The Health Effects of People Pleasing

[Catthepunk]

Imagine getting cancer cause youre too nice💀

[grumpypoephoofd]

It’s odd how we’re made for love, yet it’s so difficult to find.. it gives us a fun journey, but lately nobody seems to be able to want to go on said journey anymore.

[Bob-rkvw]

Holy shit as a people pleaser who developed a serious chronic illness as a result of not dealing with my own stress, this hit me so fucking hard

[otsoysyzfjztisyoxncxjgd]

I'm type C and I have extreme health anxiety and paranoid personality disorder, I so badly needed this info! I'll definitely have to come out of the people-pleasing mindset now.

[soorian]

People pleasing doesn't please good people. Good people want you to be well. They exist. If you stand up for yourself, the people who don't care if your needs are met will leave, and kinder people will replace them.

[aayusshsingh]

I give out as much love as i sometimes i just wish i can receive a little bit of it too

[Bone_Incidents]

Cant be too selfish, but you can’t be too selfless. Balanced.

[xdf]

I'm human i need to be loved just like everybody else...

[ellzrandom]

please make the connection between people pleasing and autism that would make my day

[thefartingmonster]

Please do a whole video about this topic!

[horsepowermultimedia]

Aggressive people make it to first place at some point but end up falling behind as people find out about their violent tendencies.
Nice people end up finishing last due to their needs being left unmet.
Assertive people finish first as they walk across the fine line between the order of niceness & the chaos of aggression.

[theloreseeker]

“Sorry I don’t think my boyfriend would like that”
“Wat”

[plutostomb]

me sitting here with several chronic illnesses while i watch the people i love most walk all over me 🧍🏻

[Christian-jtpo]

Just stop trying. If you feel it, do it.
I think so much stress comes from “trying” to be nice. What if you are, in fact, just a nice person therefore there is no need to put in extra effort on top of what you already are?

You are so much more than just nice, or good or mean or sad though. You are someone with stressors, someone with a daily life. As people pleasers there is this feeling that we aren’t good enough. For me, it’s this, I’m a bad person or a mean person if I’m not always nice.

Kindness goes a long way, being nice seems like something extra to keep harmony. Tension helps us grow and I think when I’ve tried to “be nice” that’s really me saying I’m uncomfortable with this tension and I’d rather have someone like me than be unsure or entirely dislike me.

[HowWhyWhenWhere]

It was very bad before when I was too nice too. It was like I couldn't think of others as anything but good who only wanted to do me harm when I couldn't live up to their expectations. Atleast it's better now.

[Teedugdee]

Read this as the effects of people pissing and I was about to plug it up

[bunsenn]

Love is inherently unfair, because it exclusively happens to those who don’t desire it, and those who do desire it can never experience it for themselves.

[czchtrain]

Probably not many people are gonna get this but this is why I hate being an Fe-dom enneagram 2 lol

[qpkxxsc]

Now you sisyphus push ball brick to the top sisyphus meme

[teach-learn]

"Most of our tensions, "? Ah, no. That's silly.