What to do when she wants to be 'Just friends'

You really want more from this girl but she won't give you time of day. Is it possible to get her to change her mind? Indeed, what do you do when a girl wants to be just friends? Watch this video now!

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00:00 - Intro
00:58 - Sponsors message
02:45 - Why do women friend zone men?
04:29 - Option 1
06:28 - Option 2
08:27 - Option 3

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Title: More
Artist: Land of Fire
Genre: Hip Hop & Rap
Mood: Calm

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[enforcer]

I was friends with a girl for at least ten years & repeatedly tried to be with her. So me thinking that there could've been something more kept trying. Well one year I just stopped.... Stopped being available stopped calling all the time & I came out & told her I was dating.... She cussed me clean out in jealousy she then & only then realized she liked me for a romantic relationship. That's when I let her have it & told her I tried for 10yrs to be with you. Now I'm happily married & not to her lol

[nanaofficial]

"The Best relationships are the ones not forced"💯

[TheGreatShepherd.]

Well said 🎯.But to be honest being on a friendship zone with someone you got feelings for " it will end in tears one day "

[theawesomeinc_]

Walking away is the best. Never beg for a woman's love lol.

[bryantworley]

I, personally, think that walking away is the best option, overall. Negotiating is no good, because the woman should already know if she wants you, especially if you've been friends for quite a while. All that has to be remembered is that a man should exercise self-control and not allow his feelings (and, ultimately, his loins) to get into an uproar for a woman who hasn't said 'Yes!' yet.

And no one should EVER think that they deserve a relationship with anyone who is not onboard with that. Thinking like that is what produces stalkers, etc.

[pontianekakoro]

This is how I do it: #1. There is simply no option of accepting that insulting offer. #2. If I demonstrate to her why I am the best suited for her and she insists, I will make it clear that I want nothing less of a romantic relationship and walk away. If she comes back to me within a reasonable time, say in under 2 weeks, I will pursue a relationship with her fully as if no hitch had occurred. I will understand that she might have had her uncertainties (they are normal) or she was probably going through something. #3. If I walk away and she comes back to me after months, a year or several, then I know that she has been in another or several relationships she thought would be better than what I could offer but they have disappointed her. She's therefore only coming back to me as a second (or third or fourth, or....) option. Now that's an insult and I ususally do 1 of 2 things. If the woman is still looking hot and appealing to me sexually, I will get intimate with her and dump her and tell her my mind to her face. If I no longer find her appealing even physically, I will tell her off and remind her everything and show her the middle finger. In either case, there is just no way I am dating the woman who rejected me on mundane grounds. I am not a wastebin. And, ironically, when you walk away, she will ALWAYS come back looking for you, somehow. No matter how long it takes.

[chris_]

Guys, it's not that serious. If she just wants to be friends, just leave. Have some self respect. And have an abundance mindset. Chances are that you'll flip the switch and she will not want to lose you, so she'll start chasing you. If that doesn't happen, it will mean you saved time and emotions on another girl and you will reap the benefits there. Win/Win.

[Wisdomkey]

If a man forced a woman into a relationship, she is prone to cheat on that man because she didn't wants him in the first place.

[michaelonyenuforo]

Your points are top notch. Most of the time when you're friendzone. it's always difficult to come out of it most especially if she doesn't find you as someone she will love to have as a boyfriend. meanwhile she doesn't want to lose your sight. it's manipulative kind of relationship when you're the one in love there. And The best option is to walk away if you don't stand a chance.

[pagesfrommylife]

I was friends, which later transformed being lover, then friends with benefits then lover again with a girl who stayed many 1000 kms away. Due to pandemic and war we aren’t able to meet for the last 2.5 years. We also broke up for a year. She came back to be lover, which again changed to be friends. I told her that I love her and can’t remain friends with her. She offered to be friends with benefits. I walked away today wishing her love, light and luck. I feel lighter dropping the weight of the one sided love, honestly I don’t feel too bad and somehow I saw that I’m better off alone and use the learning from this relationship.

[plotakiotrionqui]

You’re one of the few channels that I get notifications for every time you post and I have a plan to watch all of your videos!

[lempiezoangula]

Shuuu .... such a powerful message Jessica. It's a right thing to accept when you are not ready. It's hard because you feel hurt and feel jealous 😔.

[oaktownish]

If she calls you cause “she misses you” after you walked away you’re just a rebound and a second option!

[familoyeabiodun]

Woman!!! You're brilliant, you sure know where, when and how to talk....May God continue to increase your wisdoms and understandings. Thanks for the good job done.

[benergyk]

*Never try to convince a heart which doesn't like you to like you. It's like rain falling in a desert pm sand.*

[ridgerunner]

Good advice, just walk away. I had to do this exact thing about 10 days ago. It was not easy, I was very attracted to her.

[Dabsteras]

So tonight, i basically walked away, i sent a beautiful text, expressing my feelings, describing what i saw in her and what i wanted, but since she is on a different page, I have no choice but to move on... it really hurts... but i can't do this anymore... Deeply i want her to process what happened and change her mind, so wish me luck!! But if she doesn't change her mind, I'm taking my premium frienship somewhere else!!

[professionalamateur]

Option 3 is the only options when she wants to be "just friends". he didn't gather the courage to ask her out to just be her friend. He could have simply asked her to be friends. What kind of "friendship" exists where she gets 100% of what she wants from him and at most he gets 50% of what he wants from her? She merely wants to continue to get his attention, validation, and any potentially any other perks.

[pianolessonswithcollins]

Thanks Jessie, , value all the way❤️...we hitting a million this year

[raphaelbanda]

True Jessica you speak with passion can't force someone to love you the best is let it go the same way you find her still find someone else what is important is to focus on solutions and make a decision weather it hurt you or not and is to appreciate the outcome and always respect a person who openly tell you the position means someone care for you and looking for best for you because fighting too much you end up missing opportunity around you