How to Get Over A Crush and Stop Obsessing

Some tips on getting over a crush and gaining control of your mind again. Here is why I say a crush is not real and not serious.

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[FrankJames]

Got any other tips for getting over a crush? Especially if the crush is English and dreamy and is named Matt Hussey?

[secondchance]

Solution: think of yourself as unavailable and get a lifelong crush on yourself

[sandrafacebook]

someone said "the person you've created in your head is not my responsibility" and that really hit

[rosajimenez]

"Their distance is what makes the appeal so strong"

[oresthss_]

If you really have a crush on someone you can't really see their negatives

[gummibear]

Unless you ask your crush out, you simply like the idea of that person. Not the actual person.

[iris-epqy]

Just remember,





Some people only come into your life to teach you how to let go

[Jkmfh]

I always asked out my crushes, knowing full-well they’d say no, because I didn’t want to waste time liking them. It worked every time.

[GentleGeorge]

"Liking someone doesn't have to be weird."
Dude, if only everyone got that mindset.

[daneillesaunders]

The worst part is when your crush talks to you when your getting over him then your like aaahh crap now I have to start all over again geez 😐

[oMarilyno]

I crush on unattainable people so that I can avoid real relationships. I hate being this self-aware tbh. #pitiful

[onceuponatime]

I am watching my crush giving advice on how to get rid of a crush😂

[mikaelapierce]

Whenever I watch Frank’s videos I feel like we’re just hanging out, chilling and talking about life. He even pauses and asks questions as if he wants us to answer 😂

[florentinaduquin]

Sometimes you crush on someone purely because you admire qualities in them that you wish you had in yourself...and when you actually try to connect with them it's superfical because it wasn't actually them you wanted.

[Christine.Baraka]

Asking out your crush is the best advice possible. I crushed on a guy for 6 months, he became my best friend in that time. I knew it was pointless to let it keep going on so I told him I liked him. He rejected me, but he was nice about it, and it didn’t hurt my feelings. After that I started to see the things I didn’t like about him, and was able to move on. Today we’re still great friends, he’s with another girl and I really like her. It can work out well if you avoid building up a fantasy for years like Frank was saying.

[alanmctaggart]

One issue I have is that as I get older the crushes grow deeper. In high school, a crush was just an abiding fancy, but now I'm 26 and a crush feels more like actual love. Maybe it's because I'm lonely, but they also feel more real.

[michaelshelbyedwards]

Married my crush!!!
;)

However, the “crush” went away a long time before we were even engaged. I love him so much; he’s my best friend and the father of my children, but the “crush” is a feeling that is long gone. In fact, I had to let go of that stuff in order to build a truly loving relationship with this man. Was it worth it? Yes. Get real, and you’ll heal. Good luck, kids!

[carnivoreyogini]

"The best remedy for liking someone is to just spend more time with them" Truer words have never been spoken hahaha

[jessicasavoy]

"The best remedy for liking someone is to spend more time with them." 😆😆😆

[maddbbekah]

“If you like someone ask them out, ” is the lesson I’ve learned. I have a brutal crush on one of my good friends/former coworkers and it’s taken over my life for the last year. I made up a hundred reasons why it “wasn’t the time” to tell him, some reasons arguably more valid than others. If I had just said something when the feelings started, either we’d be together and I’d be happy, or he’d have turned me down and though it’d suck and hurt, I would’ve moved on. Instead I’m trapped in a self-imposed limbo, afraid of losing what I’ve got but desperately wanting more.