A Narcissist's sinister plan to abandon the kids and blame the other parent for their absence

A Narcissist's sinister plan to abandon the kids and blame the other parent for their absence. Some narcissists justify their abandoning their kids by planning to explain it later on in their lives.

Welcome my channel! If this is your first time seeing my face or hearing my voice, my name is Lee and I am a self aware narcissist. I have narcissistic personality disorder ( NPD ) and I've been in therapy for my personality disorder since 2017 and it has definitely changed my life because without it, I would have lost everything.

The point of these videos is to help bring awareness from the other side of the narcissistic *buse spectrum. All my videos give perspective on why many narcissists do what they do and the possible different reasons behind them. The victims and survivors get validation and the Narcissists (those that are willing) get to see that you can get help and that you are not alone.

Thank you so much

[kmydesire]

If he can’t have access to me he want nothing to do with he kids.

[masha-mariachernova]

Going through this right now! It’s true better absent than toxic!

[Knitted_together_by_Jesus]

My father left my mother at 19 while she was still pregnant with me - he spent 5 years in a hippie commune strung out on drugs. Remarried had a second child, divorced that woman and finally cleaned up and remarried a 3rd wife and is continuing to carry on today ( I’m in my 50, s) like he’s a pillar of society, leader in his church and treating this nuclear family (3 additional kids) like they are his all and all. I was raised watching him lavish everything on these children, I struggled as a single mother - without any support from dear old dad, he treated me like I was the mistake he wanted to forget. He will give an account on the day of judgement to his maker for all the rejection and pain I’ve had to overcome.

[holliewood]

my ex was a narcissist. he has a child with another woman and i never understand why he never wanted to see the child, give the child’s gifts, want to see photos.. he just said he will sit down with her one day and give her the option if she wants to be in his life or not because of his babymama, the baby mama never did anything, it just made no sense to me and didn’t sit right ..

[independentthinker]

better to have an absent parent than a toxic parent..very true. My malignant narcissistic ex sent my baby to his mother where my baby got physically abused repeatedly and my baby was traumatised and I was traumatised by not having been there to stop it and it was an ongoing occurrence, the first time I thought it was an accident but it happened every single time after that. My narc ex stole my money while I was pregnant and contributes zero financially and physically for years. A baby cannot protect itself where there are adults making power plays, they are completely defenceless . He tells people he is an amazing father even though he stolen my money and has no idea whether we have food to eat, while he is using my money on other women..disgusting. He loves to parade himself at charities..its nuts. In reality he is thief, a liar and a cheater.

[goodmandawn]

Hi Lee I'm so glad that you discussed this topic. Everything in the dark soon comes to light. The ex with the help of his family alienated two of my children against me because of the years we suffered in poverty due to his refusal to provide child support help me to raise them. And his brutal behavior which he blamed me for. The day I left him for the last time 36 years ago, he threatened to kill my parents, turn my children against me, and continue not giving me money. When those threats failed to make me stay with him he asked me to give him a son, and be his roommate. I'm so glad that the Lord gave me the strength that I prayed for to leave him.

[jessicabrinson]

My baby daddy abandoned my pregnancy once he decided to go back to his old supply. And says this often that he’ll be in our daughters life at so and so time. The time seems to always change. Please make more videos about coparenting with a narcissist bc I need all the help!

[LadybugPhil]

100% 🎯 He blames me for everything. His own Mother told our children the truth and begged our kids not to be like her own son when they grow

[crystalm]

Please please do more videos about dealing with toxic parents. It might be the least interacted with type of video, but they’re the most helpful!! People just aren’t ready for that level of truth yet, don’t let that stop you! Share it it’s so powerful!!

[millanodrango]

I'm going through this right now and my child is going through the most. My ex tells our child and everyone that I'm the reason they don't see each other, he tells her this whenever she visits him... He told our lawyers that I refuse him access to the child and told the aftercare that he won't pay her fees because I deny him access so the aftercare told him the fees are up to date and they'll pass the message and he was surprised that the child didn't owe anything. He assaulted me then followed me to the police station and told the officers that if I open a case he'll open one as well, I decided we not to open a case because we were both gonna get arrested and it's December and my kids need me.

[jennifermaddox]

My ex husband abandoned my kids and did this exact thing. He promised to explain everything to them when they are 18.

[denisec]

Going thru this right now. Discarded our 4 year old twins without the blink of an eye. While I know they will be better off, it’s so hard to watch them going thru the motions with this. ❤

[JC-tzmf]

This is so true my son's father has done this all his life and now he doesn't have anything to do with my 17 year old son

[nimzawan]

It's very painful to swallow that I was an object to him. I was never good, pretty enough for him.. he kept saying that he will never introduce me to his family or in his circle. It will be embarrassing for him if people see him with me.. 😭
I ignored these words because later he used to say that he was angry and said all those words in anger 😭
When I asked him for sending proposal he asked me to marry his elder brother because his family will not agree me for him. His brother suits me because he is also average looking
I lost my dignity.. self esteem.. I don't feel like I am beautiful.. or worthy..
My heart aches 😭

[missandi]

Real Talk... The Truth ALWAYS comes to the surface... Lying is EXTREMELY TOXIC & HURTFUL... These are reasons I have ALWAYS told my son the Whole TRUTH... Being Truthful with him is why we are so close.. Best-friends... BREAKING the CHAIN... Thank you Always Lee ❤

[chasity]

He won't ever be around her it's been 3 years thank God she the happiest to

[yogisonboard]

You're so right and astute with this, the denial, deflection, delusion and deception

[isobelle.London]

100 TRUE my son's dad litreally abonded me at 19 and him at 3 he vanished no child support no phone call nothing -- my son is now 16 and he posted on his FB about fathers rights he dragged me to court to get a contact order still in effect he cheated on me left me and got pregnant the other woman and vanished hes regretting it now so narc's do regret . My son calls him Sir and told him if he comes close to him he will call the police on him to report him for harrasment he wants nothing to do with him . my son had witness DV and i was in court proceddings at 16 bc of his father who was 26 when he got me pregant -- PLZ DO NOT HAVE KIDS WITH NARC'S if you do stay with a narc keep it between the 2 of you.

[juliecloutier]

true.... but kids are not stupid...they figure it out really soon who their father is. sadly but for the better for them. Thanks for doing those videos. i transfert them a lot.

[christinanewton]

This is him and his family. He left us for another person, which left us homeless and I moved back to my home state.Everyone around me knew he was in another relationship and he moved us down the street from his new supply.We ended up losing everything so I left. He blamed it on me. He ended up following me and then I ended up having a son and he still left. He’s pathetic and DIGUSTING. I hate him and with i never met him . He was a whole mistake. I love my kids but hate him