How I Got Over The Girl Who Friendzoned Me

Are you trying to figure out how to get over your crush and get out of the friend zone? Here's the story of what I did, signs to know you're digging yourself deeper in the friend zone and how to accept and move on after getting rejected by your high school crush.

Have you ever been in the friend zone? Leave a comment below and let me know.

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[david-fevz]

I just got friend zone today that's why I'm here

[mariboraku]

i got over my crush... but every time I see her my heart skips a beat... like what the hell is this

[johnconstantine]

I don't think I can be friends with a girl after letting her know how I feel about her because it would feel weird. Sticking with her after she friend-zones you seems like a bad idea. She clearly knows how you feel, you are taunted every time you are with her and you never get a chance to move on. Just say your good-byes and split in a civilized way...

[justin]

I got friendzoned yesterday and its my first time. I don't like this feeling I need help ;-;

[sirgold]

I know exactly how you feel.. It was humiliating.. 2016 was just humiliating

[moleculez]

I just got friendzoned by my dream girl... 😭😭😭. I’m so sad 😢. She is the most beautiful girl in the universe... better than any celebrity. I thought that she liked me... I’m so I know that there are other girls but this one is the best ever in my eyes. At least we’re friends, but I really wanted to be in a bigger relationship... 😭😭😭

[arguine]

How can you not suffer from depression? This is something that is happening to me when I am at home, every time school ends I just had this sad feeling which I don't really understand. Probably the fact that I don't get to see my crush for a short moment of time. I am too scared to ask for her phone but I really want you to help with it and give me certain tips. Thank you Josh Speaks

[liltarantula]

Made it out the friend zone? You must be the second coming of Christ.

[ricpoversace]

We haven’t spoken in over third days. My mind is in constant wander and depression when i’m alone. I know she’s just not the person i remember anymore but my mind can’t forget.

[__Ka.i__]

I have been being friend zone with her for 6-7 years 🙂🙃
When I confess to her she said, ‘ we are too young’. And now she loves another guy ☺️

[subscriberaccount]

My ass got friend zoned today and I needed this today.

[asrieldreemurr]

I am being genuine here... You helped me, the girl that I liked friendzoned me, we still talk and what not but it was the worst feeling I've ever experienced. I have been through many relationships with girls and this one meant a lot to me. She was the most beautiful girl I have ever seen. She wasn't rough like majority of other people. She was kind and soft. We met over social media and we got comfortable with showing each other our face, I practically "fell for her" the day we met☹️. Her laugh is so cute ❤️. She lived in New South Wales and I was in Victoria. I always complimented her about how she was and the way she looked. The answer always sounded genuine. And they were, so I thought that I could start to make a move. The day before being friendzoned I was texting her cousin and she told me that my crush thought I was cute, funny and that she really liked me and said the same about her, she was pretty, funny, kind she had all the aspects of my dream girl. So I started to talk to her more. And then when she found out that I liked her from her cousin. She said this... "My cousin was joking, i didn't want to get your hopes, I do like you just not in that way, I like you more as a friend". After hearing this I was heartbroken. I finally found a girl that was perfect for me and this happened. Life is horrible, cruel. When something good happens something bad will. It is all just balance, some get lucky, me not so much. (Pls don't judge) the day this happened, (yesterday) I cried for maybe half the night. I looked for ways to say to myself "she didn't abandon me completely, she wants to be friends". But I just couldn't seem to get that through my head. Cancer's are said to be very sensitive and emotional so no surprise there. Idk if anyone even reads a comment this long about my personal problem but it really helps if I can talk about this.😔 For anyone who reads this far just because of me. You're a good person there aren't enough people like you. I hope one day you will find someone you love😢. I don't understand how to see the light in a tunnel filled with darkness anymore I could see us together in my future, what I thought would be beautiful but I guess not... Why does love hurt 😔...

Thank you

[jasonhightower]

You know it. If she's not interested and sees you as a friend. Move on and don't look back.

[SerbyWafflesTech]

No contact and they come to you eventually.

[wietzevanderwijk]

My experience with being friendzoned is having a great time with my crush. We both cycle to school and we have good conversations. She is very friendly, but that got me fucked up, because I did not understand her signals. She was so nice to me that I thought she was in to me. And I started to get feelings for her.
On Valentine's day I have her roses and chocolate. I few weeks after that I told her that it was me. She was really surprised and she didn't know what to say. Layer that day she texted me that she wanted to talk face to face. I was really nervous for that. Unfortunately she didn't want a relationship but I accepted it. At first it was very hard for me, bit now we still cycle together and still have great conversations. It is not really bad anymore because we are still good friends.
I am only 17 years old, so it will come one day.

[sifz]

3 years but I can't bare anymore... Thanks for these words. I must move on. Or at least try to...

[lacroixpoison]

Just got friend zoned but I got released from it by telling her I was joking and I wanted to test it out for someone else.

[kdrew]

As of the time, 45 subs more to go! I cannot wait for you to reach 100K!

[sidharthaa]

this is such a good lesson nd honestly i learnt something good from this....actually i dnt care much abt that person nd she can live her life as she sees fit!

[andresrobles]

Dude I just got into the friend zone today and it hurts she was my first real crush and I cried for a bit but what she told me was that she could date her best friend. My mistake was showing her that we were best friends which we are but how am I supposed to find the light in the tunnel when I see this girl in my future a lot more than I think