When He Says 'I Need Time,' You Say This... (Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy)

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Ever had a guy who keeps you just on the edge? Who swings between making you feel like he wants no one else in the world, and suddenly pulling away and freaking out?

Yep, it’s totally normal.

And today, I’m going to reveal an exclusive video clip from a live seminar where you’ll see me in a Q&A dealing with a woman who went through this exact situation.

It’s easy to assume in these moments that you’re the problem. Or to think that you somehow have to figure out what’s going on his head and convince him of the right choice.

Instead, I want you to do this...

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[elisabreaban]

If someone wants to reach you, they'll find a way.
If someone doesn't want to reach you, they'll find an excuse.

[gabbygabs]

If he wants you he will make the time. Always keep that in mind.

[Mimi]

“Whether someone wants to see you should not be the hard part” unfortunately it took me way too long to realize this but thank goodness I do now

[CashAndSpanglish]

When he says “I need time” I throw a clock at him...

[kikij]

“Ok, I’m hearing all of this now...” lmao 😂 she is so cute! Sister! I feel you!

[MyDarling]

When he says he needs time, be generous and give him maximum time. Give him eternity and date other guys while waiting for him to make up his mind.

[storiesinthedust]

i was lucky enough to be there in person for this clip and i can tell you that experiencing Matt live and interacting with real life people was amazing. But one of the most comforting things about the seminar (that i went to alone i might add) was seeing just how GORGEOUS every single woman in that room was. Im talking everyone was spectacularly beautiful. I went into the seminar feeling kind of low about myself for even needing to be there. It should be easy right? But i am telling you the second i walked into that room and saw just how BEAUTIFUL every single woman was, i was overwhelmed with comfort and acceptance. If these beautiful women needed help the way I did, then maybe who i was wasn't so pathetic. The women i talked to were kind and smart and funny. I guess what I'm here to say is: ladies, were all in this together. If you get a chance to go to one of these live shows, you will be surrounded by supportive and kind and uplifting women who just want the best for themselves and each other. thanks matt for bring us all together!

[purplecatinlove]

I understand this girl I feel we all kind of fall for that illusion of liking a guy and sometimes are too blind and stupid to realize that "he simply is just not into you" it's sad to accept but it's part of becoming a strong person

[swtm]

I wasted one year making excuses for a man who was putting me on hold. What makes me upset is I would allow him back in my life and make excuses for him every single fucking time he returns. Now I look back, I was naive. It’s not easy to fight your feelings and emotions, but I learned one thing from him - Never waste your own precious time with someone who makes NO TIME for you. Period. You are worthy of being loved and cared for, if he can’t do that, say the word “Next”

Best wishes to you all out there! You can do this :)

[liz_lemon]

I really don't know why we so often forget that we should only invest when we're invested in.

[CB-brjc]

When a man wants you, he will do everything possible to show you.

[oAvalono]

*I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but he's awful for you.*

-The brilliant Matthew Hussey, also teaching me how to be a more reliable friend.

[AlejandraKnowz]

Ladies... nobody is too busy for 5 minute to text or make a phone call. If he really loves you or likes you he will make you feel as the first priority in his life. Before you decide to be in a relationship do look for
1. Someone who loves you
2. Someone who understands you
3. Someone who sees you important
4. Someone who makes you want to be better and grow together... I agreed with MH that both sides should bring out their best and put it on the table to share nobody deserve a painful feeling😊 cheers ladies! I wish you all will finally be happy with the love of your life.
Infinite love and abundance

[claireconover]

‘You can take all the time you want. I’m moving on’

[marishkaspirit]

Trust me, no matter how much you love someone, at some point you get fed up. It might take even years, but you always reach out that point eventually and give up. People think that once you like them they don't have to put effort and you're still gonna be there. They are in for a surprise, because regardless the gender, we all have limited time and patience, even when it comes to this. So don't take anyone for granted.

[MsYlatan]

"I'm not saying he's a bad guy, but he's awful for you" *drops mic*

[Lisa-dihg]

I'm going through the "being ghosted" phase right now. It's painful and heartbroken, but I know it's time to move on with my own life and happiness instead of dwelling on someone who doesn't want me.

[RaeDelCarmen]

Relationships are not suppose to be hard. If it feels like work, you're with the wrong person; it's clear when someone's into you. If you don't know where you stand it's because nothing's there.

[mojojeinxs]

I was a female barber and what I learned a guy will walk 5 miles in a blizzard to see a women he loves. If that aren’t into you they will give you accuses.

[bilingualsecrets]

As a guy this is an interesting video seeing that women are going through their fair share of relationship dilemmas with men, it would be nice to see single men and single women in a room together like this to start to understand each other more, and accomplish our relationship goals. #togethernotdivided