7 Signs a Man is Emotionally Investing in You (in order!)

Is he falling in love with you... or not? Here are 7 powerful signs that will give you a CLEAR PICTURE on whether a man is emotionally investing in you!

How do I know he loves me? How can I tell if a guy is falling for me? What are signs that a man is falling in love? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life... so I created a video that shares the 10 biggest and most telling ways to tell if a guy is truly opening his heart to you :)

TIMELINE
01:30 - How Men Fall in Love
02:26 - 1) They take the lead right away
03:26 - 2) They put thought into planning dates
04:20 - 3) They are genuinely curious about your life
05:30 - 4) They will stretch outside their comfort zone for you
08:38 - 5) They consistently "show up” for you
10:15 - 6) They CLAIM you in a clear and decisive way
11:09 - 7) They future-build with you
12:53 - Recap
15:17 - Closing

If you want more support in creating the life and love of your dreams, this is how I can help you ❤️👇

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[Mat_Shaffer]

QUESTION OF THE DAY - Whats your biggest sign that a man is emotionally invested in you? 😍

[skyy]

Men invest thru Actions
1. They take the Lead right away...planning your next dates etc.
2. They put actual thought and effort in planning your next dates/experiences.
3. They are genuinely interested in details about your life. Asking little questions about you and your passions and they remember the details.
4. They are willing to do things for you that are way out of their comfort zone.and being vulnerable even if it isn't easy.
5. They are Consistent. Responding to your texts promptly. Takes your safety and stability as his priority.
6. They claim you in a direct way.
7. They future-build with you.
🌼Thanks Mat💕

[laurens]

I wasted so much of my time on someone that I emotionally had feelings for who would tell me things like “I miss you”, “I love you”.. He asked me to be his GF & talked about wanting to get married & having kids but I held back because he I never saw him emotionally invest in me. His words never matched his actions. He even took forever to text me. Even phone calls were less than 5 minutes. When I did text him I felt like I was bothering & annoying him cause he would always say he’s “Working & Busy” which I understood but felt like he didn’t have time for me & never put me as a priority. Let alone feeling like he always had others he was talking too on the side. My intuition was telling me something was off. Obviously with how he was treating me. Saving myself for someone who deserves my time & knows my worth & value.

[annemariemaes]

brought me to tears, been dating someone 6 months and he has done about 2 of the 7 things. Makes me sad, but also shows where my standards are. Looking forward to your next program, I'm signed up already.

[brigittewhitmore]

My gorgeous man has done exactly 7 out of 7 of these. Mat - you’re an amazing coach and thank you for the insight! Good luck with your relationship.

[chobitsgrlx]

I’ve met someone, and he hits all the points on this list. I really like him and care for him. This just confirms the good feelings I was already having.

[morregists]

I recently started dating this man 2 months now but we’ve been close friends for almost 2 years . Ever since I met him even when we weren’t dating he did all of these 7 things but now it is more intense and I can’t help but love him more, I just found this video by accident great video. Thank you for this.

[angelokoli]

This was really an awesome to watch. I recently ended a 2year relationship and watching this made me realize I did the right thing. I was so uncertain about so many things. He said he wanted me in his future but never made plans with me. Crazy but I’m really glad I ended it when I did

[debieaves]

My man isn’t one to express his feelings for me verbally, but he ticks every box you list here through his actions, Matt. Thanks for reassuring me that he’s “in it” - even without “poetry and flowers.” 💕

[nevcbear]

Great info, Mat. Thank you! I took your mastery of connection course last time you offered it and it gave me a ton of insight into my limited beliefs around love. I thought it was fantastic and highly, highly recommend it! hope to see you there again! Really appreciate your insight!

[lauriesimonds]

Awesome video Mat - and I can definitely see you getting your ecstatic dance groove on!!! Just channel your inner Woodstock hippie vibes 😄✌❤🌈

[margarettoth]

This was very enlightening, ty. We met in person just over 6 months ago after meeting on a dating site. He does all 7 of these things which makes me very happy

[hawaiigirl]

Matt you are SO LOVABLE! Your advice is totally tangible

[zulenasanchez]

Thank you for this! I'm going to look in your videos for anything having to do with long distance relationships. I appreciate your content 🥰

[RE-hgyd]

True! Concise and very deep! Very well said🥰

[footyfanful]

I'm watching your videos to prepare myself when I get into a relationship.

[rainespiano]

This is useful I’ll keep them in mind! Thanks Mat :)

[ladyjei]

Thanks for this. I just had to block a guy I've only dated a couple weeks cuz he professed his love for me and was doing most of this. YIKES! It also helped me sort out more of a past relationship full of discomfort. I appreciate this!

[cassandrahokes]

It’s everything that was said! He is emotionally invested in me and I’m invested in him! We are made for each other. Thanks for the clearing it up!!!! I’m visiting him next week and he wants me to move with him. I’m so happy

[wipocahontas]

These are all great things! I pray to find this one day