How Do You Know When You're In Love | Q&A

How do you know?

[NN-jltd]

Ur spiritual and emotional maturity is nothing that I’ve ever come across. Sad that it’s so rare to find people with such substance. Seriously thankyou for your videos and please keep them coming, you are making more of an impact than you could ever imagine.

[dopeyautumn]

you should consider making a podcast, i would listen to them all of the time.

[lemontea]

please make "how to deal with rejection or unrequited love"

[pinkyless]

I tell my best friend that I love her everyday and she says it back every time, but we don’t mean it in the same way; I am in love with her. She is with someone right now and I refuse to get between them but I just know that even though she may never be in love with me I find comfort in the fact the I am still loved.

[sphumlilemkhize]

This brought me to tears. I can't wait to make that decision with someone who decides to love me too

[delaniekae]

Love is a choice. You decide to love someone. You wake up everyday and make a choice to be committed to them.

[elaine]

Every single word you say is so articulately beautiful and fitting

[sword]

Wow, such an underrated youtuber. love the vids man keep it up!

[Yeorge]

I said I love you, with all its consequences. She said it back, I thought we had each other's back. The first time I was vulnerable, that I had one of those days where I wasn't myself, she threw me away. I chose to love her, she was infatuated. I've never been this hurt.

[QueenZsWorld]

you and I are on the same wavelength. I agree 100%; love is a choice. infatuation is something different

[valerianicole]

The song you chose for the background. I froze in my steps and was like, "Wow. I need to go back to that song." And hearing your words with it. You're great man.

[heygirl]

Every high schooler needs to hear this

[rehakire]

The biggest thing I learned from my first relationship that I’m in right now is that LOVE IS A CHOICE. It is a waking up every day and choosing to accept and understand everything about a person. It’s accepting them at their high points and their low points. It’s accepting their flaws and everything in between. Love is a choice.

[michey]

my boyfriend and I are going through a rough patch right now and this just made me really tear up. today was hard. love is hard. and love is not enough - it takes work and effort. it is in no way easy, and I have to consciously decide to keep fighting for this and to keep working on this and even though it’s been exhausting, at the end of the day I would still choose him, and I would still choose this. sorry for throwing this all up in a public comment section, just needed to get it off my chest. thank you miles for your eloquence and raw emotion, thank you for reminding me why I choose.

[roon]

This is the first time I've ever completely agreed with someone else's definition of love. Thanks for your great work.

[carhn]

the only thing I know about love
is that I deciding that you are the person i wanna take care of in the way of love relationship
You are the person i deciding to share my life on the intimate level
You are the person i deciding to be good to even when i mad
You are the person i deciding to be exclusive with
You're the person i don't wanna see with another person
You are the person with who I decided handle bad moments with care

My problem is that maybe I think a lot and I look for answers everywhere.
I made this decision that even if I don't know if I'm ready for long life, I deciding you are the person I choose to be with in the " I don't know if i'm ready". I'm ready to not be ready with you. I wanna go through this phase with you. I decided you are this person.
Yes of course, when you are in relationships with someone, society assumes that you are gonna live with/have kids with. Particulary : But why with love, life seems long but with amitié life seems good? Because amitié seems to be in closed relationship with happiness and laugh. But love seems hard, seems a kind of big deal. We put so much pressure on love. Because love seems fragile. But amitié seems stronger. It isn't true. Both are fragile or strong.
You see this amitié positvely because your imagination project you in a happy future. So this future keeps you in the illusion that you will be on day at this day. and it's enough to tell yourself that amitié is happy and strong and don't have pressure on it. but it isn't the reality.
Every relationship should be paired with the decision. we are deciding to love our parents, our family.

Why do we say that we wanna experienced with others when every experience is unique.

[shokokakehi]

Why I started to cry, I don’t even know.

[obi]

while I was watching this and listening, in my mind I was thinking about her and man i almost cried

[arielfarra]

It’s funny how life works, I just got out of a breakup and yt decided to recommend this 💀💀

[Commenter]

I agree that love is a decision, but I disagree that you need to get marriage involved to make a conscious decision to love that person every day. Marriage is a contract, it's mostly needed for the material, worldly part of things. It signifies ownership, but when you love one another, you don't need a contract to prove the strength of your bond to one another, you don't need a contract to prove that they are forever bound to you, because there is trust. And I believe that you should only get married in time, when you really know that person and the shade of the fire that burns within their soul. Live together through the years, see them through ups and downs, through highs and lows, and only when you've built your relationship solid and strong should you decide to get bound by legal terms. When neither of you needs it to prove something. When you feel strong together without it and for good reason, that's when I believe you should get married.
I might be wrong, but the history of marriage is that of a legal contract. So I see it as a beautiful, emotional ritual that many people want to or feel obligated to go through because of societal standards, but I don't see why it would be absolutely necessary. I hate that so many marriages end in divorce these days...It's like the people don't know what they're getting into when they sign up for it.