Narcissistic rock bottom

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[heatherroberson]

My ex narc hit rock bottom and used me, my money, my home, my car, my sanity, my body and soul to pull himself up. Now he's making money and thinks he's all that. Thank God he is gone so I can finally heal and move on. Never underestimate how evil these people are.

[garyweston]

My narc has hit rock bottom. Karma strikes. She had three felony charges pending.. This weekend, add a fourth felony child abuse charge. Narcissists are self destructive, and outwardly destructive. They always ultimately destroy themselves. The key is to stay out of their path and let them meet their end at their own hand.

[kuljeetsingh]

Their rock bottom is when you realize what they are, and you give up. They lose all control, and they know that the jig is up.

[ippmoeproject]

They just get meaner, weirder, and more grandiose. Their lies get more unbelievable and they just repel people with their neurosis.

[LyndieLouWho]

Narcissists crave that feeling of power over the defenseless. They have zero empathy for the suffering they cause you.
You will never have a mutually loving and giving relationship with a narcissist.

[cherylrange]

I am leaving a covert narcissist after 45 years. Divorcing him is my freedom of choice. My family is divided, and have no friends. Now I have abandoned, and exposed him for what he truly is. Now I can heal and move on with my life!

[kathymagana]

I identify as a recovering narcissist and let me tell you, THIS VIDEO is SO ACCURATE. I hit my narcissistic rock bottom 3 years ago and it shook me into reality. I've been working to become a better person ever since.

[devidaughter]

"one of the things that enables narcissistic behavior, is the lack of consequences" (7:12). I am so grateful to all the amazing people on this channel who are 'being the change we want to see in the world' (Gandhi), by creating real consequences for the narcs in our lives! every time one of us leaves a narc, we are saying "your way of being is unacceptable and I'm no longer willing to enable it". just think: if everyone in the narc's life did this, so many more would hit 'rock bottom' which would offer so many more, a real opportunity to change!

[Mari-lvrd]

I found myself imitating my narcissist, going for the silent treatment in minor instances because it felt normal. I watched other people discuss their conflicts, gave it much thought and pushed appropriate phases into my brain so that I would not be at a loss for words. This was my rehab, I do not allow myself to rage or be violent, I know as an adult I do not have to be a victim of my environment.

[jasmin]

They live at the bottom every day of their lives.. and drag everyone down there with them.

[billfitzpatrick]

She tried to destroy me, and came close, but she ended up destroying herself.

[cartwrightworm]

My ex-wife insisted that she could change when I said I was leaving. She said I was too pessimistic and needed forgive and let go of things she said. Maybe she could have changed but I really don’t think so. It would have taken a major, constant effort on her part. She hated going to marriage counseling, admitted that she dreaded it. Always remember how they act.

[nicolemarie]

I've never heard it put that way;
"Narcissists are disgusted by their own vilnerability."

[bellarose]

Yes, lack of consequences! Who wants to live a life tiptoeing and stepping over landminds constantly. I walked away from this situation on Friday, the inner peace that you feel not being in their presence is the greatest gift of all.

[fredjones]

A warm feeling comes over me when I hear about a narcissist suffering

[dagobertkrikelin]

The big problem is that victims of narcissists don't hit rock bottom quickly enough, so that they can stop being abused.

[suzannemorrow]

I am done” fixing “all of their lives.
It’s my life ! Time to live it . Good People, I love you .

[cathleenmace]

As an elementary educator of 32 years and a person involved 18 years with a covert narcissist, all of this makes me very sad. Children are being raised in such a stressful society and challenging environments. I believe that all of this is just so unfair to them, since many of them will inevitably grow to lack empathy and will struggle with a life as a narcissist.. So very disheartening.

[cymbolichuman]

They're never sorry, satisfied, or happy. Bottom line. And it ain't their fault.

[nicolii]

When the narcissist hits rock bottom they quickly get out of their situation and meet a new group of ppl and abuse all over again. They cant change.