I always wondered why he expected me and others to do more for him than he did for himself! But let me tell you, it is exhausting, and leaves little time, if any, for anything else! When I became aware of this was when he became even more depressed! Thank you for another great video! I want to watch it again cuz it’s opened my eyes a lot! Enjoy your evening!😎❤️

[rorywright]

I think I was always there for him, helping, supporting, doing.

[Dastardly_X]

🙏🏻 🌟 🙏
Happy New Year
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[nicosuave]

I've come to realize that im very persistent when it comes to not only pursuing, but later, also analyzing problems that tend to occur in any relationship, and possibly because of this, taking part in the very worst brunt of the separation process...So, ..my last 3 relationships, ...the 1st being 6 years, the 2nd being 13 years, and the last being just 1 year, ..all of which were absolutely, 100% narcissists, (note:i was clueless to the definition up until about the last 2 years of the 13 year relationship), the one thing they had in common, besides they many typical traits was the ending.im very ashamed and immensely disappointed in myself in saying that the parting of all 3 ended in an assault charge, none of which i initiated. .it wasn't realized until very recently that sometimes, maybe in most cases, u may never get the answers, validation, and/or confirmations that one seeks so desperately, ....as if its the only thing in the world that u need to live.its seems pathetic, sad, and very stubborn to let something like this become a driving priority and worse, being unaware that no matter how many angles you try, there is no reward, no clarity, no relief, because there's no finish line that even exists.Throughout these relationships, the number 1 feeling overall that i describe myself is complete and total frustration...which is about 3/5th of my time, and the other part being just lovely due to me walking carefully on the eggshells the mate has laid for me... I've drifted off track, ...so, my question is this, . is it typical for a narcissist to initiate, intimidate, and push for a physical altercation to get rid of a partner when they'd rather this than come to terms and admit the wrongs they've done, even more so to a guy like me who's overly persistent to a fault to finds answers, trying to make sense of someone's actions that are just so extremely cold and heartless?, ..being fully aware that the advantage always falls in the females favor..(also noting:this most recent relationship, the last 5 previous relationships of hers have ended the exact same way)
I feel like the answer is obvious, but if u could elaborate on this kind of situation it would be most appreciated.i desperately just want to be a better person and have the patience and discipline to no when and how to let go in a healthy normal way.thank you for your time.

[agencyeditor]

Engaged to a narc…dark triad when he finally revealed who he truly was which is when the engagement ended. He immediately married the next woman he met (or who he’d been lining up to replace me). They quickly had 2 kids and later divorced, I heard. I’ve thought of her many times over the years and my heart breaks for her. I’m sure it was living hell…

[JayDeshmukh-ty]

I was a rebound for a narcissist. He was attached to one of his ex and one other guy that he loved and could never win him despite doing it all for him. He would meet them, talk to them and even probably had sex. All his lying, cheating, manipulation, gaslighting and everything you can imagine was just to control me and my reality. The disrespect, the push n pull games, rage, threats of suicide, drug use, self harm, sending images of such acts committed drove me so crazy. He would tell me, I'm an overthinker, insecure, that was i was taking my frustration out on him bcz of my parents, my life. Anything I said was used against me, my bullying, my illness, agreeing with my friends who i had minor disagreement with, hating on my friends, cursing my parents, siblings and everything. Never given a chance to speak, be understood, be heard, to explain. I was blamed for my reaction to his bullshit. He ended up getting me to block him while he played victim.

[nicholecornes]

GET OUT OF THE WAY WHEN THAT HAPPENS ITS DANGEROUS AS HELL