Is Your Ex Thinking About You? Here's How To Know For Sure!

When you've been dumped, you'll continually be asking yourself if your ex is thinking about you or if they've forgotten about you.

Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals the #1 sign that your ex is definitely thinking about you.

Lucia is an internationally known dating/relationship expert, author of "Lucia's Lessons of Love", former host of "The Art of Love" TV and radio shows, a syndicated columnist and keynote speaker.

She has over 100 major national and international TV and radio credits including Dr. Phil, The Tyra Banks Show, E! Entertainment, 60 Minutes Australia, The CBS Early Show, ABC 7 News, Good Day L.A and the KTLA News.

Lucia has been interviewed by numerous publications including Details, Business Week, Allure, Elle and media from Italy, France, Germany, Canada, Japan, the UK, Australia, Azerbaijan, Chile and Denmark.

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[KingJack]

Suddenly pop in my mind?! She’s been on my mind constantly since the day I met her, including the 7 months since we broke up

[tlc]

No contact soldier here! My ex has been randomly popping up in my mind more than I would like lately...

[daveystrange]

If this is true then my ex must be thinking about me 24/7.

[myutube]

I've heard that narcissists also know when you're thinking about them and that it's when you stop thinking about them that they come back to hoover.

[gustovfern]

Once I dreamt about an ex coming back and I was not happy about it in the dream but we went back to together in the dream, when I woke up I saw a message on my phone and she contacted me after 6 months, I totally didn't expect that, the more interesting part was that, she also said something that I didn't like and I did not want her back anymore and the opposite of my dream happened, we didn't go back together. I honestly don't know about thinking about someone, I have only experienced that with some friends where they pop in my head then I see a msg, or vice versa, but never happened with a gf or ex before.

[badfrankenstein]

My ex popped into my head this evening. I wasn't even thinking about her. It became damn near overpowering. I swear I could smell her. I was feeling a very strong pull towards her, for lack of a better way to explain it. Thoughts of intimacy, like she was thinking about it, surfaced. There was a feeling of wanting, desire and even sadness. It was all I could do to remain in no contact. The whole experience lasted for about 20 minutes.

[SHRahat]

My ex left me 2 years ago, suddenly in July 2024 unconsciously her thoughts are disturbing me. Her thoughts made me stalk her account and see her picture. But believe me I’m in no contact for 2 years and completely moved on. But why in July?

[a.r.m.r]

Good Topic. My ex broke up with me almost 2 months ago( not yet the 60 days of the broke up) And I initiated No contact 1 month ago exactly. Some times I do things and suddenly I feel something that is not come from my mind or thoughts about her. Well...it is interesting. I agree with you Lucia. You can feel things about this person. Even the bad ones I think.

[Shinobits]

Haven't been with my ex for some years now. Found someone else that is better in all aspects and I'm happy. BUT... sometimes I still think about her. It doesn't hurt as much as it used to but yeah, I think it happens to everybody.

[starrdiva]

Very interesting! And on point!! New subbie here 👋🏾!! Do you have any thoughts/videos on ex-lovers returning after a death 💀 in their/your family? The whole sex & grief thing? I’m so confused 🤷🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[jabwinfinance]

It’s hard to tell if I get these thoughts about her out of nowhere because I’m always thinking about her but I think I know what your talking about. I feel big time connectivity the few times I’ve manifested her to reach out, which still blows me away. Unfortunately she wasn’t ready, even though it worked.

[JamesThomas-zler]

I’ve been bad, her birthday today sent a card… there is context that slightly excuses me, but I still haven’t given her the money I owe her 😂

[tearado]

Thank you for the no contact army phrase, one of the most likable intros on the entire yt! 😆👌💯

[esmeramsay]

I think we all simply think of anyone we know occasionally- has nothing to do with what they are thinking . It’s our own attachments or random thoughts nothing more . It’s the same at their end - they know us so of course occasionally they think of us - means nothing

[sashabornstein]

I went camping with my best friend this week in Colorado just after she broke up with me last Friday. We dated for nearly 1.5 years. At random times thoughts of her have gotten in my head like during yesterday and today while I was hiking to a waterfall and arriving at the campsite. She is under 25 for context. She broke up with me because I spoke to her about my emotional support boundaries, that I suggested she speak to a therapist because i have my own stresses, and some other reasons of hers. So is she thinking about me? How long do I go no contact? I still feel like trying to get her back

[FabzRoma-issq]

I know that it's not a love triangle/ My ex isn't thinking about me anymore/ I've learned to accept it and move on/ However, I'm glad that she is with the man who is her perfect match/ Convenience relationships are devoid of passion and you find out real fast that she motivated to be with you as the alternative to the single life/ There's no art of love to such a romanticized charade/ Words are insincere and everything is an act to make you believe that she is in love with you/

[GoldenbanjoDJ]

Get in, it’s back; truly a benevolent leader ;) my next request is a DM. Make it happen

[steveosterman]

Yes! Excellent topic. How about long-term after three years ? 🥁

[marionschekierka]

He thinks of me alot. I know because what you said confirms it. I already knew but thank you for validating my thoughts. ❤

[Oozaruu]

Mine constant blocks and unblocks me on snap even if I have no interaction with her. I noticed this due to me checking my ignored friend request since I am a personal trainer and see whom I need to add and her name is always there with no profile picture with a "by search." She's definitely typing my name out to go out of her way to block me. She's been in a relationship for almost a year now, but still thinks about me?