Stop Being So Nice - Dr. Aziz Gazipura

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[bobbietim]

I don't why it took me alltgese years to discover this that being nice doesn't matter at all, it has worked against me for along time, I could sense it is taking me no where but I'm stuck being nice guy until watching this

[jacoblunn]

You can not be "nice" but still be a good person and assert yourself

[davidcp]

yes that is so true being nice does not work

[keyanichapman]

I get this all the time… that I’m too nice and people use me because of it

[Talginv]

Only on chapter 1 and I’m so thankful 🥹 I downloaded this!! so incredibly hopeful about what’s to come!! 🙏🏾❤️‍🩹💕❤️

[urwyltz]

How about you being so nice to us, yourself?

[aymen]

i love your videos .becouse of you aziz i am less shy and more confidence
i can't thank you enough

[ipnotikfromitaly]

Great video, I always say: "Be nice, but assertive, not a doormat".

[abdulnazary]

Yes I am! Thanks for making a video on this.

[yichaotian]

Are you a Christian? What you said is just so biblical!!!...oh my God:)

[whitneysource]

I bought all of of books from amazon. I cannot thank you enough for your work,

[pavelskilivniks]

you can't be whoever you want to be in corporate america, that's not how it works in adult workplace dynamics.

[slykoDFO]

Dr. Aziz you're the man thanks for being you

[callum]

Just started listening to your social anxiety audiobook seems amazing so far!

[dmills]

Hey Dr. Aziz I have been watching your videos for about the last 4 months now and they have really helped me. One question I have is what can I do to work on creating better more assertive language when angry? As you mentioned in How To Be Less Nice I'm the guy that says "what the fuck?" and am ready to fight when I'm angry, this is what gets me in trouble, what advice do you have to work on that? Thanks and keep up the good work.

[victorpeng]

I bought your book "Not Nice" on Kindle and it is valuable.

[rajeshk]

Do you guys give any day to day exercises to work on the issues? If so, what modalities they are based upon? I appreciate all the wisdom and knowledge but since all of this is sub-conscious, I need to work on it using some exercises.

[Jeffrey-bqkt]

Keep up the video's Aziz, you are truly awesome!

[ticktock]

I've just come across your books on Amazon and I'm going to be purchasing them. I have a question though- in any of your books do you address external validation or being addicted to external validation? The reason I ask is because I think that's my biggest issue. I don't really have a strong sense of self and thus whether I feel good about myself or not ends up being reliant on how people take to me. Thanks!

[Alphmeister]

I have ankylosing spondilitys and recentlyI’ve started reading books such as “Letting go” by David Hawkins and “Healing Back Pain” by Dr Sarno. These 2 books were recommended by someone who actually healed from AS. Then I said okay, I’m gonna read something else now, so I went browsing around in Amazon and your book “Not Nice” showed up. I wasn’t expecting anything that you will be actually relating it to physical pain as well.. over the first few chapters I realized how many common things we have as yoh explained what “being nice” mean, and all the “playing Warcraft” everything matches up. When I read that you were diagnosed with AS I was shocked... now I am 100% sure that this behavioral patterns and faulty belief system is the only cause of everything... I’m suffering and trying to get out of it for 15 years now (since I was 12). I’m going back to finish your book now, I just had to stop and drop this comment. Can’t say thank you enough times already and can’t wait for the coming chapters!