Why the Narcissist Hates You But Still Wants You #narcissist

[Candor]

This is so perverse, they desperately need you while devaluing you at the same time.

[BL-sdqw]

It's the difference between saying "I need you because I love you" and "I "love" you because I need you"

[marisolorosco]

Agree!! 🎉. My husband (soon to be ex) hates me because i am a genuinely happy thriving person and never needed him but he tried to create me to be dependent on him. Nope, boy bye. You can keep wanting me and needing me but i sure as hell don’t need you.

[inaMillionaireSs]

My ex husband almost caused me to have a mental breakdown… It took me 18 yrs to break FREE from that toxic marriage

[sandrathomas]

💥
They literally live off your life force
God creates
Satan destroys

[dwlsn]

Being with a narcissist is mind bending!
It will either break you, or make you much stronger - there HAS to be a better way!! 😂😂😂

[kaja]

And at the same time need to think they are superior of you. No wonder they are loonatics inside. 😵☠️

[lisel.]

I'm married to one, I can't get over how many red flags I overlooked before marriage that told me I should have ran from this person for my own mental sanity long ago.

[tarey]

Brings new meaning to the narcs as Les Miserables! They hate you because they need you: vampiric energy.

[amandaserle]

no chance will he ever interact with me again .evil in toxic demon coward. bully's and predators who know exactly what they are doing. with no self worth that's why they do what they do . They project it on to their unfortunate victim to make them feel better. too much of a coward to heal their trauma. evil and twisted predators and psychopaths. very interesting thank you .

[grandmaatthefarm]

I needed to hear this today. I just spent 2 hours with a divorce attorney and am starting the painful journey to freedom after 18 years.

[estherambisi]

Very true. From today, I will always remind myself that he just hates me because I am his life force.

[bonnieinthespirit]

Yesterday I got 20 minute screaming match over going to a friends passing. ; bc. They determined I wasn’t going . Yet I was all along, the news told us. Took me by SURPRISE . I was heartbroken I wrote over 6 pages to my friend . Then waited. Fir day of gathering. Meanwhile I prayed for the family n friends of my friends passing.
And do you know. - I went. To celebrate of life. I stayed til all were gone . (3 hrs).
Then today sun 7/7. I celebrated. Yet more to the LORD N HER HOMECOMING!!
And DONT FORGET…. My friend visited me 4 days in between.. I cried . Over her passing . ****🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤😢😮😅😊

[qiannagonzales]

I agree with you. i think i stayed for so long because i wanted to help him stop hating himself, but also like you said after a while i was too drained to try anymore. I'm still sad for him that he'll never know how willing i was to love him.

[noormohamed]

I think it's my spirit that reminds them of their demonic values.

[carolholmes]

Yes, I agree. I stopped asking "what did I do to make them hate me so much?" because I now don't give a flying flip. I don't interact with my monster narcissist anymore than necessary and my answers are short and direct.

[suriya]

You nailed it. Thanks for all your sharing. Keeps me on track.

[dianaalyssa]

Yeah, They each seem to have a commonality of a bad relationship with their mother. Am seeing patterns now with each narc.

[peachesandpoets]

This is the part that drove me crazy. If I'm so horrible why don't he piss off!

[Kalitos]

Expose the narcissist for who they really are and make sure you have no mercy on them at any time…..time to show them that they messed with the wrong partner. 👊👍😆