She Wants A 'Break' | 3 Thing You Must Do!

In this video, we are going to talk about, when a woman says that she needs a break.
I'm going to try to really dissect everything in this video. Because I want this to be a one-stop-shop for you. I've created other videos which I'm gonna put up here on the link above about when she says she needs space, and what "I need space" typically means. So I want you to also watch those two videos after that because my coaching practice is revolved around helping you men get the answers and really change and impact your love lives, and get that love life that you want to cultivate that healthy relationship.

So a lot of times when a woman is asking for a break, she is either asking for a break because maybe she fell out of love with you, or maybe she just doesn't truly really need love herself. So you might have heard "Oh, I need a break because I need to work on myself" or "I need space because I need to work on myself", or "You need to work on you, and I need to work on me".

Here is what 90% of the time ends up happening when a woman says that. You beg and you plead, and you tell her "No, no, no, like, we can do this together, don't do this, don't break up with me, are we breaking up?" And then she is telling you, "No, we're just on a break, we need to take some time away from each other". Typically, maybe that will happen or maybe she'll just tell you "Yeah, we are breaking up".

But here is the thing then. You can have full control to get this relationship back, but you have to do exactly opposite of what you're programmed to do. And what I mean by programmed to do is emotionally, we react. So first instinct is we react, and our reactions are always trying to convince that person that they're making a bad decision.

But here is the thing when it comes to relationships, and I talk a lot about in my videos is individuality is so pure in human behaviors and in a relationship. And what we start to do when we're in relationships is we love that person, but we tend to forget that you are your own individual, and even though it's a partnership, you only have control of yourself. And that's why self-love and self-dignity and self-worth, all of that stuff that I talk about in some of my videos, I tell you that that's why it's so important that you have a 100% of this, so that you can have that healthy relationship, because when you come to a time where your girlfriend is saying that she needs space, possibly it's because the relationship had some flaws, let's just say, in it, and she is asking for you to work on you, and for her to work on herself, which is a great thing.

But here is how you take full control of this whole meaning of "I need a break", and "I need space" in order to get this relationship back if it's meant to be back. And I'm going to tell you that, and I'm going to give you tips on how to do this. What I want to emphasize here, men, is do not try to gain control of her. She is her own individual, just like you're your own individual. And you can't convince someone to be with you unless they decide that they wanna be with you. That's how they stay, that's how they stick. Convincing is only temporary. Do you understand what I mean by this now?

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[christophersorge]

Pretty much everyone who is watching this, is in this situation now

[brittanymurphy]

Being told that she wants a break hurts like hell

[adic]

Why can’t relationship be simple. Life itself is tough enough

[klpfigures]

I’m hurting so much. I’m strong enough to prove that I can do this for her. I will show her that I am capable of doing this. This is all I want truly

[FKtooswavey]

Damn a lot of people here are dealing with worth situations, I'm praying for y'all, deserve much better.

[Motivated_Motivation]

I think if this happens, then it's important for the guy to use his available time to become the best version of himself.

[sinistermagus]

Just give her the time she needs. Don't force her not to have that time. Believe me she loves you but she needs to regain control of herself. I know it's difficult guys. Support her, comfort her, respect her decisions and understand her. Trust me after few days or weeks. She'll come back. It's her right.

We're going through it right now. Two more months... we made an agreement to chat and call each other for a day every week. I believe her and I love her the most.

[lydiqbe]

I helped her heal family traumas. Helped her strenghten her self-confidence. I feel ripped apart hearing she wants to be alone. Thank you for making this video. I really love her and want to contiue watering her garden and have our flowers flourish. I am grateful for this gem you seeded in youtube. It pains me so much but your words are what I needed. One love.
P.s: brothers reading this! Please help yourself and your boo by doing what this lady says.

[MileticPVP]

this just happened to me, haven't slept in 2 days.

[deeblock]

EVERY CASE IS DIFFERENT PEOPLE ... TREAT IT ACCORDINGLY... AND PATIENCE IS KEY... KEEP YOUR SPIRIT UP AND GOOD MEN DONT FORGET THAT YOUR STILL GOOD MEN...

[chanman]

If a woman says she needs a break. Tell her no.. we can break up..here and now. Forget that place holder situation. Tell her to hit you up when she figures it out. Maybe youll be single maybe you wont. Just keep lines of communication open and keep trucking..

[ocscoreo]

Gents, speaking from experience, when a woman wants a break, just treat it as a breakup and focus on your self. Be stoic and firm. Maintain the masculine energy. Show her the door. Help her pack, etc. Don’t show any care. You are worth more than you know. Swallow that red pill and move forward. You are a man. Act like one.

[Summerbreeze]

As a woman, I've never told my man I want a break from our relationship, a break to me is going in the other room going to get my hair or nails done, taking a breather and coming back to revisit and solve our problems not running like a coward that can't multitask.

[oigatosm]

It’s been a day and by far this has been the hardest thing I’ve gone through. Coming from a man who used to play girls . I found the love of my life and this shit hurts.

[cookiebabe]

Glad you mentioned how the woman may suffer from depression or anxiety. Many don’t realize how mental health issues can have an effect on that. So yes! I need a break to figure out and think things through. If a guy isn’t willing to go to couples therapy with me, it’s a done deal.

[camo]

Thank you for this video, I have three kids with my partner and I’ve never wanted so much in my life. It’s really hard at times but I’m trying to stay strong. She’s worth it.

[stefanross]

Men need to learn to walk away, and mean it!

[BornToBeFamed]

Simply leave her alone. Let her reach back out to you. She will trust me. Focus on you and purpose. What i have noticed about women if yall have been through thick and thin, and she wants a break. She will learn the hardway and she will be back.

[Mr.Meme]

When a woman tells you she needs a break: don't stick around and be her emotional and psychological puppet.

[zenPlife]

It hurts.. it really does, but I know it's for the better and we will get through it and come out as happy and prosperous people. Thank you so much Apollonia for this great video!